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Posted Sunday January 15 2006, 1:05 pm
17/f
I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months. But whenever we greet each other, we don't hug or kiss. We just say "hey." However, he is affectionate when we are watching a movie or something. But I want him to kiss, or atleast hug me when we greet each other. How do I get him to do this? I don't want to be the first one to do it .. because it might be akward, and he'd probably think "what was that for?" Help?
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What should i do?
Posted Sunday January 15 2006, 2:29 am
Ive dated my girlfriend for almost 3 years, I love her so much. Im 25 years old, and for whatever reason ive had issues finishing school and getting my degree on my way to a full time job and "grown up" responsibilities. My girlfriend is 23 and one year away from obtaining her degree. Since we met, she has been very supportive of me and refuses to give up on my school, which indicates the signs of a tru keeper. Lately she has been upset at me because she doesnt see me up to par with school like i should be. We have cried together many times about this cause she wants to be with me, but at the same time isent sure about many other things. Now i know ive failed her a lot, but is these reason enough for her to have thoughts of ...
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Im not sure about him!
Posted Sunday January 15 2006, 12:54 am
I like this guy, hes not that popular and i know people will think i was crazy if they found out i liked him! I dont know if he likes me or knows i like him. I always drop hints and stuff and he is like one of my good friends. Everytime we talk about who each other likes he says he dosent know who he likes and i say i cant tell him . I dont want to make things akward between us if i do tell him. I am really confused and i cant take it anymore.!
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dont know what to do
Posted Sunday January 15 2006, 12:34 am
i like this guy. its just every time we talk on the phone i get sooo nervous and i cant be myself, so i dont know what to talk about without sounding like a complete loser. so what can i talk about on the phone? help.
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Does he just want to be friends?
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 11:23 pm
I like this guy a real lot where when i think of him it seems like I escape from reality. Well a few weeks ago 2 of my friends told him that I like him and he told them that I'm just a really cool friend. well ever since then he has been hanging around me more, talking to me more, making jokes, and helping me when I've had problems. My friend says that he's been spending a lot more time with me than he used to and it does seem that way. all i want to know is what he really thinks. can anyone help me?
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want my first time to be romantic
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 10:24 pm
My bf and I have been together for a long time, but we've never had sex yet. I feel that I'm ready now and have already gone and bought some really sexy pink lacy panties and a matching bra. I have a new bed that I decorated with pink throw pillows. I want this to be a night to remember. This is what I had in mind: I was going to decorate my whole appartment with scented pink candles, and throw rose petals on the bed. I was thinking of having a tray of strawbarries on the bed and a bottle of wine for us to have before we made love.
Does anyone have any other suggestions to what I can do to set the mood? What sort of music should I play?
I'll rate 5s!
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please help me with his insecurities
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 7:02 pm
How do you get someone to finally let you into their hearts. I'm totally in love with this person but they are so scared to let others in becuase they aren't used to having someone love them so they totally ignore the fact that I do. We're still very good friends but ... I dont know what to do. Can someone give me an idea on how to make him open up to me and be my boyfriend? We used to date but he broke up with me becuase he wanted to sort through some things he said he's never felt a connection like this with anyone else but he's pulling away from me becuase I know he's scared, its been 3 months since we broke up, all our friends say it seems like he wants to be with me but one week he'll be flirty with me and then the next he'll try to st...
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This guy....
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 6:52 pm
Ok so theres this guy and I really really like him. We've never talked but hes so so cute I can't get over it. He has like, the perfect smile and he's adorable. Ever since I first saw him ,which was a while ago, I've wanted to be with him. I know it sounds cheesy or obsesive but I'm not. I mean if I was I would have talked to him already right? Well I really want to talk to him but I think it might be kinda awkward if I talk to him out of no where. No one knows I've liked him yet. But I might tell someone soon. Anyways, I was just wondering if theres a way I could talk to him without it being awkward or weird. I'm friends with some of his friends too by the way thats how I first saw him. But I really like this kid and he seems really sweet ...
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idk
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 6:34 pm
Ok well there is this girl who told me she loved me but she broke up with me like 2 weeks ago then made out with her other friend that she liked the next day. I was wondering she does love me again and stuff and i love her but i dont kno wut to do. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you.
P.S. I rate high.
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Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 6:32 pm
How should I ask my ex out becuase according to friends he still likes me and I want to take him to prom ... I'm very shy though so it can't be something very blunt
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a poem for him
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 5:34 pm
This is a poem I wrote about my ex-boyfriend answering a poem he wrote to me when we started dating and my best friend thinks I should give it to him along with a copy of his own can you help me? Heres my poem:
Clipped Wings
I’d been flying through the darkness for a while
Now I’m falling to the ground, my wings have been clipped
My fear consumes every word I whisper and every thought I create
If I’ve shown you what you’ve wanted, why have you ended this dream?
