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How to breakup with someone who REALLY loves you? I never wanted him, just wanted a boyfriend. Now I don't, so he has to go.
So I been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months now. It was amazing at start, I couldn't ask for more.
But then, the problems started. I just don't seem to care about him like I used to. I don't love him anymore. Then again, I didn't really love him, I just loved the fact I got a boyfriend. His every action disgusts me more and more.
The huge problem here is that, he very much loves me. I'm quite scared if I do breakup anytime soon, he might become a stalker or hurt someone.
Is there a way to breakup with him, to ensure he doesn't become crazy? Provoke him to breakup with me maybe? I been thinking about telling a lie that I had slept with someone else. ....I just don't know, I'm confused and scared about this..
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why even bother making up a hurtful lie about cheating when you already did something even more evil. being with someone just because you wanted a boyfriend, shake my damn head, no bueno. all that time you were together he could have been with someone who actually cared about him. just tell him the truth straight up. it may hurt but at least you'd be being honest and upfront about something for once in that relationship.
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If he's violent and could hurt you than you need to tell adults and or the police if he's hurt you before and threatened you about leaving. Leave you must as it's unhealthy and you aren't in the right relationship. As the person below said and I will reiterate don't hand pour gasoline on a fire and concoct a story to get out. Just tell him you're done with him and end it.
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If you fear for your safety then you should bring someone you trust along with you. Telling a lie like that could instigate the situation and set him off. Appearently you feel threatned by your relationship, This alone is a reason to get out.
If also possible you could just leave the relationship. Stop calling, text and talking to him. End it
If you live with him then definately bring someone with you. Let them know you fear for your safety and why. Once you end it you do not contact him
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