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Should I be worried?
OK well i was invited to Cedar point with my boy friend, and i really wanted to go, but i was going to be up North, and had to say no. So instead he invited his best friend who so happens to be my best friend as well. Well it so happens that about a year ago he really liked my best friend, and asked her out several time, but she always declined. I'm a little worried that by spending a day with my best friend might ,ake him realize again that he still likes her, even tho she has a boyfriend that she loves. Should i be worried? We've only been going out for about a week, and i don't know if i should worry. Am i being stupid by worring?
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Hey,
First of all, you are not stupid for worrying, after all, he did always like her and want to go out with her. But in the same time, you still shouldn't worry. Because this is your boyfreind we are talking about and this is your best freind, these are the two people that you should trust more than anyone in this whole entire world. and they should never let you down. And besides, when he used to ask your best freind out, that was before he dated you ,but now he is with you and he loves you and cares about you and i am so sure that he's over her. And the guy would be a loser if he asked her out again after all these times she had rejected him.And he should know that she has a boyfreind, and that if he asked her out again, she would reject him.
so i don't want you to worry about anything, because the first rule in any relationship or friendship or whatever it is, that there should be trust, and until now, he didn't lose your trust, and i am sure that he won't. And i am also sure that he wants to get your best freind along, for your own comfort and safety, so always try to look on the bright side, but be sensible and wise in the sametime.
So i don't want you to worry now, and just have a really good time and cheer up and love your boyfreind because i am sure that he loves you too. And if you need any other advice or help, or if anything new happened in this situation, then please be free to contact me.
Goodluck:)
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It's completly normal to be worried about what might happen. But if you know you can trust him then everything should be fine. And if you know that he really truely loves you then you have absolutly nothing to worry about
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That's cool that all 3 of you are close friends. if she as meaning your best friend has a boyfriend who she loves then you don't have to worry. i am sure that he likes you very much and nothing is going to happen between your guy and best friend. he asked her only because you could not go, and they are friends too. just think of it as him and a guy friend just hangging out. if you can. lol. but on the other hand, if he did like her and asked her out several times then he might be using you to get to her. but AGAIN if she is so in love with her boyfriend she won't go for him, and if something does happen then if you are really close with this best friend she will tell you if anything happend. it answer your question stright, NO you don't have to worry. just relax and enjoy the time you have for yourself.
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I don't think you should be worried. If this girl is your best friend and in love with her boyfriend, she is not going to care if any other guy likes her...even if that guy is your boyfriend. This is actually something good for you, if he does start to like her...then maybe he's just not the one for you, but if he doesn't like her it just shows how much he likes you. I'm just saying, see how the thing goes...don't begin making something out of nothing.
Best of Luck.
-Teacup
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