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I can't read while other people in the house have the TV on. They seem to be able to do it just fine. It's really driving me crazy. Any advice on how I can learn to read while others are watching TV? I don't want to go into another room or turn the TV off. I want to learn how to read while other things are happening around me. I think that would be an almost invaluble tool these days. (link)
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I am a total bookworm so I'm always reading around my house. I'll admit that it is pretty hard to read when others are doing stuff around you, but it isn't impossible. Over the years I taught myself how to block out other people, noise, and things like that. What I do is I pick a really interesting book that you can really get into. Something that really captivates your attention. At first try listening to music while you read your book because it helps you block out a little distraction then when you find it easier for you to do that then try reading while others are watching T.V. I find that it gets easier if you start out watching T.V. while reading the better books then as that goes on you should be able to adjust. Hope that helped!!
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in a week im moving across tha world with my dad and i have toeave my bf and we hve 69 he has fingering me i have suck his dick gave him a hand job and we have shower together we love each other alot and i told him i had to move he is a tough guy but he started cryig and has bought me so many things and has not left me he wants to spend every waking moment wit me the subject of sex came up and we really want to but what do u think???????? (link)
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At first I was going to say that you shouldn't because it would make it harder for both to let go of each other. Maybe you should because you two are at that stage in a relationship. There is always the option of having a long-distance relationship, but I would know that it is very hard. Maybe you could ask him or if that would ruin it for you than don't ask and go for it. Sex is a big deal in a relationship so make sure you are both ready for that milestone. Also have protection. This situation really depends on your own judgement. No one can make you do what you don't want to do. Think about it for yourself and decide and don't back out on your decision. I hope I helped and I hope this works out for you.
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Hey, I'm a freshman in college looking to work on campus right now. So, since I want to work on campus, I've been hanging out with a lot of kids that work on campus at my college. There is this cute kid that just got hired at my building as a desk receptionist. Tonight, I was hanging out in the lobby because my friend was on duty. The cute kid was studying for an exam he has tomorrow but while I was down there, they were taking a break, dancing to some T-Swift. Every time the chorus came on, the cute kid would toss his water bottle at any random passerby. The second time he did it, it hit me so I looked at him and pointed my finger at him while I was smiling at him, I said "hey mister!" and tossed it back to him and he smiled really big. Then later, they were finished studying and he came over and stook next to me really close while I was talking at the desk with my friend. He wasn't really saying anything, just kinda listening.
Now, the whole gist of that was to give you some background and then to see how I can get to know this kid better. We don't really talk, just steal glances at each other and that kinda thing. Sometimes say hello when he's on duty and I'm walking up to my room.
So, what can I do to get to know him? Should I even get to know him, will it get me anywhere? Thanks. (link)
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So... yes I think you should try to get to know him better. Maybe you could try the more spontaneous approach and just straight ask him what his number is or there's a another way you could get to know him better which would be hanging out in the lobby and saying something like
"Hey, I think we should hang sometime." like you would say to a friend. Then if he says yes ask for his number so you can call him later and plan it. So it depends on the type of guy he is and the type of person you are. I hope this helped.
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I've been dreaming about this guy I had a crush on all theough middle and highschool. Though now I'm 20 years old and havnt thought about him in a while I recently have started dreaming about him. In the last dream I thought he was looking for me and was trying to show myself to him and my boyfriend came out with the other guys guitar. Turns out that's what the guy was looking for. My boyfriens kicked it over and broke it. Then after that I was hovering over a bed and I think my old crush was in it. What could this mean? I feel guilty. Could I still be hanging onto this person? I forgot to mention my boyfriend and I have kind of a rocky relationship. Help. (link)
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Maybe this could be a sign that you need to move on from your current boyfriend and get a fresh start. I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason. So I think that since you have a rocky relationship that it could be time that you take a break from each other a see how it is with out being together. Love in a relationship should come naturally like you can't stop it even if you tried. If you are still hanging on to that other guy then just let fate do it's thing and if you two are meant for each other then it will happen. I hope I helped
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I asked many questions about this girl and seeking help but something that made me think for awhile happened today. So there is this girl that i asked out once but she rejected me, but after awhile we just returned to being friends, there is another girl that i like right now and i have been flirting and we just hug because she does it to many people and we are friends. But today after school we had rehearsals because we joined a play, and my character gets to be flirty and kissy with the character of the girl that rejected me, so we had fun, but the girl i liked looked for some reason sad or concentrated or something, but she wasnt happy. could it be a coincidence or was it something else? (link)
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Ok I think she might have something else going on in her life that she hasn't said anything about. Or maybe you're right and it actually wasn't a coincidence and she had a sudden mood shift because of you. Now that might sound bad, but sometimes it means that she actually does like you or like I said before something could be bothering her. I think you should ask her about her mood change and you could say something like hey I noticed you're kinda sad now or just talk to her about it. Sometimes girls just need to vent out to someone other than their best friend, and having a guy there that really cares is a good thing for a girl. Maybe the girl you like could be jealous, I don't know since I wasn't there, but it was just a thought. I hoped I helped
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I'm a 13 year old girl, and the boy is 14 years old. I've dated him before and he was really really sweet but he is on the chubby side, I usually don't date chubby boys. My friends said that he was talking about how he was going to ask me out this Friday but idk. I don't want to hurt his feelings because he's like the big brother I've never had. Should I go out with him? (link)
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So here's what I think. I think you should do what ever your heart tells you. If you actually truly like him then say yes, bu if you don't then say I don't think it would really be a good idea for us to date again. Or if you're worried about losing him as a friend then say something like I don't want to lose you as a friend and I think dating right now would ruin our friendship. With things like this just sit down and relax and think about all the different things that could happen. I hope I helped!!
