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to tell or not to tell? that is the question
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 2:19 pm
ok so i have liked this guy for about a year now and the hard part is that he's a senior and im a freshman. he's graduating friday night and my friends were suposed to tell him i liked him but they didn't and i want him to know before he goes. he leaves saturday for a summer tour thing and then off to california for college for four years so the time is now to let him know. should i write him a letter and give it to him tomorrow night or is that to forward? guys opinions will help too thanks.
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Find it difficult to get close to a bloke.
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 2:14 pm
i'm 19 years old and a female and was sexually abused when i was very yound by a babysitter. i am not worried about this and dont feel it affects me that much and i am quite open with this fact and the people who are close to me know about it all. The problem is that when a guy wants to get close with me i just seem to panic and just feel well out of my comfort zone. especially if its a boyfriend and its sexual. i have had sex in the past and the guys know about it and are very conciderate of it. But yet i still dont know when its affecting me like this. or even if it is that is the reason why. just finding it very difficult to get close to a bloke. i have loads of guy mates which i mess around with alot but i dunno its just so confusing. c...
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guy problems...go figure
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 10:45 am
ok...im 13/f, and i really like this guy named Jose, and i don't know if he likes me. he acts different around me than the other girls that he hangs out with, but then again, the girls that he hangs out with are all my friends...please help me! i really, really like him! and I really want to go out with him, but i don't know if he likes me!
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I treat my boyfriend like crap
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 10:43 am
My boyfriend treats me like gold and i have a HUGE attitude problem and i want to change. But i have no idea how to start. Dont state the obvious people like just do it because i tried and it doesnt happen. he is very annoying but i love him to death and he doesnt deserve what i do. I yell/hit/and give him an attitude. I dont really hit him just m,essing around like im not an abusive girlfriend. but I can get out of hand of messing around.
PLEASE HELP!
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leah, you might know who this is but SH
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 9:47 am
okay.. I have this boyfriend, and I like him ALOT, one problem.. he is really popular.. and I'm not, I'm kinda like a dork. Why he is going out with me I don't know, I'm kinda just scared to be myself around him, and I'm scared that he will relize how dorkish I am and break up with me. He hangs out with popular people, and I don't. What do I do if he askes me to go somewhere with them,.. I would feel stupid, and out of place. Please.. help... &hearts
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fantasizing.......
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 5:23 am
so I fantizise about my gf a lot. not like sex but like making out and stuff. we've never made out but I know she'd like it but I don't know how to tell her that I want some of these things without seeming like a perv. like making out and laying on a bed and stuff... laying between her legs and kissing her that kind if thing. how could I tell her that I want that or would it be better to just do it and see how she reacts?
thx!
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hooked on him
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 1:26 am
theres this reallllllllly cute guy. we used to go out. he;s completely over me but i'm not over him. Now he's inlove with my best friend but she doesn't like him back. He's starting to get mean to me sometimes but at times he's still nice. My best friend always sticks up for me no matter what. Still, do u think i should stop talking to him? I NEED ADVICE!
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twin brother
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 1:24 am
I'm inlove with my twin brother, what should i do!??!
p.s. i'm a guy
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Is he off-limits? ((kind of confusing))
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 10:57 pm
Well, my friend "Sarah" likes this boy named "Jason" in our youth group. She made it clear that he is her territory, though he doesn't like her like that at all. My friend "Kia" is "Jason's" brother, who is my best friend. She told me that "Jason" likes me, and I like him. The sad thing is, our youth group strictly is against dating, so it wouldn't really go anywhere even if we tell each other.
So what it all boils down to is, "Sarah" doesn't know I like "Jason", and I'm going to keep it that way. I just don't want her getting mad at me when we flirt with eachother ((b/c we do ALOT)). I don't want to make her mad, but I don't think she should run my life ju...
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what do i do...?
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 10:38 pm
hey,
I recently just got over this boy because i know i had no chance with him but now i like someone new and there two completely different people. The new person i like, vinnie, is my best friend's cousin. This best friend has liked me since kindergarten so i obviously can't tell him that i like his cousin that would crush him. I would try to get over Vinne but we kissed and we got close a lot but my best friend said he asked vinnie if he liked me and he said "i love her as a friend" hearing made me wonder what that kiss meant. Should i talk to Vinnie about it? And should i tell my best friend about it? Please help me. I'll rate for any type of advice. Thank you very much. xo
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My sister and her boyfriend
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 10:02 pm
ok, so here's the story:I'm a guy, and I have a twin sister. We are like totally close, like, closer than most siblings ever are. But I just found out a few days ago that she went out with this really not-so-good guy like a year ago(and by not-so-good i mean does not know how to treat a girl. AT ALL). I also just found out that this guy wants to go out with her again. I told her that I don't like him and that she shouldn't go out with him, but she's just so stubborn and rebelious sometimes! But seriously, this guy is not the best guy for her. He drinks, he smokes, he kicks GIRLS, and my sister has totally fallen for him. AGAIN. I don't know how they broke up last time, but I'm determined to stop this before it starts up again. Please Help!
