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GoSh im having really bad luck with guys lately. all of the people i think are sooo hott and stuff dont think im hot but ive started hangin out with this girl..i mean she is like one of my best friends and she is absolutely gorgeous!! all of the people i thought were hott saw my friend and they're all like oh my gosh she is soo hot! and im really jealous of my friend ..i admitt im jealous but i dont know what to do! and this other kid that i kinda like i mean i cant like him because i dont know him but he is just soo cute but he goes to a different school..so i dont even get to see him only once in a while..and i havent even talked to him yet! ahhh i dont know how to tho my cousin kind of talks to him but they switched quarters and now she doesnt know if he will be in any of hers..and then she says that she kinda likes him ..i mean i cant say i like him i just think he is the cutest thing ever and i would maybe like to hangout with him! please dont suggest aim..tried that..didnt work out very well..very confusing so i dont know what else! everytime i ask my cousin to ask him to go to a movie with us he is just like maybe i will try to make it! and he never comes..so that doesnt work! any ideas for all of this?! i just feel so ugly lately =[
thanks..
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don't feel ugly. Think about it, in the long run, do you want a man who loves you because you look beautiful, or a man who loves you because you are a beautiful person internally. everyone will grow old and loose their looks, but love will last, it will outlive external beauty!! I know that looks are what is on everybody's mind-girls and guys-during this day and age, but i just hope you wont get to concerned with it. you'll meet the right guy, and maybe this guy is the one. well about this guy. ask your cousin about him, is he nice, smart, or is he a jerk. then you will know a little bit more about him. this is a really hard situation because your cousin is not being very helpful!! I would say that you should try to get to know him and some of his friends with out the help of your cousin. And finally about your gorgeous best friend. Dont worry about it, just be confident with the way you look, think about it this way, you could be in a MUCH worse situation!! i hope you feel better about yourself!
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I had the same problem back a year or two ago.. my friend was drop dead gorgeous and all the guys loved being around her.. BUT i had an advantage because i was her best friend and so when they would hang out with and talk to her i'd be right there in that conversation too and it sounds like i was using her to get guys attention but i was just using her to help me ;) so..
don't get jealous with your friend.. stay really good friends with her.. then as these boys approach her and hang out with you two make yourself stand out.. you may not be as pretty (and that may only be in your eyes) but you may have an amazing personality or could be really funny and that attracts more guys than looks.. you can be beautiful but if you're a bitch or are someone whos actually really hard to get along with you're going to push guys away.. so just make sure you stay by her side and when guys come around don't be afraid to get them to look your way too..
as for this guy you like.. he doesn't seem to be taking much interest into you and your cousin.. i don't think he truly wants to hang out with you two as much as you guys do him.. honestly i don't think he's worth your time and you should be more focused on the guys that actually take interest in you and that you'll see everyday..
I hope I helped <33
Lindsey
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ok i had the exact same problem. I dont know how old you are but in the teen years guys like the girls who are the easiest to get to know and only look at the outside. If you are a little bit shy guys might be intimidated by you and dont know if you want to talk to them or not. Maybe you could make the effort to talk to the guys a little more instead of waiting for them to make the first move.
And dont get your self esteem down because of this. If i guy doesnt like you for who you are and only looks at the outside hes not worth it. there are guys out there who are nice and will talk to you. sometimes you just have to put yourself out there. be happy with who you are
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