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MY love life*
Ok how can i make this short.. me and this guy dated for 7 months.. and i broke up with him because i thought I could have someone better.. and then i got back together with him like 3 times and then i broke up with him.. then just around my bday.. we started gettin all good again.. cause i missed him.. and then i found out from his friend that he had a gf.. well i felt like i could die.. i was so upset i cried everynite and i made myself so upset I threw up.. all the time.. I really love him it seemed.. and it was scary.. but then they broke up and i thought it was a chance for me then he got a new gf.. and i thought i was over him but i totally wasnt i still would cry everytime i thought about it all.. then she lied to him so they broke up.. but he wont give me a chance now and i really love him.. i really no it.. But i have about 5 guys after me now.. and i cant choose because i really love none of them i still love the other guy.. he says he just wants us to be bestfriends.. and its killin me i love him.. but its like he has no feelings for me now after 7 months.. i just dont no what to do* help me out..What should I do?
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Ok.. 7 months may not seem like a long time but from my own experiences it's long enough to make two people truly fall in love.. i don't know why you always broke up with him but obviously every time you did it just made you realize how much you truly wanted to be with HIM and now someone else.. now.. he could just want to be friends because he likes someone else OR because he knows you like him and that you're not looking into other guys and that makes him think he has no competition and can take you back anytime he wants to.. i think what you should do is to start playing hard to get.. and these other 5 guys can play a really big part.. -- if you make it SEEM like you're over him and "moved on" (by dating these other guys that like you or at least MAJORLY flirting with them) it may make him realize that he's not the only love in your life and he might start rethinking whether he just wants to be "good friends" with you or not.. it might even make him realize how much HE still wants YOU and could send him crawling back to you.. the thing is you really have to make it seem like you're over him and not go running back to him right away when he starts showing interest in you again..
I hope I helped <33
Lindsey
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I guess what they say is true, "You never know what you have until it's gone....". So my best advice to you is to let him ULTIMATELY know how much you feel.... trust me, if you don't, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I mean if he loved you alot, then he should be able to give you another chance. But bare in mind it's completely up to him.... but at least give it a shot.... and if you think about it, your not gonna loose your life over this or him, at least you'll still have his friendship. You need to let him know how you feel and that your sorry.
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