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other girl


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 9:59 pm

14/f
i like this guy, i'm pretty sure he likes me too. but today i wa son myspace and this other girl was super flirting with him. he was also talking to her like he talks to me. i was really hurt by that because it feels like he's playing both of us. but i want to win him over and get him to stop thinking about this other girl. how can i make him like me way more than her? what are some things i could do?

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phone talk


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 9:56 pm

14/f
i like this guy and he likes talking on the phone, but i don't. i just never have anything to say so it ends up being a boring and silent convo. what are some ranodm topics i could talk about so it's not akward silences the whole time?

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So, Birthday Partyness...


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 9:45 pm

Next week I turn 21. No big deal really, I was legal at 19 were I live.

A while ago me and my boyfriend agreed for a whole bunch of reasons to not focus on our birthdays too much this year, just do something nice for valintines day. Which was totally cool with me. But now my girlfriends want to take me out for my birthday.

The thing is everybody, even myself, wants this to be a girls night thing. I don't even think my boyfriend would want to come to the place they have in mind, but I'm not sure how to tell him that I want to spend my birthday with just my close group of girls. What should I do?

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boys..and..family


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 9:06 pm

Ok, well i really like this guy and well he likes me to. ok but one time he was going to ask me out but i told him to go to bed..not knowing he was going to.. so i guess i ruined that for myself huh. well like i really want to be with him, i like him so incredibly much and im not even sure why but hes everything i ever wanted. well should i just like ask him about it or just wait patiently.. if i should ask him..what do i say?..

Also..sister help. Ok i have a twin sister. and well we don't e ven act like sisters anymore more i guess you would say like enemies.. the only time we seem to talk is when were yelling at each other. well this is all because of her boyfriend. they have to spend everyday together or he gets mad and yo...

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Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:37 pm

ok...so theres this boy...lets call him Jimmy. and i've known him since kindergarden and i never really talked to him...like ever. and now we talk on aim a lot and hes 2 homerooms away from mine..and hes so hott. and i like him a lot. we have a dance on friday and i wanna ask him out before then but im afraid of rejection. what should i do? help...will rate 5's thanks
♥

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MY love life*


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:23 pm

Ok how can i make this short.. me and this guy dated for 7 months.. and i broke up with him because i thought I could have someone better.. and then i got back together with him like 3 times and then i broke up with him.. then just around my bday.. we started gettin all good again.. cause i missed him.. and then i found out from his friend that he had a gf.. well i felt like i could die.. i was so upset i cried everynite and i made myself so upset I threw up.. all the time.. I really love him it seemed.. and it was scary.. but then they broke up and i thought it was a chance for me then he got a new gf.. and i thought i was over him but i totally wasnt i still would cry everytime i thought about it all.. then she lied to him so they broke u...

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gay...


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:01 pm

Well this year has been pretty hard for me in the relationship category...
I havent totally gotten over my ex from this summer...We went out for like 7 months... And well ive had 2 well u can call them relationships after him... But they last for like a week cause its not the same... I always end up calling them "his name" and then its ends up in a big fight.. Well im a litle better now cause he was a new girlfriend and he is quote quote in love with him...
But recently this really hot guy moved in next door... I think he likes me cause everytime i go outside he will go and quidency go to his car and get something... And come to find out he is in my spanish class... Well moving on... I really really like him... I hav...

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boys


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 7:37 pm

this is the most common complaint ever, but i just cannot talk to boys, and boys dont like me. im 14, i am not really into guys, im not a slut, i dont do drugs, i dont go out and party, im on ski team, im not a big flirt and i dont really want to be, i just need good advice about how to feel comfortable around guys...and dont say "treat them as if they are your best friemd!! their onlyt human" come on i really need help!

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how can i choose???


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 6:49 pm

i have been going out with this guy for 2 months and our relationtship is great!.. but my best friend doesnt like him that much but she was fine with our relationship for a while... but the other say she told me that either i brake up with him or then she wants nothing to do with me!! she flat out told me choose between her and my boyfriend!!

how do i choose??.. i mean my boyfriend is great but i also love my best friend and would never want to lose her!

thanks.
--confused--

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what happend


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 6:31 pm

I met this guy(XXX)and his bro by one of my friends about 1 year ago and he was everything i wanted he was a bad boy always in jail and getting in truble XXX had just move around my way to live with his mom i was only 14 almost 15 in 1 month and he had just trun 16 and we really got along 1 month later he got on house arest and it was the best thing that ever happed cause i was over his house everyday but me and his brother got really apart and didnt talk anymore but i didnt care cause ill i wanted was XXX than that happend in aguest and then in november he left for alittle more than a year. when he left me and his bro got back together and one day he asked me if i ever liked XXX i said no and he belved me than 1 week later XXX came back i ...

