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boys..and..family


Question Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 9:06 pm

Ok, well i really like this guy and well he likes me to. ok but one time he was going to ask me out but i told him to go to bed..not knowing he was going to.. so i guess i ruined that for myself huh. well like i really want to be with him, i like him so incredibly much and im not even sure why but hes everything i ever wanted. well should i just like ask him about it or just wait patiently.. if i should ask him..what do i say?..

Also..sister help. Ok i have a twin sister. and well we don't e ven act like sisters anymore more i guess you would say like enemies.. the only time we seem to talk is when were yelling at each other. well this is all because of her boyfriend. they have to spend everyday together or he gets mad and you say one thing about him he will start yelling. so what im trying to say is that, well shes not really part of our family anymore and it realy brings me down. one because me and her have always been really close and now were no where near close and that hurts me and two..he has made her cry like 4 times in the first two months they were together and they've broke up twice. and i don't like to see her being hurt. but she won't listen to anybody. ive tried to talk to her.. so should i keep trying to talk to her..and maybe she will listen one time or should i just basically give up on her..?


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TMhelp answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 6:27 pm:
first off about the guy i would send hints to him mabey flirt or give him hugs, winks..lol you could start by becoming like close friends with him so that will give you a chance to feel more comfortable and then that way you will feel more comfortable tlking to him...As for your sister you need to sit her down and tell her how it is like share your feelings..but since its obiosly not just her you need to tlk to her boyfriend alone and tell him if he really cares about her he would let her have a life on the side too because having a relationship with someone its not just about spending tme with them its about spending time with family and friends to .. hope everything works out ....please rate me sincerly Tessa & Maxie

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greeneyedgirl9o answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 11:01 pm:
omg i hav a twin too! so i totally know where your coming from pretty much all we do is fight and people dont understand why but its hard to look exactly like someone( were identical) and not get angry or jealious! well anyway your question me and my sis, even though i told you how much we fight, we are best friends so i know what you mean when she has sumthing going on in her life thats hurting her i try to talk to her about it but my sister is very stubborn and i can tell yours is too! what i suggest is that you wait until he breaks her heart again or yells at her... pretty much anything that will give you a chance to use it as an example of why she is better than that. noone deserves that treatment so dont give up keep trying, and know that some people think that they need the love and thats the only place there going to get it. so dont insult her jus show her that she too good for him! ok well i hope i didnt rant on too much and i hope i helped you! talk to me ne time! -katie

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SpOrtieTXcOwGuRL answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 10:36 pm:
ok on the boy situation.... if the guy likes you enough he will ask u out!!! it may take a lil while for the courage to build up but he will!!! just wait and be paitent and he doesnt ask u out hes not worth it!!!

no about your sis dont give up!! never give up on her!! i would gentle with her mayb not bring up her boyfriend..... mayb even go to her on advice about the guy that you like!! so that then yall can slowly put the pieces back together and get to where you were!!! she loves you and always will!! dont forget that!!!

*~kaleigh~*

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