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Good questions for college.


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 6:14 pm

17/F

Hey y'all. Well, let me give you some background information. I recently got accepted into Cal State Long Beach in CA. And I got into their EOP program. For you people who don't know what EOP is it's: Each EOP student is assigned to a counselor who is a guide through the ins and outs of academic life. EOP can refer you to the University Learning Center (ULC) for tutoring. The ULC employs a staff of student tutors in every major subject area to help you improve your performance in class. The University Learning Center sponsors a variety of seminars and workshops to help you learn how best to learn. Sessions cover such topics as test taking, note taking, time management, goal setting, computer use and software, career pl...

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Relationships


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 6:10 pm

17.f

I've never had a real boyfriend nor have I had my first kiss yet. I'm a really attractive, smart girl, and I'm not weird. I just haven't been given the opportunity. I've tried twice to create opportunities for myself to get a boyfriend, but it never worked out. It is not my first priority, so I never really TRIED to get a boyfriend.

However, I was recently talking to someone, and she explained that I cannot be afraid of getting hurt. It's better to get hurt sooner rather than later, and it's really changed my point of view. I know and criticize girls for acting stupidly and thinking that a guy likes her when he doesn't, but they're just blinded. I thought that I could learn from their mistakes, but...

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What does it mean?


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 5:21 pm

What does it mean if a boy smiles every time he hears your name? I'm 15/f and he is 16/m.

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exboyfriend problemsss.


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 5:17 pm

soo me and my ex havent talked in about a month in a half.
and i decided id be nice and text him and ask him how he is and stuff. but i thought he wouldnt text me back but he did. so heres are whollllle conversation.
and btw it was a longdistance relationshipp.

me: hey youu. how have you been?
him: good how bout you?
me: im goood (: ive been in florida for about a week and im really sunburned so its hurts haha
him:haha that sucks im sorry
me: its all good. what have you been up to?
Him: nothing but working it sucks what about you
Me. Haha you always work but nothing on spring break so ive been down here with my auntt
Him: so do you have a boyfriend?
Me: wel...

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Big Mess i created!!!!!


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 4:27 pm

hi i am a 19/f, and i recently befriended an older boy in my class. he's 24/m. Well we started talking in class,and we would talk about the class or i would ask about him. well anyways we started talking on facebook as well cause i added him. and outside class when he saw me he would smile at me. So i thought maybe he liked me but was too shy to ask me out. In class one day we were talking, and he told me he was a fitness trainer and i didn't believe him so he gave me his business card, and it had his cell phone number on it. i texted him a few days later and he didn't recognize my number, and i told him who i was and then he said that he didn't think anyone would text him that late, and i said i hope you don't mind. And then he said that h...

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i lost my song writing talent, breakup


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 2:54 pm

i broke up with my boyfriend of two years about five weeks ago. writing, especially songwriting was my life. we even did music together and recorded it and stuff. but i havent written anything since we brokeup. i really want to but it reminds me of him it just hurts, plus i dont know where to start its like my gift has been totally flushed away for good. even my notebooks of songs vanished. what can i do??

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breakup a while back, refresher help??


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 2:51 pm

my boyfriend of nearly two years was a total ass to me ever since i got mad at him when he cheated on me so i eventually broke up with him. its ben over a month and i should be getting better by now.. i was totally over him and fully better i even went on two dates, until i listened to a song my ex did guitar and sang for on recording which i wrote the lyrics, so i broke and cried so hard. i havent written any music since we broke up maybe five weeks ago, which writing was everything to me along with painting. he even still has my three best paintings at his house im to akward about it to ask for them back..
how can i get over him better? i know the usual stuff but what else could i do??
how can i start writing again, it remin...

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Hair products


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 2:17 pm

Right now I use garnier fructis and sometimes herbal essences lines of shampoos and conditioners. I pay about $3-4 a bottle for them, and I was just wondering if anyone uses the really expensive salon brands of shampoos and conditioners (that cost like ~$20 a bottle) notices a big difference between the cheap and expensive shampoos/conditioners?
I have wavy hair and i usually just scrunch it a little to give it a tousled look. Do the expensive brands (like maybe bedhead?) make your hair shinier or less frizzy than the cheap brands? Thanks.

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thinking about getting a tattoo but I am scared of the stretching after pregnancy


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 1:15 pm

Okay I am a female and i was recently thinking about getting a tattoo. I wanted to get a pelvic tattoo but I am scared of the streching after pregnancy. I want a tattoo in that general area but i want to be careful in what i get, I know that some tattoos will look worse than others if they do stretch so are there any idea on what i could get? If not is there any place around that area that i can get a tattoo without having to worry about streatchin after a pregnancy?

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Boyfriend broke up with me a couple days ago


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 12:34 pm

My boyfriend broke up with me out of no where.He said the reason for our break up was because he was "getting sick of me,we were around eachother way to much and he needed space and he started seeing me like a friend and that he doesn't like me as much as he used to"then he said that he swears on his life im the most amazing girl he's ever met. We hungout everyday,even like all night,all the time.We did fun things together,had so many jokes,we were just so attatched.Sometimes we fought,but got over it quick.He's even cried to me and told me he's never cried to anyone else.About a week before he broke up with me,he told me he needed more space and time without me and that was in effect for about 1 day and then i went back to being ...

