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strange dreams lead to love life?
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 10:30 pm
well i was thinking today if matt came over to tell him i love him turns out he didnt ne way i iwas going to say that and i was nervous to b.c what if he didnt feel the same way and said nothing talk about emabarrasing and heart breaking. so hear is how the dream went last night.....
ok i had a dream last night. well im in the alter area and i look im getting married! and next to me was a fat kid rite and im like ok well then we are starting to get married and then i was like i cant do this!! so i run away i run into the person i really love. Matt his name is i wanted to ask him if he would marry me instead. i couldnt say it so i said come to my wedding he said ok. well i get ther he sits down i look at him then get married again t...
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Boys Boys Boys
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 10:02 pm
Hey there. (13/f)
SO there's this kid, and I kind of like him. (Ok I do.) and recently he dumped a bag of mulch on my porch with his friend. And we are totally in a fight right now. WEll not in a fight but I'm just not talking to him. I want to like forgive him and not be fighting anymore, but 1) he hasn't exactly apologized. 2) I don't want to be like ok, I;m not mad at you anymore. we can talk on the phone all the time now :) Because that would sound like utterly gay. haha. Please tell me what I should say and what I should do to get out of this fight, but not sound gay?
♥
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Undecided
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 9:43 pm
i have a boyfriend and we've been on and off for the past 2 years.I found out he cheated on my 3 times.Stupidly i got back together with him 1 week ago and now he sais he didnt know we were dating and he got a different girlfriend.He also tried to kiss me afetr he told me this!What should i do?
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mmm... getting over someone
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 9:40 pm
i know this may be long, but please i really really need help, i hate being heartbroken like this =[
so basically, i've liked this kid, lets call him gary, since the 4th grade, and now i'm going into 9th. we were "boyfriend and girlfriend" at the end of 5th grade, but since he was a grade younger, we couldn't see eachother when i went into 6th grade. i did something pretty low during the middle of 6th grade, i told my brother to brake up with me for him since i never saw him anymore, and started going out with this other kid. i still always thought of him, but i really wanted to just get over him. Then during the summer going into 7th grade, i went to his house because i found out my brother never told him that i didn't lik...
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i need help. =[
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 9:39 pm
ok so theres this guy Jesse. I went out with him in january and we broke up but since then he's always been there for me and told me when guys were using me and still cared about me for so long. in march/april we got back "together" but didnt like officially go out, because i ruined it by ditching him for another guy. after that he was still nice to me and we have been friends, but lately we've been drifting apart and i guess the distance has mademe realize that he was one thing in my life that was always there, left unappreciated. i realized that i really love him deep in my heart, and i cant lose him. i really feel like hes not the same anymore, he doesnt seem to care like he used to. i really hate myself for letting this happen...
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Jealousy, or staying true to myself.
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 9:32 pm
Okay, so I'm in love with this guy named ross, and im not sure if i should hook up with other people to see if it makes him jealous or just hook up with nobody because i only want him. it makes me feel bad when i hook up with other guys bc it makes me want ross more but i figured he might want me more if i did hook up with other guys, and ive tried to before adn it didnt seem to work but idk i think should keep trying.
-- Danielle (on kellys username)
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friends to love to friends to maybe love again?
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 9:22 pm
i had this guy friend. lets say his name is john. and me and him were best friends and of course we fell for each other. and finally dated which i was kinda a jerk to him for a while there. and i broke up with him, and he stopped talking to me for the longest time =[.
finally recently weve started talking since i got my lincense i hung out with him alot lately.
but im afriad im starting to fall for him again and at first my plan was to jus start being friends with him again. but i think i like him more then a friend and i know he still likes me and wuold take me back the guestion is idk if i would hurt him again and ruin the friendship. =[
im kinda confused and idk if i need to slow things down a bit before we get our s...
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Jon && his lies
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 8:58 pm
I'm a 15 year old girl and I know everyone who answers me is going to tell me that love doesn't exist at 15, so I'm going to say, I " like " this guy named Jon. We went out and my friend gave me this birthday present and Jon was like " Where did you get it" and I said " Brad gave it to me for my birthday" and Jon told me to give it back. Jon is very controlling and wont let me get a word in when he's in his controlling moods. I told him I wasn't going to give the present back because it's rude and Brad might think I don't like it and I do. When I said I wouldn't give it back he got mad and of course left me. I asked him later why he even loved me and he just said " I don't, bye. " I was really hurt an...
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AM I MESSED UP OR IS IT NORMAL
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 8:10 pm
okay I am not "boy crazy" but like i have been having short like feelings of being in love with a certain guy then it would fade then a new one would start but iw would be for atleast a month or more way more mostly, bu is that normal becuase it seems a little weird its like i am obsessed and they are all i can think about so is it
i hope you can help me
thnx
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gain his interest again
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 6:38 pm
next week, it'll be me and my boyfriend's two year anniversary and i feel like he's losing interest in me. what are things i can do to gain his interest back?
