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Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 2:40 pm
Ok ive never made out with a guy before but when the oppurtunity comes will i naturally know how to?? cause i dont want to make a fool out of myself, thanks
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older love part three
Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 1:47 pm
Help me people, I'm in Limbo.Months and months ago, I briefly dated a forty-seven year old man(I am twenty-two/f) and it didn't really work out. He said he was still in love with his ex girlfriend back in the States(he is American, I am British and living and up until the today we both lived in Britain).
Despite our initial break up, we continued to see each other,and were sporadically sleeping together. The day before yesterday, I got a call from him saying that he was about to get kicked out of the country(long story, but he basically had a dud visa and tried to slip in to the country anyway-result ejection, even in yankee loving Britain)
So we met up-he invited me over to"watch a DVD" (you get it, code for "m...
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Finding a Man
Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 12:55 pm
Here is my problem. I am gay but I dont know how to ask guys out. I am always so afriad of what they might do.(e.i. gay bashing, beat me up,) So I just admire guys from a far and never talk to them and so then I end up unfufilled and emotionally drianed. Because I dont know how to talk to them. It is totally different if they come up to me or if a friend introduces them to me then I can usually be my charming self. But I just feel like something's wrong when I am in a gay bar for almost a week straight and I dont get hit on by anyone. So how do I talk to guys and how do I get over my fears?
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secrecy
Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 3:54 am
i've been with this girl for a few months now even though we are usually in different towns. i don't konw if she accepts me as her boyfriend yet, even though when i asked her about it she does not give a yes or now but merely keeps communicating with me amorously. How do i find out form her if she takes me to be her boyfriend, if she akes me seriously if she has someone else,etc. Thank you.
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Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 3:53 am
Ok if you really like someone, but they're going out with someone else but you know they like you, would it be stupid to wait for them? I really need to know what you guys think about that. Thank you so much!
XoXoJamie
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Golddiggers
Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 2:47 am
Ok so this friend of mine is really rich and all kinds of girls try to get with him all the time. He's had it happen a few times that the chick he's been with uses him for his money.
He says he doesn't care that girls go after him for his money because it's just a way for them to connect and get to know each other better. I think if a girl is after your money, she's after your money and she isn't interested in getting to know you.
If I had that kind of money and I knew a girl I was seeing wasn't in it for the real me, it would be a MAJOR turn off.
What is your opinion on this? Wouldn't it bother anyone that people are after such a supreficial thing?
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For girls to answer
Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 12:26 am
Ok I'm still talking about the same girl that I'm in love with, ill tell the whole story now though. Shes tends to like the assholes and i always try to show it to her that she needs a better guy, not necessarily me but someone good for her. I would do anything for her, and i want her to know that, she may already from some things in the past i just dont know what to do. I need ideas on how to get her, that might actually work, shes a really nice girl so i can do anything trashy, shes just perfect for me and i will never feel complete without her. Please give me some advice on how to get her in my life.
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Whats up with my ex?
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 11:09 pm
My ex's gf broke up with him again for like the 5th time. Each time it gets worse. She broke up with him like 3 weeks ago and he gave all her pictures and stuff back. (he wouldnt give me any of my things back. he told me i gave them to him so theyre his) Well 2 nights ago i asked him to come to a friends house and he said that he was chillen at one of his friends houses. An hour later he calls me up and tells me he was bored and wanted to come by me. So he came and we sat and talked for 2 hours. (we havent been together now for over a year)!(The same thing happened in november when she broke up and we hung out for a couple hours~his request) Both times hes told me he still loves me.(hes been with this "slut"(not even exaggerating)...
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I need major help...
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 10:33 pm
I have no idea what to do. There is this guy named Nick that I am totally crazy for. And me and him have gotten so close. He flirts with me hardcore and everyone thinks he likes me but I just can`t tell. He tells me a lot of stuff I am surprised he trusts me with and everytime we talk about me liking him, (yes he knows), he changes the subject. But when we are together...he acts like he likes me too. Everytime someone asks him if he likes me, he says no. But when I ask him if there is a chance that me and him will ever date, he always says "There is a distinct possibility." with this SERIOUS look on his face. I asked him to Sadie Hawkins and he said yes. I am so confused. What are some clues/ways I can tell if he truly does like me?
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Rock and a hard place
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 10:21 pm
So I have a problem ... There's this girl whom i've been in love with for over 3 years but i've never gotten a chance to be with her. Background:
I used to work at a department store years ago when i first met her and sparks absolutely flew and we went out to dinner and we talked for a very long time. She told me things that she's never told anyone. (She advised me of this) but we never actually got together because of conflicting schedules then i graduated high school and went traveling for over 2 years all the while I just thought of her and my feelings grew stronger! I couldnt stop thinking of her. (and I still cant!) So when I came back I took up the guitar and drums again and I've even wrote songs about her! I went to tr...
