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my mum swears shouts at me dad my brother and sister over small things
my mum has always had anger problems she would shout and swear at dad.THEN LIE and say it was him who started it .like childness she would go for him scratch hit kick him say he did it first she is a compulsive lier andshe would shout i will leave u and take the kids an u will never c them dad has always bin scared she would take us then he would not know what was happening to us so he has stuck with it for about 13years(i am 16 my sis 15 an bro8)but for the last 2years she has gone worse dad says cant take it any more.after seeing corrie i told him,she is like her and if he did not do anything i would, she hits out at us kids sometimes wen she has her turns she goes into a frenzy and cant see beyond that moment her eyes go big an we all get scared what she will do,she tell my sis to lie for her which we know she does then she buys her stuff to keep her on her side but now even she nows shes doin wrong lieing 4 her and says she feels like killin herself but she is stuck an dont know what to do,dad has told the social now an they r lookin into it but its been 2weeks how long will they take? where can i go and talk to somebody we worry about my sis .she lies 2 her family an they take her side,dads side all want 2help her but she hates all of them,wont talk 2them.please tell me where i can go for help,i am 16 old boy
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You're a brave young man. That much is certain. Your mother sounds like she is mentally ill and has been for years but is now becoming a crisis. Your father has no idea how to deal with her as she's NOT rational and could be violent.
The longer he stays silent on this the worst she will become. While social services is involved they may not have been around long enough to see that mom's really off it and needs help nor have they seen the effects.
What you need to do when the social worker comes is ask her to speak to her privately and tell them what she has said about your dad and kids, the swearing, threats of violence etc. and that it has been like this for years but really awful now. They'll get you help and your mom too finally.
You could also tell your teacher what is happening and that social services are involved with your family but don't know the extent and that you know your mom is likely mentally ill and life at home is hell and scary. Once you tell someone your life will get better.
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