so i met this guy at the movies friday and he use to go out with one fo my 'friends' if u say that but they had a horrible break up or w/e ; well he askes for my # and when i left he kissed me goodbye - i talked to him that night and my friend he use to go out w. was having a going away party saturday night and he's like go cause i am - i wasn't gonna but since he was i was liek alright
well all night my friend was worried about him and he called me a couple times and told me he was on his way ; but i couldn't tell her that it was him b/c it just seemed wrong - well the ended up fighting and yah he left but he came down and kissed me goodbye and one of her friends saw but i know her and hes like 'this never happened' to her
well i talked to him a again and for the superbowl he said i could go over his house so me and my friend went and he had friends over too ; then this girl who is best friends with the one he use to go out with came too.and me and him were on the couch together kissing and whatever . so im afraid shes gonna go tell the other girl about us and i'll get stuck in all this drama
also a lot of people say he's a player and i don't really know what to expect we talk alot and he sounds like a great guy . but if i get in that drama with my friend when she gets home and he ends up screwing me over i'll just seem like an idiot ; and i really don't know what to do because i think i like him but i don't know if it's worth it because me and this girl aren't good friends at all and i don't even like her that much i just dont find the need to have enemies if you know what i mean
he's also getting my mind off my last bf and we started talking on valentine's day so yah he just makes everything better and really seems to care - but he can just be a good pplayer
please help me because i really don't know how to go about this whole problem
-thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Tuesday February 7 2006, 11:43 pm: You and that girl don't seem to be very good friends so you shouldn't worry so much. I know you don't want to start arguing or anything but if she gets jelous she will get mad. That's the stupid thing about girls like that. You should talk to her about it before her best friend tells her anything. Tell her the truth and that you might like him. They are over and they broke up for a reason so it doesn't mean that no other girl can go out with him. When people say that he is a player don't belive them because you don't know that for sure. Get to know him more and just hang out and see how he is. When guys go out with a lot of girls and stuff does not mean they are players. People get that confused a lot. Anyways, just tell your "friend" about you guys and if she gets mad and jelous then that's her problem so don't even listen to her. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ninobluv answered Tuesday February 7 2006, 8:21 pm: wooooooow well 1st i have to say is that is you and this girl arnt really good freinds than i dont see the big deel but what you need to kno is find out why theu brock up and may be you can ask her why but about people saying hes a player well people say alot of stuff so if you think you can trust him than go and dont mind what people say cuz after a wile every one will for get about that ok well yeah you kno LATERZ [ ninobluv's advice column | Ask ninobluv A Question ]
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