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This guy....

Question Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 6:52 pm

Ok so theres this guy and I really really like him. We've never talked but hes so so cute I can't get over it. He has like, the perfect smile and he's adorable. Ever since I first saw him ,which was a while ago, I've wanted to be with him. I know it sounds cheesy or obsesive but I'm not. I mean if I was I would have talked to him already right? Well I really want to talk to him but I think it might be kinda awkward if I talk to him out of no where. No one knows I've liked him yet. But I might tell someone soon. Anyways, I was just wondering if theres a way I could talk to him without it being awkward or weird. I'm friends with some of his friends too by the way thats how I first saw him. But I really like this kid and he seems really sweet so is there anyway I can like become friends without seeming weird? We've hung out together once but we were with a group of our freinds so we didn't really talk. He knows who I am but we've just never talked. I'll give a 5 to anyone that answers nicly cause I really need help!
Thanks so much! XoALyssa

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Shatari answered Saturday January 14 2006, 11:19 pm:
ok sounds like you need help ive had this problem before if you have one of his friends numbers that has his number call him girl ask him to call him for you and if he ask why tell him your reason maybe he could hook you two up.
Oh and no i dont think that sounds chessy or obsesive. thats how i got with my boyfriend my friend knew him and one day he asked me for a pen and i gave it to him but he never gave it back it went on like that for two or maybe three days then we started talking in school and stuff then one weekened i took pictures and i gave him one but i gave it to him before we got out of school and i put my cell phone number on the back and he called me then the next day we got together on the 21st of this month we will be together for 1 month anyway what im trying to say is show him you like him and give him your number and if he wants to talk to you he'll call.

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TheySayImNothing answered Saturday January 14 2006, 11:05 pm:
i don't know how much help this will be to you but i have the same problem too most of the time. and i always ask my friends for help. they always tell me to just go talk to him but i never know about what. i'm guessing you don't know what to say to him. when i'm in that situation i pay attention to things that his friends say about him and learn what i can about him. if you find out something interesting just go up to him and bring it up in someway. for instance you find out he likes dogs then say something about your dog(if you have one) or something that will make him be like "hey, she likes dogs i do too...maybe she's pretty cool after all" well i hope this helps and if it does let me know. this is the first question i answered so yea..

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