I wish I could turn it back a bit
You’ve been worth all the tears and pain if it means I will get my wish
You can make me wait an eternity to receive your love,
You can beat me for years but wh...
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Date
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 5:18 pm
I've known this guy my whole life and have never really been interested. We've always been friends and he's known to many people as the guy who's always looking to get laid.
We're both transfering college right now so this semester we're both kind of taking it easy at home and going to community college (I'm 20/f btw). Lately he's been IMing and calling me like everyday to hang out and sometimes is pretty vulgar. It's more jokingly than like offensive though.
It's like "We used to be friends and we haven't talked in a year so lets go hook up" um no.. Anyway to get to the point, for whatever reason I finally gave in and agreed to go to a movie with him tonight. I'm still not interested but I know he's ...
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making out
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 4:05 pm
hey im 13 years old and i want to know how do u make out with a boy?.....i rate high
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Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 3:52 pm
i know this sounds silly
but im 15 and ive never been kissed.
its all going to change tommorrow
and im going to be making out with this boy too.
but im nervous because im totally clueless on what to do.
and i dont want to tell him, or for him to know
are there any personal tips or sites you can give me ..thanks =]
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French Kissing
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 3:47 pm
My boyfriend and I started french kissing just recently. I know it's suppose to be wet...but are you supposed to feel nasty after you kiss? I think not...lol. I think the reason it's so messy is because I always pull away from our kiss first, and he's still at it...so maybe beyond my lips or a little of my chin is slobbery after I pull away from him.
So the question is: Is there any way I can, like, give him a sign I'm about to pull away, or should I just wait till he's done (I'd rather not...I don't really like frenching that much and he uses a lot of tongue...)?
15/f
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what can i get my boyfriend for valentines day?
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 3:22 pm
14/f.. alright can I please have some help. i'm really not sure what to get my boyfriend for valentines day (he's 15) so if you can give me some help it'd really be appreciated.thanks. I'll rate you♥
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All I Can Do Is think About YOU
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 2:06 pm
Me and my guy friend flirted back and forth for a lil while and finally he asked me out then he broke up with me 10 days after. We are still good friends but sometimes he gives me the same signals as before when he liked me,sometimes he acts like he hates me. I want him to like me but then again i don't want the whole drama of a new relationship starting up again. Well my question is, how do i get him off my mind?? I HATE thinking about him. Everybody says i talk about him too much help :( please
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*!i*U never know what you got,intill its gone*!i*
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 12:37 pm
Hey,
well im having a guy problem....so ill jus go ahead and tell you wut happened. Im 15 and me and my new boyfriend had just started dating..and its been almost a month but not quite there yet. We've only held hands and hugged and stuff..but weve never kissed...which is okay to me cus i dont want 2 rush. Plus the reason we started dating was becus my friend began to date his best friend,so they hooked us up. Well i thought we were doing pretty good intill like one friday he asked me2 go2 this fsamily thing to meet this HOLE intire family not jus his parents but all of them..and i was goin 2 but i was at a friends house and got home and had no time to get ready. So i called him and said sorry and he told me it was fine. So i figured...
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Long - Sorry.
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 5:13 am
This is very long, sorry. I'm just trying to provide enough information for you guys to get enough info.
So this guy used to like me four years ago (he was a popular guy) and I hated him because he was a jerk. He stopped liking me, I think. A year later, I started to like him even though everyone else still thinks he’s an ass. I just think he’s secretly very sweet. Anyway, this year he became kind of famous. Throughout these four years, we keep staring at each other all the time. It’s very odd. But none of us made a move till now.
Elaine and I are in yearbook (she is pretty popular too). We had to interview him because he won the “most likely to be rich and famous” thing.
So we see his teacher and we ask her i...
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guys problems :/
Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 12:25 am
I'm in love with this kid. No, I don't "think" I am, I KNOW I am. lol anyways..we've gone out about 4 or 5 times, we just split about a month ago. He said that he liked another girl that he always said he HATED. Anyways, I went to his football game the other night and they lost really bad so they were in a team huddle kind of thing and half his back and side were to me so he was supposed to be facing in the circle. But he kept turning his head a little and I knew for a fact he was looking at me. He did this a few times and I accidentally made eye contact with him almost twice.Don't you think that he's supposed to be listening to his coach instead of looking at me or something? Do you think maybe that he still has something for me?...
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