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what should I do?
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:45 pm
Hello, I am 15 and me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about 8 months. And now we have broken up again. I love him with all my heart, and I know he loves me to, he just gets really confused with what he wants. He says he just wants to be alone, but then a couple of days later, he realizes that isn't what he wants. and now I know he is just going to do this again. What should I do?
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Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 10:28 pm
13/F
okay well me and this guy Jordan dated for 6 months and he dumped me in August. I know I had my chance before and everything but now i realize i still really like him! I really never stopped liking him acctualy. But now my best friend Chelsey is dating him!! What should I do? I can't tell Chelsey that I still like him becauase then She'll hate me forever. Should I try to break them up? Should I talk to Jordan about it or maybe straighten things out with Chelsey (( prefferably not )) ? Please help me. I'll rate 5's unless you're mean.
Sincerley,
Broken-hearted lover
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ive been crying for the past hour
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 10:02 pm
this is what happened..
an hour and 10 minutes ago my phone rang and my caller ID said it was my boyfriend so i was all excited and im like 'hayy' and my 'friend' answers so im like what? She goes 'hey its ***** im at the mall with *my boyfriends name* ahahhaahahhaha ok bye' im like what the hell that was really mean and i start hysterically crying.
so i call my boyfriends phone and she answers nd im crying nd im like 'can i talk to *my boyfriends name*' and shes like 'why are you pist' nd im like 'because you call me and your like 'oh yea were at the mall and im with *my boyfriends name* and your not haha'
Im like 'can you put him on please' shes like no why are you pist' im like 'can you put him on pl...
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Boyys
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 9:38 pm
okay i like this boy and i used to chill with him well i invited him 2 ma party but im kinda tha shy type and i really want to go out with him and just really flirt with him at my party wha should i do?
p.s. thanks for tha help
ASHLEEx3
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he's heartbroken
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 8:53 pm
ok theres this guy we'll call him matt. ok so heres the thing. like when i first met him he pretty much was my world. like i loved him sooo much. we had like almost everything in common. im 15/f and he's 18/m though. ok so he asked me out and i said yes. ok well like 3 days into the relatshionship i felt wierd around him. i dont know if it was the age difference or what..it was just wierd. like he started talking about peverted things which he never use to talk about. and kinda got like really personal. and i dont know i felt uncomfortable about the whole thing. and it was sad cause i just start going out with him. when i was trying to think of a way to break up with him. so i did. then its really weird bc theres this other guy i liked lets...
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How can I tell if it's real?
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 7:48 pm
I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks, but it's been a bit complicated - a week after we started dating, he found out he had cancer. He's had surgery and is on the road to recovery now, but I am worried that now he will only continue dating me because he feels obliged to as I was there when he needed me, rather than that he has an actual desire to be with me. I really like this guy but how can I figure out what is going on without offending him?? I'd rather have a broken heart sooner than later, so I'm keen to deal with this!
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Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 7:43 pm
15/m my really good friend,probly best friend in the whole world, who i really like is really depressed. her ex made her feal bad and she thinks its her fault and i never really have seen her happy since. Anyway what can i tell her that would help her. ive tried telling her it wasnt her fault and tried to cheer her up and it wont work. p.s. her name is christy and she is 14. no smartassy answers please and i rate high so please give me suggestions.
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Confused
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 6:28 pm
I was seeing this guy named Austin. I was and still am absolutely crazy about him. Well the problem is that I've been a cutter for about a year or two now. Well my cousin Jeremy stayed over for the holidays and I cut once when he was around me. He called Austin and said I cut because he wasn't able to call me. So he broke up with me because he didn't want to get in a deep relationship and have me kill myself or something. Would that be considered true love or true hate? He also hasn't called me in about two days now, but maybe it's because the holidays. PLEASE HELP! I'M IN DESPERATE NEED OF ADVICE!
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what is love? this is not a quest. but an anwer in my opinio
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 6:16 pm
To whom this concerns...many people wonder how to tell if one is in love..love is never sellfish, love is never conceited nor boastful, love is considerate and inexplicable, love has no interest in rewards or benefits of any sort, love is giving, love is comfort,love is praising and acknowledging,love is accepting-- without critisism, love is not jealous nor recentful,love is forgiving, love is sincere and truthful regardless of the reactions and surroundings,love is everlasting--even after death or part. If you seriously take a moment to ponder, everyone is sellfish in their own way, the day you place another person before yourself, (their wants and needs), that is love...the day another person's requests are not a challenge to your being ...
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hmm right
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 5:58 pm
i'm a 19 year old guy. i figured i'd start with that as well most other people start their questions that way too. she's an 18 year old girl. nothing wrong there so far right? well she has a thing for a friend of mine. but my friend doesn't like her at all. problem is i've developed some feelings for her in this time. we've gone out on a couple of dates hung out nothing serious really. but last night she feels it necessary to tell me she likes him. i knew this, it didn't stop me, and i didn't care that she liked him cause i knew how he felt towards her. now this was in a message she left me and since then has said nothing to me. now here comes m question:
why would she say this to me in the first place? what could her motive...
