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Love at second sight?


Question Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 6:30 pm

Okay, so I like this guy Calvin and I didn't want anyone to know but my friend Collette ended up telling him. The proceding night on myspace.com, he sent her the following messages:

"hey tell jackie that i apologize 4 being an ass to her. i really am. and does she really like me? cauz i dunno if i wanna go out wit her. i gotta think. well peace ~calvin~

den i dunno tell her that its possible. i gotta think first. tell her to get aht me sumtime ~calvin~

kool den. well im not sure yet. shes pretty though. lol. and yeah i will. srry 4 being an ass to you too, peace ~calvin~

i dont know yet. iz she gonna be home tommorow? cauz ill mayb chyll wit her or sumthing. i dont know! ~calvin~"

Keep in mind I have no idea what she said to him.
He's on my bus and when I said "Hey," to him in school, he just looked at me and said hi, coldly.
My friend Karlin who's in his class, told me that he asked her if I liked him and she said I don't know because the week before we agreed on keeping it a secret. I liked him in the summer and he didn't like me then.

Any advice on where I should go from here?
I don't want to loose him again. =(

Any help very much appreciated


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thisismydance answered Thursday January 26 2006, 10:02 am:
i went through the same thing. it will work its self out. dont worry about it. take things as they come. dont let it get to you. dont worry about it. just confront things as they happen. most of the stuff that goes through your head is just nonsense. if you really want to DO something. talk to him for yourself. you know that game where people get in a circle and someone starts it and says something in the person next to thems ear. and then the person they told tells the person next to them... and so on and so forth. when it gets to the end you know how bad messed up it is? well thats what happens when you go off what your friends and him say to each other. if you want to know something. take this from my experiance... ask for yourself. all the rest is just hear say.

-jodie

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