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Feelings: Aren't relationships supposed to be 50/50?
Ok so is it just me or what but 75% of the time its I have more feelings than her. She says im to emotional is that possible ? Like im always bringing up all our good memories an the same response every time mmhhmm ya so ill be like baby dont you member any she says yes but she cant give me one memory she never wants to talk ehen I want to but all be damed if im not everstuff under the sun when she wants to talk we.cant even have a convo.with out arguing she is falling out of love huh? I mean its just not fair only when its convenient for her its suppose to be 50/50 meet in the middle right?
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Okay so I think that if you want her to remember things then give her something she would want to remember or do something totally spontaneous. Maybe try to see eye to eye with her, because I think you two haven't been communicating enough. So just sit down and talk with her, vent your feelings. I think she would understand and I think you should understand that maybe she isn't the sappy talk about memories type of girl.
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Relationships aren't 50/50.
That's total bullshit. There is always someone who does more housework, or arranges more of the parties and outings, or does more of the cooking, or more of the talking, or hell, even more of the hugging.
Relationships are about getting to a balance that works for you both - not about splitting everything down the middle.
It sounds like this balance isn't working for you OR her. Neither of you seem happy.
You should talk about that, and be prepared appreciate her point of view and feelings, not just demand she change to suit yours. Not everyone needs the same things from relationships, or wants the same things. You both have to understand what your partner wants and needs, especially if it's different than what you'd want.
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