Question Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 11:23 pm
I like this guy a real lot where when i think of him it seems like I escape from reality. Well a few weeks ago 2 of my friends told him that I like him and he told them that I'm just a really cool friend. well ever since then he has been hanging around me more, talking to me more, making jokes, and helping me when I've had problems. My friend says that he's been spending a lot more time with me than he used to and it does seem that way. all i want to know is what he really thinks. can anyone help me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? tcklebunni answered Sunday January 15 2006, 5:37 pm: Well I'm really paranoid so if I were you I'd think that he was using me to try ang get in my pants cuz he's knows how strong my feelings are. If you knew some of the guys I know, you'd feel the same way. But that might now be the case. Maybe he was just a little scared to say that he liked and it seems to me like he does. I know yo're thining, why would he be afrid of rejection if he knows I like him? well the anwser is, Girls play games and he might be thinking that you sent you friends to find out if he liked you so he wasn't exaclty sure how you felt. Maybe you need to tell him face to face how you feel. From my experience, guys hate girls who send messages through their friends! [ tcklebunni's advice column | Ask tcklebunni A Question ]
Shatari answered Sunday January 15 2006, 1:51 pm: Maybe you should ask him how he feels and if he laughs tell him you are serious and want to know how he feels about the situation.Hope ive helped.:) [ Shatari's advice column | Ask Shatari A Question ]
naimee answered Sunday January 15 2006, 10:26 am: He might think it`s really cool that you like him, so he`s spending more time with you to make you happy & maybe so he'll start liking you back. That`s super sweet. He must like you since now he wants to become closer. I`m sure he wouldn`t do that if he didn`t want to start liking you. [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
amandax33 answered Sunday January 15 2006, 2:51 am: I dont really know what he exactly thinks. But it seems like he wants to just get to know you a little more. Maybe his feelings will change and he will want to become more than just "good friends".
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trlblzr4u answered Sunday January 15 2006, 12:21 am: Could it be that he just is trying to be a better friend to you? Or maybe he's seeing how far he can go without "hurting" anyone. I say that because even though some people don't try they end up hurting someone in such situations. I mean when one person likes the other but it's not mutual. If he knows that you like him already, why not ask him what he thinks? He might actually tell you. [ trlblzr4u's advice column | Ask trlblzr4u A Question ]
rudy answered Sunday January 15 2006, 12:19 am: No idea as to what exactly he is thinking, however as a guy myself, i can tell you that he is obviously interested in you, hence the hanging out and beign helpfull to you...He might be kinda shy to make the first move, so its totally up to you. [ rudy's advice column | Ask rudy A Question ]
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