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im so confused help
the thing is that i've liked this guy since kindergarden and now im a freshman in high school. lets call him jason. but, then i met this other guy, lets call him ricardo. ricardo seemed like a really sweet guy and i started to like him, but deep down inside of me, i was still in love with jason because jason has always been the man lol. well, anyways, ricardo dedicated this song to me, but he sent it along with the music video, and the music video had horrible things in it... im not talking about people having sex or anything like that it was something else that was really bad. but, my mom is kind of overprotective. she sits next to me on aim and watches what i say. well, she saw the video and made me tell ricardo a whole bunch of horrible things. ricardo was really sorry about it he said that he didnt mean for the video to upset me, he just wanted me to listen to the words of the song and the words were nice. so, for christmas my mom got me a sidekick, which has AIM on it. so, last night ricardo IMed me on my sidekick and my mom wasn't watching so i started kind of flirting with him and my mom was like "who are you talking to?" and saw that ricardo was IMing me but then she thought we had stopped talking and went to sleep. i told him only to IM me when I was on my sidekick. but, now im nervous and worried that my mom will find out. i dont want to get in trouble. im so confused also... i noe that im in love with jason.. but i've been having reacurring dreams about ricardo.. but could it be because of what my mom made me tell him? could i hav flirted with him last night because i was mad and wanted to rebel against my mom because since eighth grade shes been watching everything i say online and checking my emails?? and the thing is that im not a bad person. im in a all girls private Catholic high school and i get really good grades and everyone says im the nicest person in the world. can sum1 help me?? did i do this because of my mom or because i have a thing for ricardo??
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This is kind of like something that happened to me. I agree with askfroasnwersfromandie. You should just stay friends with both because if you dont you'll end up getting hurt. If you choose Ricardo, you'll have a thing for Jason and you wont know who to pick, it'll just be confusing. So, for now you should be friends with both untill you make a decision. Oh, and about your mom..... tell her you need some privacy & space & that your mature enough now. You dont need your mom to watch over your conversation & expecially reading your mail. Ask her why she does anyway. If she answers "im worried about you blah blah blah" say something like "im grown up now i dont need you watching over my aim convos, please give me some privacy. I'll do anything to prove im responsible enough," lol.
Hope i helped.
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Ok i think you may have a thing for ricardo . just let what is trying to happen happen but don't open your hart totaly for eather of the guys cus if you do that if the relationship goes bad it will really hurt you and also yes you were probably berebelias but not tords your mom like tords the fact the well i am a good girl i should not be doing this. like i think you should stay close to both of the guys and stuff but friendly close ya know like friends then find out more from there. but it does seem that ricardo likes you so . and also you mom needs to know she can not controle everything you do . its just not fare and you won't be able to go threw life like that something will end up snapping.
hope I helped
Andie
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