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whats it like working at subway?


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 12:30 pm

I might be getting a job at Subway soon.

What is it like, for anyone who's worked there?
Interview tips? What types of questions will I be asked?
Any other tips?

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Boyfriend in college SO far away


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 12:00 pm

So im in a long distance relationship.
my boyfriend goes to school about 350 miles away.
now, you know how the smallest things matter in a long distance relationship?

when we video chat, he actually ignores me. hes a car fanatic, so hes on his stupid car websites seaching stuff for his stupid car. watching youtube videos of his car, he talks to his roommate (who is in the room 24/7) about cars.
i mean come on.... seriously? me being ignored caused me to get so heated... so i havent videochatted him in 2 weeks. i refuse.

he never puts me on his facebook status. we've been going out for a year and a half now... and he has only put me on 8 times. no joke. ive put him on EVERY single DAY i put...

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moving to georgia


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 11:53 am

15/f

so my step dad works for NCR. long story short, im moving to GA. not sure when or anything but my house gets put up for sale late next month. well this may be my last summer where i live (which i have lived my whole life) and i want to mmake it the most memorable summer ever. I dont drink, or have sex or anything like that, im not looking to get into trouble, just some fun. with moving comes other problems, i told my dad that i feel like i should move to GA and i want to reinvent myself there. im not really sure how. i love the 1920's, love converse and live in jeans. but at my school now i kind of just am average, i dont really talk that much unless someone else talks back. is there something i can do to make myself stand out?

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a huge problem with my boyfriend of a year & a half..


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 11:39 am

So, back in november. (i know this is wrong) i was reading his IM conversations. and i saw this...

"My boyfriend (8:39:29 PM): if i tell you something you promise not to tell
The girl he was talking to (8:39:42 PM): you know me im good with secrets
My boyfriend (8:39:46 PM): honestly i havnt told anyone this so if i hear it from soemone else i know you told lol
The girl he was talking to (8:39:59 PM): hahah i wont tell (his name) you knwo me
My boyfriend (8:41:16 PM): next year itll be 4 years from my old girlfriend. and i can still say to this day i still ..."like/love" her . its hard to say love because i love laura . im not sayin id rather be with her over laura its just like...

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Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 11:20 am

Last Tuesday my boyfriend of a year and 2 months broke up with me. But, the day after he spoke to me and said how depressed he has been all day and he only wants a break for a while. I agreed with this - but this has got to be the most hardest thing I've ever gone through, he doesn't even know if we will get back together or not. One of the reasons why he did this is because I never show how happy he makes me an I'm just always sad when I'm around him. I've just been thinking all this time and I know I can do all the things he's told me htat I don't do. But just today I've been thinking about how to show he makes me happy and I realised it isn't something that I can do.
I used to be a big attention seeker, but being with him made me ...

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we dont know how much longer


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 10:59 am

im female 16.
just over a year ago i came into contact with my real dad we have never gotten along he moved half way around the world to remarry and have another kid as he forgot about me but hes still my dad and i miss him awhile ago he was diagnosed with a lung disease and i was told he had 6 months to 6 years but yesterday i got a message saying hes not doing too well and they dont know how much longer he will have i dont know how to deal with this im scared to talk to my mom cuz they always just fought and i dont feel comfortable talking to my stepdad i just dont know and im having such a rough time with it.. Please help me..
Sleepiesheeep

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guy i like, but have never spoken to, with added complications.


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 7:44 am

16/f/uk.

I've seen this guy, Jake, around college recently and he's always caught my eye. I then found out he's dating this girl I know, Ellen, who is pretty different to me but we have the exact same taste in guys. As soon as I heard people talking about him I knew he was the kind of guy I'd like, I also know that he's a complete manwhore. So possibly him and Ellen won't last long, and I'm not looking for anything particuarly serious.

So I was in an art class and suddenly Jake came in to model for someone. We were all just chilling out and I made myself a bit more noticeable. He started staring at me loads. I kept catching his eye and we made that kind of eye contact that just lasts for ages and there was real...

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Industrial Piercing: Can't get the barbell off!


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 4:19 am

How do you get the end ball of the barbell off? I figured you just twist it but it won't come off? I just got my industrial done in February and I wanna switch the barbell but it won't twist off.

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the most insane thing i've ever thought of doing....EVER


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 2:24 am

me and my best friend have been best friends for about 7 years. For all of that time, whenever we went out together we would be asked if we do threesomes. We always laughed it off, we've never kissed and we're not bi but we're not opposed to kissing, not in a romantic way. I don't know how to describe it. Anyway she's been dating her boyfriend for almost a year and he's one of her best friends and before they were dating we all joked around about a threesome. Then I met my boyfriend and we've been dating for over a year now and he knows about my previous threesome offers and he obviously enjoyed the thought of it but would never ask for one.

To the point. Me and my best friend were talking about our boyfriends birthdays com...

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sheltered boy


Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 1:58 am

theres a guy i really like and he likes me but whenever he asks me to be his girl i honestly dont know why i refuse. we have been dating for a month but i dont see us as becoming a couple. i dont know why. he is a year younger and his parents are very controlling i havent been on a date without his parents there... its so akward. hes a bit sheltered and iv never ben sheltered even as a kid. what can i do. i want to try it, iv kissed him and when out a bit i just dont know though... any ideas?

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