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my love life
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 5:52 pm
hey,i am going out with this dude that i am totally obsessed with.we always do everything with eachother.i guess you can say we are madly inlove.theres just one problem,are sex is not that good.it just dosent feel great,pleasing,fun.the last guy i was with it was awesome,but i dont know what to do.
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im so confused help
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 5:22 pm
the thing is that i've liked this guy since kindergarden and now im a freshman in high school. lets call him jason. but, then i met this other guy, lets call him ricardo. ricardo seemed like a really sweet guy and i started to like him, but deep down inside of me, i was still in love with jason because jason has always been the man lol. well, anyways, ricardo dedicated this song to me, but he sent it along with the music video, and the music video had horrible things in it... im not talking about people having sex or anything like that it was something else that was really bad. but, my mom is kind of overprotective. she sits next to me on aim and watches what i say. well, she saw the video and made me tell ricardo a whole bunch of horrible ...
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help
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 4:35 pm
this guy that I like wants me to hang out with him and a couple of guy friends. he told me to bring along some of my friends but the thing is i dont really have any and i dont knwo what to do its embarressing.
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He Doesn't Want to Talk About Problems
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 3:52 pm
I am getting married in four months. I have been engaged for four years. However, my fiancee and I have at least two major issues. I just don't know if this is serious enough for me to consider backing down from marriage.
My fiancee and I are not seeing eye to eye on money issues. He feels that when we are married once the bills are paid for each person should have allowance money to spend. The catch is the other person should not ask what the money was spent on.
An example is, he spends money on CD's or a football jersey that's over $200.00. If he used it from his allowance money I should not complain. I'm not ok with this. My parents have been together for over 30 years and consult every detail of their exp...
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SERIOUS HELP!
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 3:46 pm
LONG STORY!!!!SORRY
I'm 16 and recently went back to work at the restaurant I worked at the previous summer. I was surprised to find out that J., 20, had started to work there on the same day that I came back. We worked together last summer, I had no strong feelings for him this way or that.
I began to flirt with him immediately, normally I wouldn't do this, but I am comfortable around him. He's always set me at ease. I did childish things like throw parsley at him, he often attempted to throw it right back.
Anyway, as time went on we'd stand close together in the doorway, just subtle flirtatious things like that. Later, he began to flirt back with me by putting me in headlocks and lightly pushing me. ...
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guyssssss ahhh
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:59 pm
Okay yesterday I asked for help on this kid..who I decided to (on here..) call him A.
I asked him who he would ask out, if he had to pick and he said a girl who we will call E. She was going out with this kid who we will call P. So I knew A had no chance with E becuase E was with P. So..I just now found out E and P broke up. Now I'm scared that A is going to ask out E and it will make me miserable ..who KNOWS how long they will last!! Me and A reallyyy have something going on, he told me he loved me and that I was the second person he would ask out out of anyone. I love him back of course!!
I'm really good friends with ALL of them and don't want to ruin any friendships.
My question is :: Should I just pretend like nothi...
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well this is kind of a juicy story
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:35 pm
well my bfs friends who i thought disliked me with a passion recently told me he had liked me but he was a fraid of what his friend would say so he never said anything to me about it well i like him to but i love my bf im really confused and dont want to make the wrong decision well his friend kevin (the one that lieks me) doewsnt ever want to see me and mike ( my bf) together and it drives me crazy b/c i really want to see him well mike is already thinking that i like kevin but i denied it and now im lying to mike and that scares me plz help ~~~guy tug a war~~~~
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he never phones me
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:01 pm
my bf had to move to another province for a job two months ago. I was really mad at him because he hadnt emailed me since he moved. I was even angrier on xmas day because I finally decided to make the first move to email him and he never wrote back!! So I phoned him on his cell (it's very hard to get hold of him normally cause he works in the oil camp) and luckily caught him on his break. He sounded really happy to hear from me and that he wished he could be with me. He also said that his internet wasnt hooked up yet and thats why he hadnt sent me any emails.
Although I'm not angry with him anymore, don't you think he should have phoned me weeks ago to tell me about his internet not being hooked up so I wouldn't worry? And why...
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I know such a typical question...
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:12 am
I don't understand what I DON'T have that guys (in middleschool) would want! They are always going out with girls that are completely outgoing! I'm not COMPLETELY outgoing, but I am a little crazy sometimes. I wouldn't say I'm ugly or anything. I mean even my friends who are ugly get really cute and nice guys. I have a few guy friends, but I don't really know them even THAT well. They only open up to the outgoing crazy girls! WHAT IS WRONG WITH IMMATURE GUYS IN MIDDLE SCHOOL?!?!
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hey
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 11:08 am
hey i am stuck between two guys. not really but i have a boyfriend who i care alot about and he is actually good to me. well my ex who i fell for hard messaged me last night. he said he was sorry for all the things that he said about me and he wants me to choose between him or my boyfriend. see michael the ex we went out for a while and we even got to the point where we wanted to have a baby. and i stopped taking my birth control for him and i bent over backwards for him. and now i dont know what to do. i thought i put him in the past but i didnt all these feelings came back. but now i dont want to have to choose but imy heart is so confused. i care alot for my boyfriend now. i think about what we have and how good he is to me and how much ...
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