I have a boyfriend and it makes me feel really bad that i still like my ex.
Question Posted Monday January 21 2013, 6:18 pm
I see my ex every day at school and i relize i still like him. I have a boyfriend and it makes me feel really bad that i still like my ex. How do i keep from thinking about him during a typical school day?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Anna51 answered Saturday January 26 2013, 6:30 pm: Okay here's what I think and I hope it helps you, just stop and realize how much you like/love your current boyfriend. Then think about your ex-boyfriend. If you can't decide then think about how better off your heart would be with either. Sometimes boyfriends and crushes can be a total blind fall. I would know trust me. If you are with him because you are trying to make your ex jealous then break up with him. If you aren't sure and you don't want to decide then maybe break up with your boyfriend and hang with your friends, keep busy, go shopping, just anything that could take your mind off things. One more thing, if you can't get someone off your mind then maybe they were supposed to be there in the first place. I really hope my advice helps!! [ Anna51's advice column | Ask Anna51 A Question ]
cloudy_conscience answered Thursday January 24 2013, 2:19 pm: Missing an ex is a very very common thing, especially if you were together for any length of time. Once you start spending alot of time together they become intertwined in your life and separating the strands once they're gone can be tricky. First you need to figure out how you really feel about your current boyfriend, if you're just with him so you aren't alone then you should probably break up with him. You may need some time to yourself to think and figure out how you're really feeling about your ex, if you're thinking about him alot there may be a reason why. If you're just missing hi but know that things will never work then I recommend focusing on you, your wants, your goals, stay busy with friends, hobbies, sports whatever. Don't force yourself to move on before you're ready.
Hope I helped! [ cloudy_conscience's advice column | Ask cloudy_conscience A Question ]
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