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Cheating Boyfriend?
I have this gut feeling my boyfriend cheated on me but I'm not completely sure and I can't get him to admit it. One night he just left the house with my cell phone and without telling me that he was leaving or where he was going. He was gone for about 8 hours and when he came home I could tell he was high and when I asked him about it he said he had taken some pills. I had borrowed my moms car and went looking for him at all of his friends' houses (that I know of) but he wasn't at any of them. When I asked him where he had went he kept saying he was at his friend Nick's house and I knew that wasn't true because I went by there 3 times and he wasn't there. I could never get him to tell me where he really was. The next day I found the undershirt that he had been wearing the night before in the floor board in the back seat of our car with cum stains all over it. When I asked him about it he got real defensive and accused me of doing stuff that I shouldn't be doing then he finally told me that he had "pleasured himself" and that he had used his undershirt to clean up. He had a pillow in the trunk that had been in there for a little over a week and when I got into the trunk the other day I noticed that the pillow case was missing but the pillow was still there. The pillow case was still on the pillow the day before all this happened. He's lied to me quite a bit before and I think he's lying to me about cheating on me too. Just by him refusing to tell me where he was that night, erasing the numbers he called on my phone that night, the undershirt with cum stains all over it, and the missing pillow case really makes me think he cheated on me. This was a little over a week ago but I really can't get over it and I don't know what to do. All I want is for him to tell me the truth but I don't know how to get him to. I've tried to forget about it and move on and some days it seems like I can but some days it's all I can think about. Should I keep asking him about it or should I just drop it?
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he's probably cheating but just to know for sure try to get one of his closest friends to squeeze it out of him
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The answer is in the question...he's a cheater...I know you may not want to hear it or believe it but all the evidence is there. I know you would like him to admit it but if he was going to he would have by now. It sounds like cheating is not the only problem in this relationship. No relationship can make it if you cannot have trust or respect and bottom line whether he cheated or not its clear that the events of that night proved this relationship has neither! I am sorry you are going through this but you cannot just forget about this my advice forget about him. GOOD LUCK :)
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Even if he didn't cheat, look at what he did do.
He disappeared for an entire night, refused to contact you, got so wasted/stoned on something that he masturbated in his car, lied to you about where he was, and generally acted like an irresponsible, deceptive asshole.
You might never know what he really did that night, so dump him. You don't need to wait until you have hard evidence of cheating to break up with this guy - you already know he's an irresponsible liar. So forget about finding out the truth, the most important bit of truth is that you are better off without him.
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He cheated, All the obvious signs are there. People who cheat rarely ever do admit it.
I think you need to sever ties with him in order to move on.
Cheaters will be cheaters and liars will always be liars.
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