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How Do I get over the thought of my boyfriend's exes?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2013, 10:10 am
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now,I keep finding so many old pictures when I am on his laptop searching for OUR pictures and it makes me nauseous. They briefly lived together for about 5 months and were dating for almost 2 years. Before that he has had multiple relationships, but he tells me I'm the one.. why do i find that hard to believe he may have told the others the same. He is my first everything and I am 21 years old, he is 24 years old. How do I know hes the one for me because he was my only one? I'm envious that he and his ex even moved in together but he told me she was crazy.
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nick names: What should I call my boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday January 29 2013, 4:37 am
what should i call my boyfriend?
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Says she loves me
Posted Tuesday January 29 2013, 2:26 am
Ok so I dont have any friends not that im complaining cause those type of people I cut ties off with along time ago. But when we first met she told me she like older guys im the youngest she has had. Well I have insecurities and I can admit I am probaly alot more emotional than any man on this planet. Well she can pick an choose my friends but she can sit there an text this guy right in front of me im like really wow I tell her I dont like him an she get all mad askin why he did nothing to you thats my moms ex blah blah blah like I care I mean in front of me though does she do it behind my back
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My silent girlfriend
Posted Tuesday January 29 2013, 12:15 am
Ok so like me I was taught and raised up to be respectful when some one is talking to you no matter who they are liking or not liking that person its respectful I dont demand it but I just wish that my girl friend would give me what I give her because we all know 2 wrongs dont make a right but when she wants to talk about any thing I throw what ever im doing at that moment in time is not important id rather do what ever she is doing I give her my full undivided attention ay leasy I try but when its the other way around omg im all types of bad news an o how.i ruined her life ? Im confused
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Meeting new boys
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 8:37 pm
Im 15, female single for around a year now and i just am an awkward person. all i want is a boyfriend, there are a couple of guys i think are hot and i would love to talk to them more but i just dont know how. one is in my spanish class and is my friends cousin and she told me she would talk to him, let him know about this partner dance them poms team im on is doing but i dont know if i should strike up a conversation in spanish class or what?! help please this is driving me nuts!
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Rebound...???
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 8:29 pm
Hi. 25/f, here. I'm confused. Like, very. I'm about to go into a graduate program for clinical psychology and I can't figure this out. I need another (few) sets of intelligent eyes on this situation to help me.
So, my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago. Prior to all that, we were on a break, and a friend of his made it all but stupidly obvious that he has a thing for me. I've known it for quite awhile, thanks to a couple we're-the-only-people-awake-this-ridiculously-late style conversations, including his being very supportive while I was losing my mind about my then boyfriend and his immaturity issues. I was honestly hoping it would all remain platonic and it'd be fine. I was hoping my - well, now my ex - boyfriend ...
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Should I go out with a chubby boy?
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 7:08 pm
I'm a 13 year old girl, and the boy is 14 years old. I've dated him before and he was really really sweet but he is on the chubby side, I usually don't date chubby boys. My friends said that he was talking about how he was going to ask me out this Friday but idk. I don't want to hurt his feelings because he's like the big brother I've never had. Should I go out with him?
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I'm really confused! What do I do??
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 5:51 pm
There is this boy I like but he likes my best friend I hate them for it but you can't help who you love but I also love someone else and I will call him Fred as I dont want to I've away his name but I love him a lot unfortunately I don't know how he feels about me. I mean we was walking to school the other day and it was raining and I forgot my coat so he gave me his hoodie the hole day but I dunno if he was being kind or he fell ill as it is not his usual personality. So anyway I'm really confused
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Feelings for a close friend and future room mate.
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 5:05 pm
19/F
I've started developing feelings for my closest friend at uni, let's call him R. I'm usually quite shy and though I do have other friends here I'm not close to any of them, and R's the only person I've met so far whom I feel completely at ease around.
We met at a party where I introduced myself to him because I thought he was cute, and we spent the entire night talking/flirting and exchanged numbers at the end. Since then we started talking a lot/hanging out and there's always been this 'are we just friends or is something more going to happen here?' vibe between us. Originally it seemed like he was trying to initiate something more but I wasn't sure how I felt so I backed away a little. However, ironical...
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A year older!!!
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 3:31 pm
I am in a weird situation. I am 13 and a girl. I'm am in a school where we have vertical tutoring ( in form for half an hour per day where pupils from each year group sit in the same class) there's this guy in year 10 ( I'm in year 9) I have a huge crush on him and I want to know if these. Are signs. The first is that I accidentally dropped some paper under his desk and he picked it up and grinned at me. The second is that he says hey a lot to me at random . Ge okay fights with his friend while looking at me. And when I sent him a skype friend request he accepted straight away ... I want to get his attention but I don't know how thanks for helping
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Talking with your "girlfriend"
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 7:46 am
Ok so when I want to talk about anything really she is never in the mood for me. But when its convenant for her an when she is ready to talk to me I have to give her an answer right away? Why because if I dont and I tell her im not in the mood and I dont want to talk right now she gets all mad at me. I know 2 wrongs dont make a right but thats what she does!! The saying goes you get what you give
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Husaband talks to ex,based on conversation,should I be worried
Posted Monday January 28 2013, 1:36 am
Hi,
My husband talk to her ex finance(also married), and I am totally fine with that, but he writes following things, i want to know , should I be worried?
