Q: I have this gut feeling my boyfriend cheated on me but I'm not completely sure and I can't get him to admit it. One night he just left the house with my cell phone and without telling me that he was leaving or where he was going. He was gone for about 8 hours and when he came home I could tell he was high and when I asked him about it he said he had taken some pills. I had borrowed my moms car and went looking for him at all of his friends' houses (that I know of) but he wasn't at any of them. When I asked him where he had went he kept saying he was at his friend Nick's house and I knew that wasn't true because I went by there 3 times and he wasn't there. I could never get him to tell me where he really was. The next day I found the undershirt that he had been wearing the night before in the floor board in the back seat of our car with cum stains all over it. When I asked him about it he got real defensive and accused me of doing stuff that I shouldn't be doing then he finally told me that he had "pleasured himself" and that he had used his undershirt to clean up. He had a pillow in the trunk that had been in there for a little over a week and when I got into the trunk the other day I noticed that the pillow case was missing but the pillow was still there. The pillow case was still on the pillow the day before all this happened. He's lied to me quite a bit before and I think he's lying to me about cheating on me too. Just by him refusing to tell me where he was that night, erasing the numbers he called on my phone that night, the undershirt with cum stains all over it, and the missing pillow case really makes me think he cheated on me. This was a little over a week ago but I really can't get over it and I don't know what to do. All I want is for him to tell me the truth but I don't know how to get him to. I've tried to forget about it and move on and some days it seems like I can but some days it's all I can think about. Should I keep asking him about it or should I just drop it?

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