What is happening? does she or doesnt she like me??
Question Posted Thursday January 31 2013, 1:55 pm
I asked many questions about this girl and seeking help but something that made me think for awhile happened today. So there is this girl that i asked out once but she rejected me, but after awhile we just returned to being friends, there is another girl that i like right now and i have been flirting and we just hug because she does it to many people and we are friends. But today after school we had rehearsals because we joined a play, and my character gets to be flirty and kissy with the character of the girl that rejected me, so we had fun, but the girl i liked looked for some reason sad or concentrated or something, but she wasnt happy. could it be a coincidence or was it something else?
Manulo answered Saturday February 2 2013, 11:30 am: Sometimes communication is an important key to a relationship whether it's friendship or more. If you care for the girl in whatever fashion you should ask her. If she tells you then you will know and if she doesn't want to talk about it just tell her ok but that you will be there for her if she needs to talk or vent. Sometimes they will just come out and share what they are feeling or what is going through their mind or in their life. But at least you are being a person who shows that they care. [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
Anna51 answered Thursday January 31 2013, 10:22 pm: Ok I think she might have something else going on in her life that she hasn't said anything about. Or maybe you're right and it actually wasn't a coincidence and she had a sudden mood shift because of you. Now that might sound bad, but sometimes it means that she actually does like you or like I said before something could be bothering her. I think you should ask her about her mood change and you could say something like hey I noticed you're kinda sad now or just talk to her about it. Sometimes girls just need to vent out to someone other than their best friend, and having a guy there that really cares is a good thing for a girl. Maybe the girl you like could be jealous, I don't know since I wasn't there, but it was just a thought. I hoped I helped [ Anna51's advice column | Ask Anna51 A Question ]
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