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he never phones me
my bf had to move to another province for a job two months ago. I was really mad at him because he hadnt emailed me since he moved. I was even angrier on xmas day because I finally decided to make the first move to email him and he never wrote back!! So I phoned him on his cell (it's very hard to get hold of him normally cause he works in the oil camp) and luckily caught him on his break. He sounded really happy to hear from me and that he wished he could be with me. He also said that his internet wasnt hooked up yet and thats why he hadnt sent me any emails.
Although I'm not angry with him anymore, don't you think he should have phoned me weeks ago to tell me about his internet not being hooked up so I wouldn't worry? And why should I always be the one having to do the phoning.? Is this normal behavior, or is he playing some sort of game with me? Oh ya, I also remember HIM saying "I was wondering why I hadnt heard from YOU."
I rate high!
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Yes, he should have called you, but he has probably been busy with his job that he hasn't had time to call you or hook his internet up. He might be playing a game with you though because he hasn't attempted to call you or e-mail you. If he never calls, hooks his internet up to talk to you, or anything like that to talk to you, then it'd be best if you saw other people.
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He's really busy. Making money. Guys don't play games, that's a girl thing. He means it when he said that nice shit to you. Don't give him hell when he gets home, give him a blow job to show how much you care.
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Yes I think he should've called you, but like you said he was probly very busy and didn't have much time to. I think he might be playing a game with you, but if not I wouldn't worry. Just ask him why he hasn't tried to contact you at all and see what's going on with him. Maybe he IS busy or just "forgets"..you know? Thats why you need to ask him
Hope I helped && good luckkkk talking to him<333
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If it has been months and your boyfriend hasn't called, I wouldn't consider him your boyfriend anymore. I think he's brushing you off. If he actually cared, he would have called weeks ago.
And why did you wait so long to call yourself?
If my boyfriend moved, I'd call to make sure he got to his destination ok. I'd be worried if I hadn't heard from him in a few days!
If you both wanted to make this relationship work, you'd be talking everyday. There is no point holding onto the relationship if you only speak once every few months. It doesn't seem as either of you care deeply for eachother. You can find a better relationship than this.
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