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i want to know why it's such a crime for me to be happy please


Posted Friday October 23 2015, 3:42 am

Basically there's always been some type of distinction in my family. I've noticed my parents and my cousins parents make sure to slow down the growth process for all of us. If one of us gets a job or job interview they make us late on purpose so we lose the chance of ever being successful and it really hurts to deal with knowing my parents and grandparents don't want me or my cousins to succeed. Most of us are over the age of 18 and still don't have our licenses. It was also like that for my aunts and uncles. They had such a hard time with it and I know about the whole narcissistic family thing and that's definitely my family's problem but I'm so new to finding this out and I just don't understand why if my aunts uncles n mom we're treated ...

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Guys, is he jokingly asking me out?


Posted Thursday October 22 2015, 4:14 pm

Hi, he's star sign is cancer and mine's scorpio. he jokes and flirts with everyone but not in a gross way but in a playful way. stares at me a lot. caught him tons of times looking at me. everyone likes him. he wanted me to for a drinks few times together including others but i didn't as i was working the next day. so, guys is that the way of asking me out or is he just being friendly?

thank you all

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Need help please asap!!!*


Posted Thursday October 22 2015, 11:28 am

Im seeing my ex boyfriend for the last time tomorrow and i want to give hIm the best sex of his life,the best his ever had in his whole entire life..i want him to daydream,fantazise bout me nd the sex and have him come back begging for more..any tips,ideas,anything?

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Should I change my major to one I like or stay with what's dependable?


Posted Thursday October 22 2015, 12:24 am

I started nursing school in February. I originally was just going to go for an AA and then found out that nurses with AA's wind up doing all the lower level stuff and decided I wanted to transfer in January to a Uni to do a BSN.

Now I'm almost through my first year of nursing and I'm not so sure I want to make this my career. I like learning about the body, but I don't think I'm up for dealing with angry, injured, sick people for the rest of my life. At first I just figured "Well I'll just go straight for a Masters and do something specialized and not so hands on like Anesthesia" but a Masters is so far away and will cost so much money in tuition.

Now I'm considering switching to another major when ...

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Geology and Psychology


Posted Wednesday October 21 2015, 5:33 pm

F/19

Hi. I'm an English major in second year in Puerto Rico. The thing is that I used to be in Geology but changed majors because the mathematical side overwhelmed me barely starting out. Lately I've been so out of it, so unmotivated to do anything, that I decided English just wasn't making me as happy as I thought it would. I'm thinking about going to the US to do a double major in Geology, Psychology, or Studio Art. I love those three. Geology is really cool - yes, there's the math factor I have to work out, but I promised myself that I wouldn't give up so easily - and I'm particularly interested in Mineralogy, being a person who loves rocks and identifying them, I think its a good place to start. Plus everything always loo...

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what does he mean when he says this?


Posted Wednesday October 21 2015, 12:36 pm

Hi, he's a work colleague and we joke and get on ok. but recently, he's been saying pointing jokingly,'she's in love with me'. what actually he mean? the other day, he saw me looking in the mirror and he said,'you're very pretty' i said thanks. he jokes heaps as we all know but about this certain things he should not be. so guys, what is he thinking?

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To choose the "safe guy" or the "risky guy"


Posted Wednesday October 21 2015, 12:51 am

Hi!

So, just a little background; I'm a 21 year old female and the 2 guys in this situation I am talking about are also 21. One day my good friend J decided to set me up with his room mate that was new to town and he thought we would be good for each other. So we ended up going on a double date and the guy (We'll call him X) seemed nice but very shy. We exchanged numbers at the end of the date and he texted me the next day... but the texting felt very dry and very non-talkative. But either way I agreed to meet up with him for coffee a couple days later.
In between those days that we made plans I went to a party and met this other guy (let's call him Z) and he was sitting alone on a couch so I went over and introduced ...

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Help geting out of a rut


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 8:03 pm

I am having a difficult time getting out of what I think is a rut. I feel depressed. I am happily married to an amazing man, my high school sweet heart. My husband is in the military and is often gone. Recently 5 friends moved to the state we live in and lived with us for too long, almost a year to be exact. They now cut all communication with us which we honestly don't mind as they really upset us for the fact that they did not respect us or our home. Anyways I feel that my depression comes from knowing I will be alone once again. I am completely not motivated for anything. I been battling my weight for 3 years and I reach my goal but then I binge when my husband comes home from deployments and I gain the weight back. I'm often comparing ...

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Is xasten good for a nursing mother?


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 7:54 pm

Is xasten good for a nursing mother?

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How to talk to my Dad?


