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ok...so theres this boy...lets call him Jimmy. and i've known him since kindergarden and i never really talked to him...like ever. and now we talk on aim a lot and hes 2 homerooms away from mine..and hes so hott. and i like him a lot. we have a dance on friday and i wanna ask him out before then but im afraid of rejection. what should i do? help...will rate 5's thanks
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ok well.. first of all ASK HIM!! yes like the advice before mine if he says no it will hurt.. BUT it will be worth it and if you don't ask him -- in a long run you're going to SOO REGRET it and wish you took that chance..
now.. if you don't want to sound corny or making it ovbious how much you like him then just act like you wanna go as friends.. have it seem like it'd be a great time to hang out and have some fun (hint hint: get him to dance with you) you can even be like "yo let's go to the dance together.. it seems like it'd be really fun to go with you " or something like that.. and probably the easiest way to ask would be on AIM.. if there was to be rejection it wouldn't be as bad as if it was to your face or in front of other people..
but don't think about that!! he's not going to turn you down and you know it.. it's just nerves =)
I hope I helped <33
Lindsey ]
ok my idea is that u face your fears the worst that can happen is he'll say no, and i know the word "no" is can be hurtful but sometimes its worth it! Trust me, its hard and you'll think that its embarassing but whats life without chances? Good luck and i hope u get the guy! ]
Well I have been there before. You just have to ask them or if u are to scared to ask them to the dance when you get there just maybe ask him for an ocational dance.
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