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crushes that stop talking to you once they know you like them?
So basically, I like this guy and he's really shy. When he found out, he used to act all cool and you know act like he liked me. But suddenly, people started saying that he likes me and he stopped talking to me. Then i told him im over him and he started staring and blushing at me alot and I caught him really often. But now my teacher has made me sit with him and he totally ignores me and i feel like he hates me. People say he's embarrassed but maybe he just hates me? Please tell me what you think about this :)
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So I agree with the other answer. I think that should go up and talk to him. I found that my crush had a crush on me and he started to not talk to me and I caught him staring a blushing so I asked him and now he's my boyfriend. Just ask him. He is going to have to talk to you sometime. So I think it depends on if you like him still because since you said you're over him then maybe he's upset about that. I think you'll be able to handle it from there. I hope this helped.
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ASK HIM. Seriously, go directly to him and ask "Is it just me or are you not talking to me for some reason? Did I do something to upset you?" See what he has to say.
Maybe he does like you but being shy just has a hard time admitting it and doesn't know how to talk to you. Let him know you don't bite and if he likes you it's okay. You do too.
With introverts sometimes you need to do this as there is anxiety there. He's probably just scared. You need to break down his defense wall. Also, if you tell someone you're not in to them it pisses them right off (it always will) so maybe he's hurt and or confused now that you have changed your position. You need to talk to him to figure out what he's thinking.
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