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I like him, he likes her, she doesn't like him


Posted Sunday February 28 2010, 1:25 am

15/f sophomore

Okay, so I know this may be melodramatic, but I am in love with my best guy friend. I have been since 6th grade. I just have never had the guts to tell him how I feel. I've always been afraid it would ruin our relationship. He's perfect for me; cute, sweet and a little sarcastic. He is my discription of the perfect guy basically.

Well, on Thursday, he told one of my friends he liked my other friend. No one in existance knows about my feelings, except for my sisters, so I pretended like I thought it was cute that he was crushing on her. It was terrible. He's never really had any other crush, his first one being in the 7th grade. After that he's never, that I know, had a crush.

I w...

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The One?


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:47 pm

I was just wondering, in your eyes, what does "the one" mean to you? They say "you don't stop loving someone, you just learn to live with out them" - Would you follow this, would you say it was truth? If you do in fact believe in soul mates, would you say that two people, though not together, can still "feel" each other? I'm also wondering if there's any scientific proof that two souls could be magnetically attracted to one another, or is that just a myth? It's curiosity that's got me asking, so anything you want to say about this is of complete interest to me. Thank you for your time!

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Complicated friendship


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:45 pm

16/female
So I've been friends with this guy for about three years and friends with his girlfriend for about four months. Well they broke up and I tried being friends with both of them. She said all these nasty horrible things about him. He called me really upset a few nights ago saying he was tired of what she was saying and I was like she told me this stuff about you and blah blah. I cheered him up said bye. Well today I went to my friends party and when I came in my friend came up and said that this girl his ex was really pissed and that she hated me because he told her that i told him what she said. Well the party was terrible since she basically made it all about her by crying and making everyone mad at me. I felt like a total b...

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embarassed that i masturbate


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:09 pm

okay so i'm a 16 YO girl and i masturbate haha. i like doing it, it feels great and i orgasm every time i do but i feel like i'm the only girl that does it... i mean i always read that girls do it a lot to but i feel like if i told my friends they'd be totally grossed out.
so my question is, do guys know girls masturbate? like if i was with a guy and i told him i masturbate would he be grossed out or think i'm weird or desperate or something? anywayss let me know what you think. thanks!

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Nuvaring spotting


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:04 pm

Never been on birth control before. I've been on nuvaring for about 5 weeks, and been spotting EVERY DAY. Will this stop soon?

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Rape


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 10:46 pm

I know this is really weird, but what are the names for the different types of rape.
Like if one person is above and one is under age then its statutory.
what are some more?
I also need the name for child on child rape.

This is for a project
THanks!

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not a virgin, but might as well be?


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 10:43 pm

sooo, i had sex with the boyfriend i had a while back, i know it wasn't the smartest thing and i actually did fall deep in love with him and then it ended... i don't remember much about loosing my virginity, but i do remember that we actually had to try a few times for me to actually let him go all the way in. Well now, i'm with my current boyfriend who i've known my entire life, and we care soo much for eachother. he hasn't had sex and i have with one other person, i'm not sure what it is but it's hard for me to do it with him. We tried it one night and we were both ready, and i couldn't ler myself untense my legs, and i think it had to do with being nervous about someone walking in, but i did let him in a little, and it hurt, just like i ...

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graduation hairstyle


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 10:14 pm

do you think it's better to have long hair or short hair on graduation day?:)

please help me out.:)

xoxo

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Knitting Mitts


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 9:23 pm


Hi, I am just learning how to knit and I was wondering if I can knit mitts with two needles instead of four or five? - even though the pattern says to use four or five needles. I only have two normal and a circular needle at the moment.

I also would like to know HOW to go about knitting a pattern that says you need four or five needles, with just two needles (if possible).

And.. does it matter if you use regular, dpn, or circular needles to knit mittens/anything?

Thanks!



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best friend cutting herself


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 8:18 pm

okay, so my friend isnt eating much. she's at home by herself all the time. her boyfriend doesnt get to see her much so all she really has is her pets. her mum also goes on expencive holidays when they need the money for food. how can i help her and what could i suggest to her? she's just started cutting herself and i dont know what to do to help. ive already done the usual; talk to her, tell her to go see someone about it. she looks so unhappy whenever i see her. what can she do?