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Love at second sight?


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 6:30 pm

Okay, so I like this guy Calvin and I didn't want anyone to know but my friend Collette ended up telling him. The proceding night on myspace.com, he sent her the following messages:

"hey tell jackie that i apologize 4 being an ass to her. i really am. and does she really like me? cauz i dunno if i wanna go out wit her. i gotta think. well peace ~calvin~

den i dunno tell her that its possible. i gotta think first. tell her to get aht me sumtime ~calvin~

kool den. well im not sure yet. shes pretty though. lol. and yeah i will. srry 4 being an ass to you too, peace ~calvin~

i dont know yet. iz she gonna be home tommorow? cauz ill mayb chyll wit her or sumthing. i dont know...

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its about love.


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 6:03 pm

well you see.
i met a guy named Chris over summer.
and he changed my life.
honestly.

i cant go one day without thinking about him

but the whole point is.
he doesnt like me or love me like I love him!!!

i love him with every beat of my heart, and he barely even wants to talk to me.

its been 10 months and i still havent been able to get over him!

its crazy
just when i think i found someone better than him, i change my mind and its driving me insane.

i want him sooo bad.
i NEED him in my life...

what do i do??
<33


-thank you!-

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Girlfriend has a wierd issue with me.


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 5:49 pm

This is probably going to sound pretty fucking wierd, but it bothers me.

Ok, Im dating this girl. Shes agnostic/athiest, Im christian, formerly catholic non denominational. Up to this point, with the exception of discussion, Ive not really had any issues with religions shit in our relationship. It doesnt bother me that shes agnostic, it hasnt bothered her that Im christian.

So, today we were talking, and I told her I was going to become a reverend in the universal life church. For those of you who dont know, its an online website where you can actually get legally ordained and become a reverend in the eyes of the law. I find this fucking hilarious, and have wanted to for a while, but never got around to it. <...

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Death


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 5:17 pm

My boyfirned of 3 years has just passed away. He was doing heroin with me and he took an over dose and his heart failed. I don't know what i can do without him I just loved him so much and I want to die right now. He was only 19 years old and just got out of highschool last year. I loved him so much I even lost my virginity to him and i can't imagine my life without him. What can I do this is the only person I have ever loved because I have serious issues at home. Someone please answer I rate 5's

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V-day


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 5:13 pm

My boyfriends birthday is on valentines day and i have no idea what to get him as a birthday present and a valentines day present. We've been going out for a little more then a month but i really love him. I want to give him something cute which he'll remember.

any ideas about what i should give or do for himm?

thanks;)

13f if it helps.

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THIS IS DIFFICULT


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 5:05 pm

well about 5 month ago my friends started to tell me this guy i barley talk to likes me. i knew nothing about him. but he liked me? well i denied it until he came to my face and said i like you. so for the last 5 months we have been writing notes to each other. he is always makes me feel good about my self. he is always flirting with me and touching my butt. well today he said he wanted me. HERE IS THE PROBLEM. he has a g/f!!! i dont no what to do. it is really confusing.. what to do what to do??

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Yeah


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 4:22 pm

17F.. i like this boy that i know.. and i think he likes me too, but i think he also likes one of my friends. hes one of the sweetest guys i know and we've hung out a couple times and when we talk its never silence we just keep talking the whole time about a ton of different things.. and there is this other girl i am friends with but shes known him since she was little so im not sure if they're just friends or what.. but i told her i liked him before and she was just like all over him after that. i was thinking that maybe shes just one of those girls that likes someone but would never date him or like that she just gets jealous when someone else likes him.. but me and him are totally on the same page and agree on almost everything.. and he ...

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should i stay with him?


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 4:11 pm

my boyfriend lives 400 miles away from me, i love him so much...i really do...we want to get married and everything i couldnt ask for more really...but all my friends hate that i am still with him just becuase we've only been together for 2 of the 9 months we've been together...and i dont kno if i should be siding with my friends in this situation, or if i should follow my heart =/
someone please help me with this

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Guy troubles


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 4:00 pm

There is this guy (let's call him Bob) and he's really really cute. I just met Bob a few months ago but he's very sweet and whenever I'm with him I get goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach (majorly) I don't know if I should go up to him and tell Bob I really like him or not. And he also dated one of my friends but they broke up, and I don't want her to be mad at me if I date him. What should I do?

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plz help


Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 3:17 pm

i have been with my boyfriend for 5 months but we are not together officialy itis supposed to be a flig but i realy like him and he admitted he has slepted with other lasses since we have been together i want to finish it but dont know how to or what to say but i realy like him and dont want to loose him but i dont him making a fool of me any longer plz help i will rate.

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