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my friend think I want her crush
Hi so I'm 16 years old and in the 11th grade. I have a friend that is not really a close friend but she started getting close to me when she saw, that me and her crush hang out alot. so a couple weeks ago that girl told me she have feelings for that guy let's call him jaden. I told her that I'm happy for her and then she told me that I'm the first one she tell to so I got Confused because how she go from barely talk to me to tell me something like that. the next day in lunch break jaden came to my table, in class and start talk to me then I saw her walk pass my class she came back and sat next to me. I guess she just wanted to make sure that nothing going on. a couple days pass and then she starting to tell me that they text each other and how cute he is and etc. I can tell when someone is trying to make me Jealous. I just wanted to know what can I do to show her that I'm not interested and that she can have him Cause I'm really not with all that drama.
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I've come to the same conclusion as you, that she is interested in him and thinks you are horning in on the guy she has in her sights.
I dont understand why she couldn't outright ask you if you and he were a couple dating. She needs a bit more self confidence.
But since she did tell you she has feelings for him, all you need to do is encourage her to walk up to him and ask him out. Its a given that if you liked him, you wouldn't encourage anyone to do so. She can either spend her life chasing girls away from any single guy she's crushing on and neither she has the guy, nor the other girls, or be brave, take a chance and go ask him out. He might say no, but he might say yes which gets her closer to having what she wants talking to or approaching him.
I suspect that the way in which she talked to you and the way she's handling this, that she may be shy and/or have low self esteem and low self confidence. So tell her all this and if she's still unsure about how to approach him, tell her about Advicenators and show her how to post her questions here and I am sure many of us will be able to help advise her.
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