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3 different guys for vday!
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 9:55 pm
hey ya'll.ok well im 16/f and im kind of in a mess right now! this is kinda of long but if you bare with me i'll rate high! ok so anyway at the beginning of the year i started talking to this guy and i thought he was really nice and funny and super sexy, and we never really hooked up or anything but now all of a sudden a couple of weeks ago he decides he wants to, but i feel more like a friend to him now. but he got me a valentines day gift and its suposedly really nice says some of my friends. and i dont want to hurt him because i think he really likes me. so thats the 1st guy. then theres this other guy who i met around the same time as the 1st guy and hes realllllly funny and nice and cute and super fun to be around. but i was never rea...
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valentines day
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 9:53 pm
im having trouble coming up with something to get my boyfriend for valentines day.. i was thinking about making him a cd, with romantic-ish songs that show how much i love him.. like id do anything by simple plan, only one by yellowcard, everytime we touch by cascada.. stuff like that. i asked one of my guy friends and he said i should get him chocolate. what do you think?
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Asking guys to dance
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 9:52 pm
Ok well valentines day is coming up and i hate it. Cause it's always the time you find out nobody likes me and well i'm not ugly like i can show u a pic but i feel soo freakin ugly and unwanted when i don't get asked out or even asked to dance. So my friend told me to ask them. Do guys like it when girls ask them to dance? Or do they thinks is weird and depret? (sorry if i spelled that wrong lol)
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should i or shouldnt i?
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 9:43 pm
okay so its hard for me to tell my whole situation here.. but ill try. i had this boyfriend last year. and everything was great. i loved him soooo much. but then he broke up with me. we stayed friends, but things werent the same. then school was out, and it was summer and we didnt talk at all. i really missed him, i couldnt stop thinking about him, and i knew i still loved him. then school started again, id see him in the halls and everything, and i wanted to talk to him.. but i was just to scared to. i was always wondering what he was thinking. he finally talked to me in december. he told me he still had feelings for me and everything, and that he had just been to nervous to talk to me. we talked for a while, and after a week or two, he as...
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shawn
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 8:25 pm
i have a great friend...(but i know never to start to like a freind)but its hard not too.I love him(not like that) .HE so nice and sweet and things have happened.....were not like friends that do things after school we do little things in school .i know i like him not that i know he likes me but im hapy around him and just today he asked me to sit with him and theres a lot of spaces on the bus i was really happy about it and he acted shy..?i dont know why i acted shy too and i knew i was. do i like him ????????????????i think i do
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confused
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 7:57 pm
i am 13/f and i like guy he is 16 he is my neighbor and we do almost everything together football basketball swim soccer its awsome we are like best friend and well he has a great personality and is really hot lol but i like him a lot and if i telll him then it mite screw up our friendship or we could just stay best friends i need some advice please i rate really high!!!
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So lost
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 7:50 pm
Well I like this guy Adam, me him and a bunch of other people went to see When a stranger calls and threw the whole movie we were flirting and you know the rest. Well Carly, the person who organzied the little get together. Well her mom came and she has a van it was really cramped up front so, a couple people (Me, Adam, 4 other friends) moved to the back and we laid down because Carly`s mom had a old van and it was able to turn the back into a bed so we did that. I was tired so I used Adam as a pillow and then I got up to fix my shoe (I had sandles on) and then I laid back down and he put his arm around my waist. & from about 11pm-2am we sat there kissing, holding hands so forth. Then I was confused because I didnt know he liked me lik...
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boy problems
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 7:22 pm
so i met this guy at the movies friday and he use to go out with one fo my 'friends' if u say that but they had a horrible break up or w/e ; well he askes for my # and when i left he kissed me goodbye - i talked to him that night and my friend he use to go out w. was having a going away party saturday night and he's like go cause i am - i wasn't gonna but since he was i was liek alright
well all night my friend was worried about him and he called me a couple times and told me he was on his way ; but i couldn't tell her that it was him b/c it just seemed wrong - well the ended up fighting and yah he left but he came down and kissed me goodbye and one of her friends saw but i know her and hes like 'this never ...
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What do I do?
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 6:59 pm
Hi,
ok, so i have a friends with benefits kinda thing with this guy. we have been FBB's since november. I have liked him since december. I do not know what to do. we are such great friends and i can never tell if he likes me back or not. how do i find out? if i tell him how i feel, then i think it will be awkward around him and stuff. i dont wanna keep on doing stuff with him anymore if it doesnt mean anything to him.
i am so sad!
what do i do??
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Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 6:05 pm
Well i've liked this girl for awhile. I am planing to tell her how i feel on Valentines Day. Are there any ideas how I could tell her? Also, are there any gift ideas?
Thanks in advance!
P.S. - We are both 13, and she is kind of a silly person if that helps any...
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