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I feel like i made the biggest mistake of my life!


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 10:37 pm

OK here it goes I went out with this guy Ben and he broke up with me.. and then 2 months passed and we decided to give it another try unfornately it didn't work out so i broke up with him. the thing is, is i have a thing for his brother jay and i know he has a thing for me because he told me after the first time ben broke up with me. i still have a thing for jay, but i don't know what to do. ben is currently not talking to me. he won't give me the time of day... he is upset and acting childish so i don't wanna deal with him. what should i do?

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The Role Of Girls


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 8:53 pm

Do guys mind if girls ask them out? Usually, it is the guy who asks the girl so I'm just wondering if it is okay for "her" to ask "him".

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stupid guys :)


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 8:44 pm

17/f
Okay, I'm friends with this guy, and for the past few days we've been talking about dating. He's been telling me a lot of stuff convinicing me he wants to be with me or whatever. Well, I'm best friends with his niece. They're only a few years apart in age, & he's four years older than me, so don't freak out lol. Anyways, we've kissed & made out & he was supposed to take me to a movie last night. Well, he got back from work and said something came up, so I asked him what and he said he'd tell me later. I found out from someone else that he spent the night in a couples hotel with his girlfriend. He didn't tell me he had a girlfriend, so now I feel stupid. I don't really know what to say to him about it. Any ideas? =/

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should i date him again?


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 7:45 pm

earlier this year i dated a guy. we dated for almost 2 months and then i broke up with him because i felt that i didnt really like him any more. and now we are friends. i know that he still has feelings for me because his best friend told me. but lately ive felt like i like him again. but im afraid that if we went out again that the same thing would happen again. should i tell him i wanna date him again or should we just stay friends?

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Dream.


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 7:09 pm

I have a boyfriend. But last night I had a dream where I was making out with this guy I used to like. Is that some kind of sign that I should be with him? Or does it mean that deep down I still like him? What does it mean?

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love life


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 4:47 pm

my name is rachel and iam a 17 female and iam dating this boy named jesse and for some reason iam afraid to call him I think it's becouse i'll say something stupid or something like that and when I called him today I got off the phone really quickly because his twin brother answered the phone and when I asked is jesse there he said jesse it's your girlfriend rachel and I think that made me even more nervouse than I already was.I don't have any classes with him either and we don't even have the same lunch at school becouse he got his schedule changed so now we don't have the same lunch anymore so the only time I get to see him during school is at breakfast.This is the 3rd time i've dated jesse and iam afraid to tell my mom iam dating him for...

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Should I be worried?


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 4:41 pm

OK well i was invited to Cedar point with my boy friend, and i really wanted to go, but i was going to be up North, and had to say no. So instead he invited his best friend who so happens to be my best friend as well. Well it so happens that about a year ago he really liked my best friend, and asked her out several time, but she always declined. I'm a little worried that by spending a day with my best friend might ,ake him realize again that he still likes her, even tho she has a boyfriend that she loves. Should i be worried? We've only been going out for about a week, and i don't know if i should worry. Am i being stupid by worring?

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makeout


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 12:10 pm

i've been going out w/ this guy for a couple months and we've kissed acouple times and stuff but weve never makein out and i dont now how to get him to makeout w/ me can someone plz help me

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umm...yeah?


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 12:05 pm

i didnt know what to put this under but anyways

how do u make out with someone?

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Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 11:15 am

Hey guys, I need some help here. I want to know if any of these are signs that my guy friend likes me.
There's this other creep at my school who sometimes hangs out with all of us at lunch. The other day my friend had to go do something in the classroom, so he wasn't there yet. This creep, we'll call him...'Sean'...ran up to me and grabbed me and said: 'I need to ask you a personal question. Are you going with anyone to the Sadie Hawkins dance?' When I said no, he asked me friend and my other friend. Anyway, later on I told my guy friend about it and he sort of got protective-like, and wanted to know if I'd said yes to 'Sean'. I said no, and he asked if I had a date, then sort of playfully suggested I go with him. Aside from the fac...

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i think i shoudl dump him


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 10:23 am

My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think?