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never had a true boyfriend
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 6:29 pm
i am 15 years old going into my sophomore year and i have never been kissed and only had 1 boyfriend which we hung out but it wasnt like a real boyfriend, i use to do modeling and i was on the cheerleading team in middle school i know i am not ugly and people think i am pretty, some guys do like me and guys ask me out but i always turn them down, i have 2 older brothers and a little sister, my brothers are protective so i never want to have a guy around me or bring any guys to my house. is there something wrong with me? when people find out i havnt kissed a guy or done anything like that think i am weird or not likeable. but i do want a boyfriend i just have a hard time getting one i like, is anyone else like this? i dont know what to do!
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Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 5:49 pm
Me and my boyfriend lets call him Tom have been together for about a week. We really have a good connection. I have hugged him once. And he asked me if he could kiss me twice, but i didn't answer him. I really want to kiss him so badly, but im nervous. When my friend lets call her Megan kissed her boyfriend lets call him Dan she nearly missed. So i don't want to miss like she did. But however I'm more experienced. And she's only kissed twice.Should I kiss him??
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he is so shy
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 5:34 pm
okay well i really like this guy and i know that he likes me and we are both really shy none of my friends know that i like him.Its summer and what do i do when i go back to school and see him again
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Lies??
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 4:49 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. The first few months we started dating, he asked me the usual "virginity" questions and things like that.. I told him everything, BUT I added and took away things to make me sound ok. I still wasn't comfortable telling him everything.
After the drama of me being a "liar", I prayed, and realized that if I want this relationship to be the way it needs to, then I need to let him know EVERYTHING about me. Nothing should be hidden. So, at 4am (what a great time) I let him know.
8 months later, he has moved to my city for me, we'll be going to school together.. basically starting a new chapter. Everything is PERFECT.
I live in a VER...
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need help with a letter from a "secret admirer"
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 4:02 pm
My wife and I have been married for 13 years. I'm 39 and she's 40 and we've been together since i was 22 and she was 23. Lately, she's been down and I'd like to put a letter from a "secret admirer(me)" in her car and see if that perks her up. Ideally, I'd put an email address in it and see if she would contact me at it. Does anyone here have any good ideas for a secret admirer letter or can someone draft one up for me? I wanted to make it seem like it's from a local man that thinks she's beautiful. I can be reached at ericmsdw2005@yahoo.com
thank you!
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Go for it, or wait?
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 3:52 pm
Okay so I'm a girl and i'm 14. I like this guy he's 14 as well. He's been flirting with me alot, he thinks i'm gorgeous, hot, he says noone can resist me and such. A friend of mine asked him if he was gonna ask me out cuz he was going to a while ago but he had a girlfriend. He said that I'm a cool girl and he wants to but he's afraid cuz of how his relationships have beeng going. So, I want to ask him out. The problem is that one of my best friends likes him too. It feels like if I ask him it'll be betraying her. But if he asks me it'd be different since i didn't pursue it even though I knew she liked him. Plus, she's laid back and i'm sure she wouldn't really mind if this guy and i go out.
My question is: Should I ask him out? Or wait for him?
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i cant get over my ex boyfriend.
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 3:46 pm
its been about a month or so since my boyfriend broke up with me. and that was like the 4th time we've been together and now he has a girlfriend. i just found that out the other day and when i heard he had a girlfriend, it made me cry.everyone keeps telling that i need to get over him and move on but i've been trying to do that for like 3 weeks now and we didnt really talk alot but the other day i went to my friends house and me and him started to talk again. and that was a big mistake cuz i was almost over him and now im starting to like him again.
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first kiss troubles
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 3:39 pm
ok, i am 14f. i am dating this guy, that is kind of shy, but i really like him. We've been friends for a couple of years, and dated last year, but last year he was kind of selfish so we were friends this year, and he asked me out, i said yes. We've been dating for 2 and a half weeks, and last week he got dared to kiss me. He hasn't yet. I'm worried. I'm kind of nervous cause this is my first kiss, and i really do like him. help,
M.J.
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One Tough Love Triangle
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 3:07 pm
Hi everyone, this is the first time im trying this site, but my situation has gotten so serious, i really need some advice from outsiders. Im a 18 year old male.
Alright, the situation is that at our college we have this group of friends that we all hang out in. We are all a pretty close knit group, go to the movies together, lime at each others houses etc.. In this group there are a few relationships, one of which is Julia and Danny. They were in this constant on and off sort of thing for 3 years, he would break it off to give her space and they used to fight all the time. One time when it was off, me and Julia started talking alot, some flirting started and she eventually told me she liked me and i admitted i did to. I had...
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JUST A GUY..
Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 2:44 pm
Ok, I really like his guy and I think I'm going to dump my boyfriend for him.
I'm positive he likes me too by the way..
And we made this deal where we're saving our first kiss for each other, and I really want to kiss him. Should I make out, too?
Should I make the firts move, because he's shy.
Any help is loved =]
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