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breakup a while back, refresher help??
my boyfriend of nearly two years was a total ass to me ever since i got mad at him when he cheated on me so i eventually broke up with him. its ben over a month and i should be getting better by now.. i was totally over him and fully better i even went on two dates, until i listened to a song my ex did guitar and sang for on recording which i wrote the lyrics, so i broke and cried so hard. i havent written any music since we broke up maybe five weeks ago, which writing was everything to me along with painting. he even still has my three best paintings at his house im to akward about it to ask for them back..
how can i get over him better? i know the usual stuff but what else could i do??
how can i start writing again, it reminds me too much of him and im just at a writers block i dont have a clue where to start??
and what do i do about the paintings, i guess its ok if he keeps them as long as he keeps them safe and not ruins them especially on purpose..?
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I'm a writer like yourself and writing is my most ultimate passion. If I take alme off writing I feel really bad like somethings really missing. And if your as passionate as I am about writing you won't let some guy devert you from your true passion. Yes you been with the guy for nearly two years and being with someone that long and breaking up begans a long process of healing.
A one point you may really believe you have truly gotten over that person than something may happen and bam you're an emotional reck... It's natural and it's normal and the saying one day at a time is what really works... So you have to take it... And you're talented writing music wow what great talents you have... Talents that can take you so far in life. And there all in your brain wating to be released...
Let me tell you I'm not asham to say I've been threw my fair share of break ups and heart breaks... And trust me I know It's no ride in the hay. So you know what I do? I let my mind wander... I write books and poerty so... I use lifes dissapointments to create beautiful poems... I let my emotions drive me to a world so beautiful and when it comes out in paper people are amazed.
The way you are feeling write it down. As your tears flow write until you can't write anymore. Write how you feel about the break up and the things that you have been doing to overcome it... Some of the best songs in history has been based of break ups... Keep that in mind...
The best of luck to you and always
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You're a songwriter? Write about this! What a perfect opportunity to write about some of the issues that are affecting you the most. Everyone can relate to heartache. Start writing down some of your feelings about this break-up. Not only will it be therapeutic, but you may also help other people who are going through the same thing. Draw inspiration from your experiences. Its how you learn in life.
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A guy that cheats does NOT deserve a second chance, Not only does that mean he is completely capable of lying and disrespecting a woman but taking him back would tell him "Hey it's okay, I forgive you" when it is not okay. If you want your paintings back then I would go over with a friend and say "Hi, I just stopped by because I would really like my paintings back" However, If your paintings were a gift to him then it would be wrong of you to ask for them back even if the relationship is over. Healing takes time and a month is not that long ago, Everyone heals at their own pace. If you like music then write it, If you like painting then paint it. Don't let some asshole keep you from doing what you love. A guy that cheats is a waste of time to begin with, Good for you for leaving him.
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