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well im having a guy problem....so ill jus go ahead and tell you wut happened. Im 15 and me and my new boyfriend had just started dating..and its been almost a month but not quite there yet. We've only held hands and hugged and stuff..but weve never kissed...which is okay to me cus i dont want 2 rush. Plus the reason we started dating was becus my friend began to date his best friend,so they hooked us up. Well i thought we were doing pretty good intill like one friday he asked me2 go2 this fsamily thing to meet this HOLE intire family not jus his parents but all of them..and i was goin 2 but i was at a friends house and got home and had no time to get ready. So i called him and said sorry and he told me it was fine. So i figured it was okay. Well On monday he dumped me and said "He jus didnt want a gurlfriend right now" And that "Its not becus of me" ....so here i Am ...wishin i went, i shulda tryed to go to his thing. I want him back and homecomings in a week....i wanted to go with him....what should I do? How can I get him back?
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Well given that you are 15 and you guys don't seem to have gotten that serious yet, then I would just let it go for right now. Try to be-friend him before dating him and start it over fresh. You said that the only reason why you guys were together in the first place was because your friend is dating his friend and you guys got hooked up because of that. And you also mentioned that you were glad that you guys haven't kissed yet because you don't want it moving too fast. Well maybe he wanted you to meet his entire family because he wanted to see if you wanted to take your guys relationship to the next level. It seems weird that he dumped you right after that, so the only thing I can think of about why he did this is because he felt that you didn't take the relationship seriously. He probably felt that if you really wanted things to be more serious that you would have wanted to meet his entire family. And since you told him you couldn't go he felt like you blew him off. If I were you I would try and talk to him and let him know in all honesty that you were sorry about that incident. Don't make excuses for why you didn't go, because he might feel like you are making excuses for yourself when you tell him you didn't go because you didn't have enough time to get ready. Guys don't understand that because it only takes them about 5 minutes to be ready lol. Just try and talk to him, without a time limit. It doesn't matter if he isn't your date for homecoming. If he isn't ready to be back with you by then, then that is fine. Don't pressure him. It is his desicion. Just find out why he ended things, and talk with him about it. If you really like him, and he really likes you, then you two should be able to work through this little problem. Just don't stress over it. Everything happens for a reason. I hope I helped.
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i say first of all, and i know this sounds Dr Phil-ish, tell him how you feel. if that doesnt work and he still says he doesnt want a boyfriend tell him you are really sorry for not coming and if that is the reason that he dumped you you should tell him you will make it up to him somehow. if none of that works, all i have to say is ask him to homecoming, and if he is going with someone else, forget about him. he said he didnt want a gf, so he lied to you. and you dont want a liar as a boyfriend. im sorry if that doesnt help at all..im doing the best i can. if you need anymore help, instant message me at crazy4him107..
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