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leah, you might know who this is but SH
okay.. I have this boyfriend, and I like him ALOT, one problem.. he is really popular.. and I'm not, I'm kinda like a dork. Why he is going out with me I don't know, I'm kinda just scared to be myself around him, and I'm scared that he will relize how dorkish I am and break up with me. He hangs out with popular people, and I don't. What do I do if he askes me to go somewhere with them,.. I would feel stupid, and out of place. Please.. help... &hearts
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First of all, you're not a dork and you have to stop thinking of yourself that way. So yeah, he's popular.. it doesn't mean he wouldn't ever like anyone like you. You seem like you think you're not good enough for him but you are. You need to start being yourself around him because that's what will make him like you more. Just have fun. If he asks you to go anywhere with his friends, just go. Yeah you might feel akward but be yourself.. it's important. =]
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well hun, obviously he likes you because you guys are going out. i wouldnt be too concerned. and since he invites you to hang with his frineds, either he doesnt care what they think about you or that they dont even think that! nothing is wrong with always making more friends and if its the popular crowd, then so be it. i doubt he'd breazk up with you cuz your a dork. a lot of guys find being dorky completely hot. i woudlnt be scared or nervous or whatever - just be yourself. and be confident. if they dont like you for being yourself, then they deffinitally dont deserve to hang out with you. if you feel out of place, then just hang with the boyfriend. be by his side and talk and joke with him. you HAVE to be comfortable with yuor boyfriend atleast. be outgoing and crazy and fun, but still in your comfort zone. be a dork, they will love it. especially him. goodluck
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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i dont thiink thers any thing to be worried about .. he likes you for who you are and ur AWESOME personality. i dont think theres anything to be worried about .. if he asks you to go with him somewherec .. i mean its a chance to make new friends, you know that theres nothing to worry about and if they dont like you fo r who you are then they arent worth being friends with but you know your boyfriend loves you very much and i dont think he would trade you for the world.
♥ Leah
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