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breaking up is really hard to do...
hey well i just broke up with my bf of 8 months and this was my first relationship. i guess i did it cause im pretty young to have such a serious relationship and i wanted to see what else was out there..but now we broke up and i dont know if i made a mistake or not. he said he wouldnt avoid me but of course he is and it is making me depressed. im pretty sure he'd take me back if i wanted to so thats not wut im concerned about..i am just really confused and don't know wut to do. i miss him so much!!! he is so sweet...how did u guys know when u loved someone? cause for some reason i wasnt happy when i was with him, but now im less happy when im not
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that happens to me all the time. i personally think that you should try to get back with him if you both are still upset about it. if you still like him then follow your heart. a lot of the time girls dont find guys that like them as much as it seems he likes you. so if you are happy with him & miss him that i say go back with him. or possibly even wait alittle like a couple weeks & look around. if no luck & still miss him then he is definitly the right choicee. <3
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I completely understand why you broke up with him. I also believe that you should also see what is out there. I know you are still concerned about your ex, however, it will get a lot easier over time. I think you are just used to having the comfort of having a boyfriend, and that is why you are missing him. As for him avoiding you, call him up. Ask him to hang out sometime this weekend or something. That way, he will know you are making the effort to stay friends. I'm sure you still mean a lot to him, therefore, he will want to be friends with you. Make sure you tell him you don't want to throw away an opportunity to be friends with him. Take a break from your relationship, meaning don't just go out with him again, at least for the time being. After the time apart, if you both still have feelings for each other, you know it was meant to be. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy <3
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