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to tell or not to tell? that is the question
ok so i have liked this guy for about a year now and the hard part is that he's a senior and im a freshman. he's graduating friday night and my friends were suposed to tell him i liked him but they didn't and i want him to know before he goes. he leaves saturday for a summer tour thing and then off to california for college for four years so the time is now to let him know. should i write him a letter and give it to him tomorrow night or is that to forward? guys opinions will help too thanks.
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I really think you should tell him face to face.
I know the risks involved. I've been there, done that and I can promise you that if you don't do it, you will regret it for a LONG time. Telling him directly shows confidence, which men love and it also means you can get a response direct because you've delivered the message directly. If you do it by letter, you won't even know what has happened if he doesn't respond.
Just take a deep breath and remember this might be your last chance to tell him. Then walk up to him and say something along the lines of "Hey. I know this might not really mean anything to you but I have really liked you for a long time and I know there's no chance of anything happening but I just didn't want you to leave without me ever having told you that." Just leave it at that and let it be.
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Don't put anything in writing... that seems silly and childlike.
You should walk up and say "Hey, congratulations (on his graduation) and before ya take off for college and all that, i just thought I'd let you know that you're a great guy and I wish we'd had a chance to get to know eachother." Flash a winning smile and walk away....he'll be thinking of you and you got to say what you wanted.
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The other advicenator, definitly had a good point. I didn't read his whole thing, but let me give you my idea about this situation. So, you've deffinitly set your mind that your going to tell him, which is great. I think, that you should tell him in person. Because, if you tell him in person he'll think your brave for doing that. And by telling him in a letter, is a bit, er, immature. Not to be mean at all though. I dont think the age difference would be a big deal. Everyone thinks its so terrible to go out with an older person in school. But, its really not. So deffinitly go ahead with a plan. It wouldnt be too foward to tell him. <b>Never regret any thing you do in life.</b>
-Brina
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hey, i am a guy, well okay guys like letters and all about it, but i'd think he would like it more if you told him in person that you've liked him for along time and how much he matters to you.....it may sound wierd but just do it, and at the end IF you want to write him a letter to then give it to him, tell him "if you don't like me or anything, just read the letter okay? well i talk to you soon i hope we can hang out." just do something or other, it's more likely for guys not to think about hanging out, BUT if you do something special for him then he will remember you
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