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i think my insecurities have ruined me.


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 9:38 pm

this may be lengthy, but please i have never shared this with anyone and NEED help.

When i was 13 years old i got my period in September for the first time in 8th grade. shortly after this, i realize now i went anorexic. i hardly ate anything, and i lost weight rapidly. my period never came back again a second time. i got extremely thin to the point where by ribs stuck out and my face looked sickly. the sad thing is, the whole reason i did this because i wasnt happy with my body. i was thin, but i had no boobs. i decided if i didnt have boobs, then i would get really skinny instead. its sad that i didnt know that i had no boobs because my period had just started and they had not started growing yet. so i was basically...

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Can I still grow to my full potential?


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 9:30 pm

I'm 14 and barely 5 feet. I started my period pretty early - the summer before I became a 6th grader, and I'm paranoid that I won't grow anymore... My dad is 5'7" and my mom was 4'11". I reckon I remember my very first doctor said my potential height is 5'2" and I was wondering if I really can see that dream come true. For the past few weeks, I've been sleeping alot (not because I was desperate to grow, I was just soo tired lately) and I've also been doing yoga stretches before I go to bed and I actually grew almost an inch in a month. But my growing has stopped. Should I switch my yoga rutine to the morning to get the best possible results? And do I still have a chance to reach 5'2"?

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Tampon Question?


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 9:22 pm

Well, I've had my period for a couple years but I've never used a tampon before.
Anyways, all my mom has are Super ones or whatever. Well I was wondering if this would be to big? Or if it would hurt.

14/f

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Should I join Judo?


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 9:20 pm

Judo season is coming up and I was wondering if I should join. I'm really interested and very determined to join it but my parents disagree to whether or not I should join. My mom really wants me to join because she wants me to learn self-defense and her co-worker's daughter is in it. But then, my dad doesn't really want me to join because the we have practice three times a week and I don't think he wants to drive back to my school just to pick me up (we live far away). Also, I severly injured my left knee two years ago. I tore the ACL cord in my left leg and it's currently been rather sensitive lately. So do you think I should join? I really need to decide right now because practice starts next week. HELP PLEASE! > <

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how to stop attitude from a "friend"


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 8:50 pm

hi i'm 16 female. i have this friend who this year became more involved in my life. the beginning of the school year was great we were getting along. starting around november she began acting differently. she's been giving me HUGE attitude and treating me like crap. i didn't do anything wrong that i know of and if i did do something wrong that i didn't realize i did it definitely wasn't anything terrible enough to be talked to like this. it's like that vibe you get when you know someone doesn't like you and has been talking about you behind your back. some days we talk nicely and civilly and then the next day she's really mean. i don't get it. she's not like this to everyone, just me and maybe a few others. she will tell secrets in front of...

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games for games


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 8:35 pm

i dont usually ask questions like this but i cant seem to get an accurate answer...is it possible to trade in games for games at gamestop?

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lubricant!


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 7:56 pm

Should a girl use lubrican the first time she has sex?

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FIRST TIME S-E-X!!!


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 7:51 pm

Im a virgin. and I have a boyfriend and we're rady to have sex now.But whenever we try to do it, I either become dry once he tries to penetrate me so his penis cannot go in.And even when I'm wet, I become very tense and can't keep my legs wide open so he still can't penetrate me. what should I do?I'm very desperate!! we tried several times and still we can't make love:( please help!

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being pregnant


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 7:07 pm

14/female
my best friend is going to have a baby and she is 13, she didn't mean to get pregnant but she did. she told me that she doesn't want to be a mother, and she isn't ready for this baby. Her boyfriend is 15 and he doesn't know what to do, she is living with him and his parents.and she doesn't believe in abortion. I want to know what are the chances of her having a miscarriage, will her age affect the her or/and the baby's health? or if anyone has had a teen pregency or knows someone who had...any information or advice will help thanks!

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Should I upgrade from Windows Vista to Windows 7?


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 6:39 pm

Hi,
I was wondering if it really makes a difference if I change my operating system from Vista to Windows 7. I'm wondering if I should go through the trouble to change it. Will it make my computer faster to switch to windows 7?

Thanks for the help.

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Does freeing up Hard Disk space speed up computer??


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 6:36 pm

Hi I just had a quick question.
I have a Windows Vista, 2.66ghz dual core laptop with 4 GB of RAM, and a 400GB hard drive.

