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hey i am stuck between two guys. not really but i have a boyfriend who i care alot about and he is actually good to me. well my ex who i fell for hard messaged me last night. he said he was sorry for all the things that he said about me and he wants me to choose between him or my boyfriend. see michael the ex we went out for a while and we even got to the point where we wanted to have a baby. and i stopped taking my birth control for him and i bent over backwards for him. and now i dont know what to do. i thought i put him in the past but i didnt all these feelings came back. but now i dont want to have to choose but imy heart is so confused. i care alot for my boyfriend now. i think about what we have and how good he is to me and how much he cares for me and then i look at michael and think god i could have a family with him but too young. and i loved him and he loves me. i done everything for him. i am so confused. please help me and if anybody has a smartass comment about it then dont write me. i want someone to help me not tell me i am dumb
Well g2g love ~me~
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It sounds like you don't have feelings for the ex anymore, but him talking to you is making you believe that you do. I think it's his feelings that are creating ones for you that don't really exsist.
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Well theres a good quote. "an Ex is an EX for a reason". Obviously there is something about yous that just doesnt click. I honestly wouldn't do it because you dont know what could happen between you and this boyfriend you have when you already knwo what has happened with the EX. Then if it doesnt work out with the EX youll be left wondering what the other guy would be like.
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I think you should be honest with your boyfriend and yourself. Allowing your Ex to touch you in an intimate manner already illustrates how you feel about your current boyfriend. You would not want his Ex to be touching him. That is a hint as to what direction you may be leaning toward. I am assuming that you have not told your current boyfriend about what has transpired. In the end you are actually going to have to stand up and make a choice. Playing both sides of the fence is deceitful, and will eventually hurt the relationship. Make a decision a stand by it.
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