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FIRST TIME S-E-X!!! Im a virgin. and I have a boyfriend and we're rady to have sex now.But whenever we try to do it, I either become dry once he tries to penetrate me so his penis cannot go in.And even when I'm wet, I become very tense and can't keep my legs wide open so he still can't penetrate me. what should I do?I'm very desperate!! we tried several times and still we can't make love:( please help!
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Use a lubricant. Also, if you're tensed, just relax. Picture everything that is going on around you and just let your legs and body fall back on the bed and become relaxed. There's no need to be afraid, which is partially why you get so tensed. Just let your body lay there and let whatever is going to happen, happen. Trust me. Just open your legs wide enough so he can get in there and then just relax yourself enough to let it happen. And definitely use lube, it makes it way easier for it to go inside you. ]
you can try and have him hold one leg up or put the on his shoulders. ]
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