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turn ons [for guys]


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 7:39 am

I'm about to go over to my boyfriends house tommorow, and I need some tips on what to do that will really turn him on. I mean I'm not planning on having sex, but I wanna make him hot. any ideas?

oh yeah, and please don't say "smile a lot" or "be sweet". I want to know some actions to do. thanks <33

[16/f]

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Make-out.


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 2:32 am

What are some good tips or tricks to make making out for fun without being sexual? I don't like using tongue, so what could I do?

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how do you get over a guy?


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 1:34 am

ok how do you get over a guy?

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REALLY i NEED ADViCE!!


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 12:39 am

Okay so I have a boyfriend of almost 11 monthes now. Problem is his mom and I do not get along exspecially after last night!

So I seen she IMed me while I was with my boyfriend ((her son)). She said hey or w/e so I IMed her back sayin hey an I had a question so I asked her why did she let his ex gf stay the night knowing I don't like her. She told me that since chad was at work she thought it was fine plus her house is open to any one she care's about or w/e. So I got all upset you know cause' that make's me mad an basically told her you know that it's not right an supposively his mom already told him that one of his ex's misses him right? SO why would his mom tell him this if she knew he has a gf, an like that make's me won...

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Getting along with my ex


Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 12:03 am

My girlfriend broke up with me a few months ago (reason cited: my arrogance was getting in the way of our relationship). We are involved in a lot of the same clubs (both officers) and so forth at school and so somehow or another, we will need to get along.

Recently I IMed her just to ask how she was doing and what she's been up to. (Have to start somewhere, right?) "I'd rather not talk about it with you," was her reply. Ouch. Cold.

So anyway, ideas? I really don't want to fight her on commitees and such all year. I mean should I just ask her how she's doing until she answers? Should I give her (some more?) space?

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i want a freaking b/f


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 11:28 pm

13/f


i need one. badly! im not ugly not gorgeous.im not skinny. im a bot overweight. and im real nice. but no guys ever talk to me. i dont wanna be mean but my friends that are less attractive get a b/f. and not just one. like 3 in a week. what is wrong with me? i try talking to guys but they think im weird bc sometimes i get a little weird. they think im a short pipsqueak bc theyre usually 16. im like there annoying little sister. ughh. i wanna find guys my age. who wear most perferably tight girl pants. and usually have long skater hair. but its hard to find guys like that. of course i want them to be nice and funny and sweet and attractive. but how do i find guys like that?! schools starting soon. how do i get guy...

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Posted Friday August 4 2006, 11:03 pm

Last night I found out that my close friend slept over my boyfriends house. He didn't tell me that she was going to even though I was with him all day. That really anonyed me because he doesn't even want me to come to his dad house (it's a 30 minute drive from here & he says he hates it there) The girl is one of my close friends, but I know her well and she tends to almost act like they're going out by doing little things like touching his arm and getting really close to him (and she has a boyfriend) I can flat out say I trust him but I don't trust her especially because she lets other guys do stuff to her and lies to her boyfriend all the time. Yes, their good friends but why was she sleeping over his house in the first place? It just ...

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Rumors


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 10:25 pm

Ok well i keep hearing things about my boyfriend that he is cheating and stuff and im hearing this stuff from my so called friends. And i know my boyfriend isnt one to cheat and no offence but the girls my friends say he is cheating on me with are nasty. But i dont know why my friends would say that, and i want to beleive my boyfriend. But it bugs me and hurts me so much because for the past few days 3 of my friends said he was cheating or trying to. and i dont know who to beleive my friends or my boyfriend. and i just need help on who to beleive, even though i think my boyfriend isnt lieing, but i need to know how to gain his trust/

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JeALousy


Posted Friday August 4 2006, 10:23 pm

Ok i have a huge problem, Me and my boyfriend have been dateing for almost 6 months, but a big thing that always makes us fight is me being jealous. I mean he has alot of friends that are girls and when he talks to them and stuff i get jealous. I dont want an answer saying this is normal because i know this already, But i just want to be able to be like yah im cool i dont care, because i dont want him to feel like im trying to push him away from his friends.

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