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Ok so when I want to talk about anything really she is never in the mood for me. But when its convenant for her an when she is ready to talk to me I have to give her an answer right away? Why because if I dont and I tell her im not in the mood and I dont want to talk right now she gets all mad at me. I know 2 wrongs dont make a right but thats what she does!! The saying goes you get what you give (link)
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Okay I think you are right about the whole two wrongs don't make a right, but maybe you and your girlfriend need to talk it out. Maybe she has something in her life that's going on that she hasn't told you and I'm not saying you should distrust her just that maybe she isn't ready to tell you yet. I think that you two need to talk and vent out what you think. If she doesn't want to listen then tell her she needs to hear what you have to say. I hope I helped!!
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So basically, I like this guy and he's really shy. When he found out, he used to act all cool and you know act like he liked me. But suddenly, people started saying that he likes me and he stopped talking to me. Then i told him im over him and he started staring and blushing at me alot and I caught him really often. But now my teacher has made me sit with him and he totally ignores me and i feel like he hates me. People say he's embarrassed but maybe he just hates me? Please tell me what you think about this :) (link)
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So I agree with the other answer. I think that should go up and talk to him. I found that my crush had a crush on me and he started to not talk to me and I caught him staring a blushing so I asked him and now he's my boyfriend. Just ask him. He is going to have to talk to you sometime. So I think it depends on if you like him still because since you said you're over him then maybe he's upset about that. I think you'll be able to handle it from there. I hope this helped.
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pretty much all my friends have boyfriends & i feel so alone & i wanna boyfriend. i've had things with guys but never actually had a boyfriend. what should i do?
my friend might sleepver friday & i wanna look for guys or somethin
melissa (17 female) (link)
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so you can't just set out and expect to find your perfect half. It has to come naturally, not forced. Just because you don't have a boyfriend it doesn't mean that you should be lonely. You can always go out and have girl's night out with your friends. Stay busy and have fun, your prince charming will come for you.
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Look i have known a boy since i was 3 and hes sweet and kind. When he smiles i cant help but smile back. When i see him i get a weird feeling its like its pulling me in what is it? (link)
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Look I have that feeling your getting all the time, it's called love. It feels like you just want to smile when you're with them and you get butterflies in your stomach when your around him. If that's true then you are for sure in love and I bet he is in love with you too. Hope I helped, good luck!!!!
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I see my ex every day at school and i relize i still like him. I have a boyfriend and it makes me feel really bad that i still like my ex. How do i keep from thinking about him during a typical school day? (link)
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Okay here's what I think and I hope it helps you, just stop and realize how much you like/love your current boyfriend. Then think about your ex-boyfriend. If you can't decide then think about how better off your heart would be with either. Sometimes boyfriends and crushes can be a total blind fall. I would know trust me. If you are with him because you are trying to make your ex jealous then break up with him. If you aren't sure and you don't want to decide then maybe break up with your boyfriend and hang with your friends, keep busy, go shopping, just anything that could take your mind off things. One more thing, if you can't get someone off your mind then maybe they were supposed to be there in the first place. I really hope my advice helps!!