-“hey gorgeous, how you doing? “then caries on with normal conversation.
-“good night gorgeous”
-She was sad for some reason and we live in different countries , so he wrote – “God loves when u smile. lot of people in far corners of the world feel better wen u do and post such pics online”
-“btw was watching some of your other pics ... you are a star babe ... really ... ssssuperstarrrrr”
Btw, if you are wondering how I got this, I accidently bumped into his FB message.. honest to god!
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all my friends have boyfriends & i feel so alone & i wanna boyfriend.
Posted Sunday January 27 2013, 6:37 pm
pretty much all my friends have boyfriends & i feel so alone & i wanna boyfriend. i've had things with guys but never actually had a boyfriend. what should i do?
my friend might sleepver friday & i wanna look for guys or somethin
melissa (17 female)
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We've been together so long, is it time to let go?
Posted Sunday January 27 2013, 4:28 pm
im 20 and he is 22. we have known each other for 6 years and dated on and off. we have been together now for almost a year. we live together now. as of lately though im not "lovey-dovey" i usually don't wanna cuddle or have sex or even kiss. what does this mean? i do love him, but maybe we aren't meant to be. i want to talk to him about this but im afraid he will get upset. what should i do?
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Me and Matthew?
Posted Saturday January 26 2013, 11:46 pm
I really like this boy at school...Matthew. I think he likes me to by the way he acts. We both are in relationships with people we love, but at the same time we love each other. What should we do?
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How to breakup with someone who REALLY loves you? I never wanted him, just wanted a boyfriend. Now I don't, so he has to go.
Posted Saturday January 26 2013, 8:02 pm
So I been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now. It was amazing at start, I couldn't ask for more.
But then, the problems started. I just don't seem to care about him like I used to. I don't love him anymore. Then again, I didn't really love him, I just loved the fact I got a boyfriend. His every action disgusts me more and more.
The huge problem here is that, he very much loves me. I'm quite scared if I do breakup anytime soon, he might become a stalker or hurt someone.
Is there a way to breakup with him, to ensure he doesn't become crazy? Provoke him to breakup with me maybe? I been thinking about telling a lie that I had slept with someone else. ....I just don't know, I'm confused and scared about this..
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Feelings: Aren't relationships supposed to be 50/50?
Posted Saturday January 26 2013, 3:59 pm
Ok so is it just me or what but 75% of the time its I have more feelings than her. She says im to emotional is that possible ? Like im always bringing up all our good memories an the same response every time mmhhmm ya so ill be like baby dont you member any she says yes but she cant give me one memory she never wants to talk ehen I want to but all be damed if im not everstuff under the sun when she wants to talk we.cant even have a convo.with out arguing she is falling out of love huh? I mean its just not fair only when its convenient for her its suppose to be 50/50 meet in the middle right?
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Is he not interested?
Posted Saturday January 26 2013, 12:20 am
I recently met a guy... things were intense. We connected on a deep, emotional level from the beginning. We hung out three days in a row, and I felt so comfortable with him. He ended up spending the night after our third date. Things were so natural and unpretentious from the start.
I am in limbo with my masters program though. I am on the verge of being dismissed, and he knows that... I was stressed about it and we talked it over. I was even stressed after he spent the night. But things were so easy and natural for us. I have never had such a deep connection with another guy before, it felt so amazing.
So fast forward to today, when I texted him:
Tonight, i texted him to see what his plans are f...
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Cheating Boyfriend?
Posted Friday January 25 2013, 11:14 pm
I have this gut feeling my boyfriend cheated on me but I'm not completely sure and I can't get him to admit it. One night he just left the house with my cell phone and without telling me that he was leaving or where he was going. He was gone for about 8 hours and when he came home I could tell he was high and when I asked him about it he said he had taken some pills. I had borrowed my moms car and went looking for him at all of his friends' houses (that I know of) but he wasn't at any of them. When I asked him where he had went he kept saying he was at his friend Nick's house and I knew that wasn't true because I went by there 3 times and he wasn't there. I could never get him to tell me where he really was. The next day I found the undersh...
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Divorce or not? From my wife says she wants to sleep with other men.?
Posted Friday January 25 2013, 2:06 am
You may want to check the question, "my wife says she wants to sleep with other men" for the details leading up to this question. I told my wife "NO!" I told her that I loved her dearly and could not stomach the thought of her with another man. Additionally, I was thinking of our kids and careers with this response. Kids have to go to school with their friends and the black guy in question is one of their teachers. My wife also teaches in the same building. I am a principal in another building in the same district. Now my wife tells me that she is also thinking of our kids and careers and that I need to say "YES" because she was the woman that she described as having the affair with this black guy. Now she pees...
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