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bad comment in my opinion


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 7:16 pm

so i have this crush who's obviously not into me at all but i kept having this hope that maybe one day he would be. but anywaytoday my friend was like do you still want to go out with him and i was like not as much as he used to. i would if he wanted to go out with me first and she said sorry but i really doubt that would happen. it kind of hurt my feeings for some reason. am i right to feel this way? thanks for the help :)

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helium balloons


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 7:11 pm

do helium balloons shrink or deflate quickly in cold weather (like 32-40 degrees Fahrenheit)
I want to get some helium balloons to leave outside for a friend's birthday and i was wondering if they would last overnight, or if i put them there in the morning would they last for up to 8 hours?
thanks! xo

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strange period


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 6:46 pm

so the last time i got my period was february 1 or 2nd or 3rd, its was one of those days, and the day before that, i was with my boyfriend and we were fully clothed, but he cummed i dont think my pants were wet or anything so yeah.. but then on feb 14th we were both fully clothed again and i was ontop of him and he cummed but i dont think my pants were wet then either, so for the past week or so my boobs have been sore, and i felt bloated.. and todau i got what i thought is my period.. but i dont know. my periods are irregular sometimes, but theyre always heavy and always last for over a week. but today i got it, my back hurt like normal, and there was blood. but i went to the bathroom just now and my pad is like all dried blood that looks ...

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Boyfriend wants to smoke


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 6:29 pm

So, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months now. We're really good with one another, and he's unlike any guy I've ever met. We have a lot of differences, which is alright by me because I couldn't live without the guy. When we started dating, he was really into getting high. He does use it responsibly, but he wants to do it for the rest of his life. He claims it inspires him to write music, play guitar, and to be spiritual. I respect this. After a month of dating, I told him that him smoking bothers me (No, he didn't do it around me, I just don't support any kinds of drugs). He quit for awhile, but now it's awkward. Every time it gets brought up we get into an arguement. I'm just not sure what to do. His friends stopped talking to...

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Does He Like Me Or Not?


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 5:57 pm

This guy that I've been talking to recently started texting me more and more. He asked me to go to the club last night to see him perform. He seemed like he really wanted me to go, so I went. He was pretty wasted, but he went around, grabbing my hand/holding me, introducing me to all his friends. I ended up sleeping over his house (ONLY CAUSE I WAS TOO DRUNK TO DRIVE)! and he tried to make some moves but I denied them because I don't believe in getting "intimate" too fast. The next morning, I left his house, and he texted me immediately! He asked me to hang out again today. I'm horrible at reading guys so I don't know if he really likes me or if he's just trying to get into my pants. Help! Thanks guys!

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cutting myself :(


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 5:57 pm

okay so im really stressed out at the moment. i live with my mum and my two little siblings are living with their dads and are really happy. mum and i live out of town so the only thing i can do at home is go on the laptop and do jobs. ive had a boyfriend for well over a year. so, the only people in my life at the moment are my mum and boyfriend. i also have my cat. my mum has a full time job so i dont get to see her very much. and she went to china a few days ago. i get so lonely. i feel like i have no one at all and im stressed out of my mind. i dont have many friends at the moment, they just dont seem to like me very much anymore. anyway, i started cutting myself on my hip, so people dont see of course. i feel like it help me because its...

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sore back!


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 5:17 pm

okay, so my back has been driving me crazy the last few days, its not hurting, its just uncomfortable. ive tried sleeping and sitting different ways but nothing helps. it has happened before, maybe a year ago and it got to the point that i started crying because i couldnt get away from the feeling. so i got a new bed hoping that it would help and it did. the bed i have now is only one year old. i was also wondering if it could be from my electric blanket. AND are these sorts of back problems caused from stress because ive been really stressed lately. also its not from age because i am only 16 haha thanks. im not sure if this comes under fitness so sorry if it doesnt :)

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Boyfriend LYING


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 5:10 pm



Okay,


My boyfriend has been looking at p*rn a lot lately and it really bothers me. It bothers me because that is what he seems to prefer rather than us having sex together. He doesn't tell me he is looking at it, He hides it. Whenever I question or ask about it he lies...and it is really starting to tick me off.

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break up or make up


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 4:08 pm

so my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 9 months.. in a couple days.. [technically 10] and i have been through so much for him.. for oever a year if you put it all together. people bullied me, i was harassed, my friends turned against me and now i have more enemies than i can count on both of my hands.. all becausehe broke up with his ex for me and i became a "home-wrecker" but she was cheating on him the entire time they were together and all this crap.
well, in the beginning, he was so used to just flirting with girls and having it be okay and normal in a relationship.. he used to call this girl baby and love and beautiful and i found out and i almost broke up with him. he didnt talk to me for 3 months over t...

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depression


Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 3:05 pm

This is it. My depression this year has doubled (if that's even possible) and I really need to see my doctor about it, only that I don't like my doctor because I think that he is a dick. And most medications I've heard of requires you to be 18 and I'm only 16. I know that excercising is an alternatives but I don't have time to go out (and I'm not even loud to). I'm always busy with school work but when I'm out I tae alternatives like stairs, etc.

I don't know what I'm asking for, maybe on if you think I should talk to my doctor about it anyways. It's really hard for me to talk about because I start welling up and crying (like I am now), but I'm not talking. But if I had to, I don't think anything would come out.

...

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