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 5:45 pm

Hi :) me and my dad had a huge argument about 18 months ago and we haven't really talked since then. It was pretty serious what he did but I decided to let it go with the urge from my step-dad who said to give him another chance.

We sat down and had a meeting about how I felt and all of that crap but even after I opened up, he was still acting like a high and almighty person who never made mistakes. But still, I'm trucking on.

I don't know what to say to him anymore to start a conversation. It will go something like:

Me: Hi
Him: Hi, how was school?
Me: Good, I didn't learn much.
Him: Oh, that sounds eventful. Work was boring.

And then we say goodbye. Even befor...

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Boys


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 5:40 pm

How do you tell a boy likes you?

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sex with sister


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 4:44 pm

Tips to have sex with my sister

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My teacher spanked me!? (today)


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 4:14 pm

Well, I am not so sure if he 'spanked' or 'smacked' my buttocks but he did something like that. He called me over to his desk which is in class, I was in trouble for something I didn't write. He told me to stand closer to him and when I did he started smacking/spanking my butt as punishment! I was standing, he didn't tell me to bend over and I still had my skirt on but he used his bare hands to do it. He did it a few times but it didn't hurt. I still wanted to cry though because I was so embarrassed!! Some of my classmates were laughing and others were saying its not right but my teacher told them that its 'OK' if its punishment!
Is it really OK if its punishment? Are male teachers allowed to do that to female students? I didn't tell...

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my friend think I want her crush


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 1:56 pm

Hi so I'm 16 years old and in the 11th grade. I have a friend that is not really a close friend but she started getting close to me when she saw, that me and her crush hang out alot. so a couple weeks ago that girl told me she have feelings for that guy let's call him jaden. I told her that I'm happy for her and then she told me that I'm the first one she tell to so I got Confused because how she go from barely talk to me to tell me something like that. the next day in lunch break jaden came to my table, in class and start talk to me then I saw her walk pass my class she came back and sat next to me. I guess she just wanted to make sure that nothing going on. a couple days pass and then she starting to tell me that they text each other and ...

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pragnancy


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 7:58 am

Due to kiss pragnancy happen



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he tells colleagues that,''she's in love with me'' why?


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 5:09 am

Hi, we work together and he jokes around a lot but lately i've been noticing that he stares at me tons. i mean everytime i see him, i've caught him tons of time looking at me and he wouldn't look anywhere but holds the eye contact. he's few years younger than me and we're from a totally different country and background. he has asked me to go for a drinks when we're out with other colleagues but i keep ditching. recently, he has started to say to others pointing at me,''she is in love me and she has ask me out or she can't go coz she's got a boyfriend'' and i say shut up, smiled and just walk off coz he kid around a lot. i just think it's a joke. he knows that i have a boyfriend but he has said twice,''she's in love with me'' he's in his mid...

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Why my PC can't install uploads?


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 4:58 am

I do not why, but my PC can't install updates. PC shows me some problems there and that i must reload PC. I doing that and then the same - happened nothing. What's wrong?

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Friend might really like me...what do I do!


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 3:53 am

20, female
Last January or February I hooked up with my friend (lets call him John) at a party, and neither of us ever brought it up later or talked about it. I thought that it was just because we were both drunk, but now I don't really know. My roommate was telling me how she always thought that John had a thing for me because he's always been kind of flirty, but I've always just brushed it off. I've noticed it, but I've kind of just ignored it or thought it wasn't that big of a deal.
A couple weeks ago, John had a small party at his house with a bunch of our friends. He kept flirting with me like usual, but then later we were sitting on the couch together and he put his arm around me. I was pretty tipsy at that point and was...

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Friendship drama


Posted Tuesday October 20 2015, 2:14 am

My group is two people who I'm really close with. I'm going to call my friends M and B. So me and M have sleepovers just the two of us, and M and B have sleepovers just the two of them. Recently B realized that we have never hung out/ had a sleepover just the two of us. So we had a sleepover and when M found out today about she got really pissed at us and hasn't talked to us since....

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This girl is alway appearing in my dreams?


Posted Monday October 19 2015, 5:29 pm

So I have this friend let's call her Natalie,we've been friends since kindergarten and let's just say I was never the best friend she could ever have growing up but I've changed and matured as a person, when we were an elementary school I wasn't the best at keeping secrets but now I learned my lesson and keep everyone's secrets. So basically me, Natalie and this girl were friends, Natalie and the other girl claimed to be "sisters" I was the third wheel with them and tbh the only reason why Natalie and I were still friends were because we've known each other for a long time, it was a new school (high school) and our parents are close. So summer of grade 10 Natalie had a crush on this guy, but the guy had a crush on my other friend....

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