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summer lovin'
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 9:29 pm
Hey guys..I just wanted to know what you think is better..Being single over the summer or having a boyfriend?
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Stuck on a boy new to the relationship world!!
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 8:47 pm
Dear Advicenators,
I am a 16 yr old girl And I like this boy that works at a local grocery store. he is also 16. We flirt alot and we always smile at eachother, and we have hung out once with mutual friends,and i always go through his line but the thing is he wont ask me out. I was told he liked me and he knows I like him, but i dont think hes ever had a girlfriend before, and I am very traditional and I dont feel comfortable asking a boy out. what can i do to get him to ask me out, i think were hanging out again this weekend. Help!
-Stuck on him in Florida.
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hes too cute...literally
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 8:45 pm
My prom date is the hottest guy is the entire school. At frist I was happy that I was going with him but lately I have been running to a bit of a problem. A LOT of girls like him. So when I'm with him they are like all over him, whenever I'm around them they'll say little comments about him, and they ALWAYS try to flirt with him. He doesn't really flirt back that much wiht them in front of me (but i know he does when i'm not around) but he doesn't really signal for them to stop either. Eventhough the girls are getting on my nerves I'm still going to prom with him. So I want to know how can I deal with this.
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what is going on?
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 8:39 pm
(17/f) okay so this boy from the town next to me came to my work & after i left would not stop talking about me. he got my # from a girl who works with me (she is friends wiht him) & he asked me to go to the movies. he bought me a ticket & after the movies we talked for maybe 2 hours & i had a really nice time :) after i got home he IMed me & told me he wanted me to have his sn. then he called & asked me to hang out again that same weekend, so we went out again :) (we went on both days with his friend & this other girl from my school who his friend likes). so anyways then the next day i IMed him, we talked for a while, but then he signed off with out saying "good bye". (nothing happened, he jsut randoml...
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Afraid..
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 8:21 pm
13/f.
Ok well me and this guy did stuff the other night. It wasn't like just a booty call, or for me it wasn't because I really like this guy. I'm started to think he was just using me, but I hate that thought because like I said, I do really like this guy. I'm afraid to call him or talk to him on AIM when he's on. I just don't want to seem clingy or desperate. I just want him to want me, and it seemed like he did that night, but now that we haven't hung out with him I'm getting weird feelings and it's all so confusing. I was invited to go the movies with him and a few friends the other day, but was too late and didn't get to go. Sorry if I'm just rambling on, but what do you think I should do? Talk to him, call him? Do you think he ...
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breaking up is really hard to do...
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 7:10 pm
hey well i just broke up with my bf of 8 months and this was my first relationship. i guess i did it cause im pretty young to have such a serious relationship and i wanted to see what else was out there..but now we broke up and i dont know if i made a mistake or not. he said he wouldnt avoid me but of course he is and it is making me depressed. im pretty sure he'd take me back if i wanted to so thats not wut im concerned about..i am just really confused and don't know wut to do. i miss him so much!!! he is so sweet...how did u guys know when u loved someone? cause for some reason i wasnt happy when i was with him, but now im less happy when im not
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2 x's
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 6:54 pm
14/F
So i am kinda in a pickle.... about 7 months ago i went out with a guy named...Mark for 4 months and he was amazing and he knows me better than anyone else does... and the day before wrestling regionals i dumped him not knowing what i was really doing..... and it just so happend that his best friend liked me, and his name is Mario....so mario and i were talking the night after the break up and he confesed of likeing me and asked me out, and the heart broken girl that i was said yes. and we went out for 2 1/2 months, and he was amazing he was like a dream come true. he treated me right, he knew how to treat me and my parents and older brother liked him....and Mark on the other hand, my parents and bro hated him and my par...
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i need help.
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 6:39 pm
okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 27 months or so and its been pretty great. we have broken up a couple of times but for different reasons. and lately we have been arguing alot. like alot. and i have tlked to him about it on a number of occasions and then he apoligizes and everything is okay for like a week.. then it happens again. well i do love him. but we have been going out for so long and these are suppose to be the best years of our lives so i want to just kind of see what else is out there and have fun and not be tied down all of highschool. who knows? maybe the one for me is right there in front of me. well i have broken up with him and everytime i just go right back to him. either because i miss him or just...
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harrasment?
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 6:22 pm
if a guy you are making out with puts his hands on your boobs like ONTOP of your shirt, not under it, is that sexual harrasment or assault? what if while youi were making out he put his hands in the back pocket of your jeans and squeezed your butt? is that harrassment? thanks so much!
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