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need help with a letter from a "secret admirer"
My wife and I have been married for 13 years. I'm 39 and she's 40 and we've been together since i was 22 and she was 23. Lately, she's been down and I'd like to put a letter from a "secret admirer(me)" in her car and see if that perks her up. Ideally, I'd put an email address in it and see if she would contact me at it. Does anyone here have any good ideas for a secret admirer letter or can someone draft one up for me? I wanted to make it seem like it's from a local man that thinks she's beautiful. I can be reached at ericmsdw2005@yahoo.com
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Hey Eric,
You'r on the right track but a letter from a secret admirer telling her she's beautiful and things like that might throw her off a bit ,she could think its a stalker if you leave to many or are to lovey dovey ,if she found out it was you she might think you were trying to see if she was a cheater or if you might think she was haveing an affair , also if you left your emil adress if she's your wife why would she not know your email adress ? you could leave little notes auround the house in random places like tucked under the visor of the mirror in her car or in a dresser drawer to let her find telling her how much you love her and how glad you are she's your wife and little gifts auround the house like a rose on her plate at a meal or breakfast in bed you could also leave her poems or something to let the romantic side of you shign thru . I hope your wife feels better and this advice works !!:)
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What I think you should do is just drop her sweet, romantic notes from YOU, rather than the whole "Secret Admirer" thing, because I can just see that coming back up bad in the end. In the notes, tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Also, what you could do is take notice in the little details that you hadn't noticed before and complament her on them, like say if she got a hair cut, tell her that is really brings out her beautful face, or something. I hope this was of some help to you!
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To me, it sounds like you're testing your wife to see if she contacts this man.
However, I'm happy that you want to uplift your wife, but I don't think this is the way to go. I think you should, in your own words, write her a love letter explaining all the things you love and admire about her.
Hope this Helps!
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i dont think that is a good idea either.
when she found out that it was really you,it would probably make her feel like you were testing her.
i agree that it would make her feel a lot better,if you just stuck a little note in her car or her purse for her to find,telling her how much you love her,and you hopes she has a good day.
good luck & i hope i helped.
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I don't like the secret admirer thing either. I think she would be much happier in the long run if you yourself...in your own words, left her a great note telling her how wonderful you think she is. :)
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thats kind of mean, because if she does get 'perked ut' and then finds out its you, your gonna look like such a jackass. instead, get smoeone else to do it,so that way, if she finds out, it wont look [as] staged
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