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Me and Matthew?
I really like this boy at school...Matthew. I think he likes me to by the way he acts. We both are in relationships with people we love, but at the same time we love each other. What should we do?
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I know exactly how it feels to love two people at the same time. People sometimes find it strange that someone can love two people, but you can.
Obviously this is just my opinion on what you should do, and it's what I would do in this situation.
Before you do anything, you should think about whether your current boyfriend or Matthew would be better for you. If you've started to drift towards Matthew, then perhaps this indicates that you're not 100% happy in your relationship.
And then you have the other side - can you see yourself and Matthew being together, 100% happy?
If you are definite in your feelings towards Matthew (and you're confident in the fact that he likes you too), then I advise you break up with your boyfriend. It might not seem like the good thing to do, but it's not really fair on your boyfriend if you like someone else too. Its not your fault, it's just the way love goes.
Then, if Matthew truly does have feelings for you and loves you, he'll notice that you and your boyfriend have split and he will probably break up with his girlfriend too. If he doesnt break up with his girlfriend then it's obvious that Matthew maybe isn't the one for you.
I hope this slightly helps your decision and everything. :)
Follow your heart, not your head. x
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Become friends and build that up. Then if something ever happens with either of your partners you can act on it. This way you will know each other well for the future. If meant to be together life has a way of bringing it about. Take this opportunity to really get to know him well as you need a strong bond if anything happens down the road.
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