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I'm sick if her. She was a really good friend to me. But then, she started showing me her true colors and being a bitch. She manipulated people then back-stabbed them, but everyone still falls fall her tricks. I tried telling some of my friends what she really did to them but in the end they still believed her and called me a liar and a bad-mouth-er. I saw it with my own eyes how mean she was and how selfish she was. She expected everyone to go her way and always pushed the blame to someone else when she did something wrong. Just because she's cute and popular everyone sticks to her. I'm sick of all these and I just want to let everyone know what an ass she is. But I'm afraid history will repeat itself. What should I do? Or should I just stay low and let them have their own retribution? I feel sad when I see them being tricked by her. I'm in a dilemma so HELPPPPPP!! :( (link)
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You know what comes around goes around so all her lies are gonna go back and bite her min the but. Just walk away before she says anything else or before your friends become like her, because trust me some people rub off. I also think you should confront her about everything because sometimes people aren't always as happy as they seem.
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Ok so is it just me or what but 75% of the time its I have more feelings than her. She says im to emotional is that possible ? Like im always bringing up all our good memories an the same response every time mmhhmm ya so ill be like baby dont you member any she says yes but she cant give me one memory she never wants to talk ehen I want to but all be damed if im not everstuff under the sun when she wants to talk we.cant even have a convo.with out arguing she is falling out of love huh? I mean its just not fair only when its convenient for her its suppose to be 50/50 meet in the middle right? (link)
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Okay so I think that if you want her to remember things then give her something she would want to remember or do something totally spontaneous. Maybe try to see eye to eye with her, because I think you two haven't been communicating enough. So just sit down and talk with her, vent your feelings. I think she would understand and I think you should understand that maybe she isn't the sappy talk about memories type of girl.
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Ok so ive been to 2 recent amazing dances and the same guy has asked me to dance at each twice. He and i dance very close and i yhink i might like him a bit. Hes really nice anhilarious and he is super cute. He and i have been frirnds for years and he has dated my best friend. She told me she wouldnt care if we dated but i know another girl who likes him alot. She gets so pissy after i dance with him and idk what to do. Please help!! (link)
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I have this problem daily at school because I am dating this great guy and I have friends that used to have major crushes on him so I'm always self conscious about it, but I always remind myself that I am happy and if my friends can't respect that then they aren't my true friends. So I think you just need to trust your friend and if she says she is fine then I thin you should believe her, but also ask her to be completely honest with you one more time. And for that other girl if she isn't someone worth holding on to then tell her to get over. It also seems he is hinting that he seriously likes you so I say go for, what's the worst that could happen. Right??
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I've finally accepted that I was sexually assaulted by my uncle (in law) at the end of 2012. Right after it happened, I was sort of in denial and wasn't planning on telling anybody what happened. But I know what happened and it's dawned in on my how hard it is to deal with it. I'll be fine sometimes, and the next second I remember what happened..it's like a nightmare that you don't wake up from. And it makes me feel horrible about myself. I embarrassed and scared how this will turn out. But I know that I need to tell somebody now. I just can't do this on my own anymore.
I recently talked with somebody on the RAINN hotline, and it helped, but mainly they said that I should talk to my parents about what happened. And part of me does what to tell them. But at the same time, I don't know how. I'm not all that close with my parents, and my mom is not a very emotional person. She is a very tough person, and sometimes she can't give me the emotional support I need. And that's part of why I'm worried about saying anything to my parents. I'm afraid that she might not be able to help me in the way I need. Also, there's not really a trusted adult in my life that I can talk to first. The only adult that I was ever really close with is my aunt, but she's the sister in law to the person that abused me, so I don't feel comfortable telling her either.
Idk. In a way, I feel like I'm being selfish for wanting somebody to help, for needing support. I'm a very strong person who's gone through a lot, but this...it just kills me a little more inside every day. The decision about whether I should tell somebody is important. Because I know that everybody always says it's the best thing to do, but am I the only one who's ever thought about the consequences? When/if I tell, how am I supposed to ever look my aunt in the eye again? How can I break up their family and cause so many problems? I feel like if I did tell, then it would only cause more problems then if I was to just suck it up and deal with it on my own, no matter how hard it is. I've dealt with things like this on my own, and even though I'm a pretty screwed up person, I am strong. I just don't know if I can get through another day of this. There are times when I'm ready to tell, but I can't bring myself to do it (link)
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Hi I am very sorry this happened to you and when you are so young. I truly honestly think that you should tell your parents because people like that might just continue to sexually abuse others. Maybe you could write out all your feeling and thoughts about what happened and give it to them or leave where they would find it. Also it isn't being selfish for needing help. Many people are strong but still ask for help. I think that you are a very strong person from what I read, but I don't think that you should continue with this giant burden on your shoulders. I hope you will find a right time to tell someone or somehow get this off your mind. Once again I am sorry this happened.
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