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So lost
Well I like this guy Adam, me him and a bunch of other people went to see When a stranger calls and threw the whole movie we were flirting and you know the rest. Well Carly, the person who organzied the little get together. Well her mom came and she has a van it was really cramped up front so, a couple people (Me, Adam, 4 other friends) moved to the back and we laid down because Carly`s mom had a old van and it was able to turn the back into a bed so we did that. I was tired so I used Adam as a pillow and then I got up to fix my shoe (I had sandles on) and then I laid back down and he put his arm around my waist. & from about 11pm-2am we sat there kissing, holding hands so forth. Then I was confused because I didnt know he liked me like that so I called him and he said we should keep that to ourselves so I was like okay. Then he asked out Danielle ( a good friend of mine, she didnt go to the movies ) and I was lost because he just held my hand and kissed me then asked out my best friend. She hasnt said yes or no yet, but I really want him. I dont know how to get him to be mine and not hers. Please help !
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Aww...well I know how this is going to sound to you, but no, you don't love him and he most certainly doesn't love you back. You are infatuated with him. Love needs passion, like what you have, but it also needs romance and committment, both of which you do not have. What you are feeling is attraction and lust. Sure, you may like his personality too, but there is no emotional connection. Trust me, I know exactly how you feel. It still hurts when I look back on when I got played. It hurts a lot, however, I realize that it was something I let happen to me by the way I went about letting him know that I liked him. The things he said to me, he wasn't being serious about, he was just following suit with what I was doing and having fun with it. He wasn't serious and I was. The worst part about it, though, wasn't how I felt it was that I almost missed my chance with my current boyfriend because I dwelled on the other guy. Even though I'm still hurt by what happened I've gotten over the guy. Just be patient, you'll be okay. There will be other guys and other opportunities. There are lots of guys out there that you could be happy with. Take your time if you need it. Admit to yourself that nothing worthwhile is going to happen between you and Adam. That is the first step. I wish you strength and luck.
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Just because a person makes out with you doesn't mean they like you. You were sleeping on him. You practically threw yourself at him and he wasn't about to pass up the offer especially since he's single and you're, I'm guessing quite good looking. He really played you. It was a nasty thing to do, but don't get attached to him. He's not worth it even if you like him. He won't be loyal to you. Try to talk your friend out of dating him to. Don't do it for you, do it for her. If either of you date him, you're just asking to get hurt. I'm so sorry that this happend to you, I've been played really bad in the past too, so I know how much it sucks. Try to get over him and don't let your feelings for him control your actions. In other words, follow your head and not your heart. Be smart about it. Some advice for the future: don't put out so much until you are more sure of his feelings for you and his intentions. Don't make out with a guy unless you know he likes you. This requires actually talking to him about it, which can be really hard, but can help prevent stuff like this from happening in the future. I hope I helped you and I wish you the best of luck.
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He seems like a player.I hate players with fuckin passion!!I know this mya sound a little crazy but you have to tell him how you feel I know your prob like woah I can't do that but yes you can.And if your a teenager all this love stuff doesn't ever last long so after he is done with her you can a little flirty to him and see what happens.He might like you but isn't sure about it all you never really know with guys like that so talk to him and your friend. ♥
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Well I think you shoud tell himm how you feel. If you don't tell him how you feel he will never know. After that if he still wants to go with her then let him. When they brak ujp give him a couple of days or wekks maybe and then ask him or flirt with him. Hope that helps ya
Love Meggs
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Well it might be one of those things that your really caught up in the moment and stuff. Yeah, thats so complicated cause guys are already complicated and stuff. But if you really like him then I would advice to just talk to him about that night and if it went anything to him or what? He may like you but he may not want to show it. But you also don't want to hurt your best friend, so I would ask her if she likes Adam. Then if she doesn't well there you go.
Well I hoped I helped.
Liz
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Well seems to me like this guys is HUGE player girl lol. And the fact that he said for you to keep it to yourself worries me. Kinda like a one night stand. I understand how you must feel though. I mean if he is a great guy than i'm sure a bunch of people would like him. But ya know seems to me like he kinda used you and personaly i wouldn't like him very much after that lol.
I hope i helped
Becca<3
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hey girl,
This is hard. But since its not JUST flirting, it was kissing also, i think you should talk to him about it. Tell him you really like him and want to know what that night means to him, because it apparently means A LOT to you. if he talks to you he might change his mind about Danielle. Also she should take into consideration your feelings. If Adam knows that you like him enough to have your friend not go out with him on your behalf then he'll realize that and ask you out.
I hope I helped
*Jackie*
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