My hard disk space is almost full. I was wondering does it really make a difference,in regards to my computers performance, if I free up space in my hard drive? And if so how much of it should I keep free?
Thanks for the help.

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Resizing Rings


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 3:52 pm

About how much do you think it costs to re-size a ring that's about a size 9, but needs to be re-sized to a 10 or 11? I also have two smaller rings from when I was younger, they're about size 5 and need to be re-sized to a 10 or 11. Any idea about the pricing? They're all real gold, one is white gold. So I'm not sure if it costs a lot more to add gold onto the ring to re-size it.

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finding a movie online for free?


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 3:45 pm

Hey, there is a movie that I saw on Lifetime Movie Network and I haven't seen it in awhile. I was wondering if someone can send me online links so i can go straight to where I can watch this movie online. thanks.

movie:

All american girl: The Mary Kay Letourneau Story

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new boyfriend


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 3:25 pm

I just recently got a new boyfriend and we were talking for about a month before we started going out. I'm already having a little issue. He doesn't seem to communicate with me enough. For example,on friday we made plans to hangout but he had to go to pickup his brother from college and he promised me he could hangout when he got back,he didn't call me or text me that whole night. On saturday,we chilled a lot of the day and all night and thats when we started going out. On sunday,he didn't text me all day and i finally texted him and he wrote back 5 hours later saying he was sleeping all day,which was understandable. Then today (monday) he just didn't come to school or tell me he wasn't coming or anything and he still hasn't texted me and i...

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marijuana distribution


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 1:53 pm

i live in NJ, how much marijuana/coke do you need to be classified as a drug dealer?

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weight bench in my bedroom


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 1:44 pm

hi 18/m
i bought a weight bench a while back. It used to be in the lounge, but it was an eyesore, and took up too much space. Then i put it in the garage, but i never use it, because i cant be bothered to go out into the garage in the freezing cold to work out. I would ideally like to keep it in my bedroom, because it would be convenient.

My question is, would it be ok? the bench itself weights 16.5kg (as far as i can remember), plus the weights themselves. Will the ceiling collapse through or anything?! will it be too heavy? The house was built in the 70's i think, maybe a little earlier if it helps?

thanks folks.



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is he interested?


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 11:57 am

so I finally met this guy yesetrday that I've been talking to for a while.
we talk just as friends. we flirt and send pictures to each other and stuff.
we hungout for like an hour becasue I had to be someone where.
it was me, him, his friend, and his friends gf.
they were reallly nice to me and suprisingly me and the girl got along which was great.
he taught me how to play pool and he gave me hugs and stuff.
he walked me to my car when I had to leave and he hugged me goodbye and it was seriously the best hug I've gotten in awhile. and he ssaid it was really nice to finally meet you and everyhting
i got realllly lost coming there to see him so they helped me out and when I went home he texted ...

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IM SICK OF MY LIFE..FML.


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 8:10 am

I'm a thirteen year old girl.Ever since grade three, the boys keep making fun of me. Whether its my skin color or how I am. I never told on them and I don't want to. If my parents hear this, they will be really sad. Before, When I was seven, my parents and I stayed in a house with an old lady who was really grumpy. She hated me. Pushed me in the hallways, frowns at me, and put a smoking matchstick on my leg :(. Okay, that was old, but now, In school....people make fun of me. Everyone except few who have kind hearts. Whenever some guys see me, they keep saying "HOLY _____!" my name :(
I really want this to stop. It has been three years, and they can't leave me alone and live my frigging life. I feel like running away. Tell...

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My husband who puts his hands on me...


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 7:09 am

So my husband and i have had so many problems last year....infidelities, anger, insecurities, unsolved problems, stress etc...and i can see it taking its toll on his part of the marriage.
I still struggle as well, we both are. But despite all our problems we are still trying very hard for the marriage because our feelings for each other are still going strong. So everyday we are fine with each other, we do talk about our problems sometimes but when we get in a fight, he cant seem to control his anger....

There were several times last year where hed leave me with a ugly bruise or two on my arm or marks on my wrists from being grabbed....i never thought id be in this sort of situation but at the same time i didnt find it...

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JaW CLiCKZ


Posted Monday January 25 2010, 6:16 am

Okay so basically my jaw clicks and gets out of place && it hurts A LOT!! I told my mom && she told me the same thing happened to my brother...it's been like this for a few months now...my question is DO I GO TO THE DOCTOR OR DENTIST OR BOTH??

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