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i want a freaking b/f
13/f
i need one. badly! im not ugly not gorgeous.im not skinny. im a bot overweight. and im real nice. but no guys ever talk to me. i dont wanna be mean but my friends that are less attractive get a b/f. and not just one. like 3 in a week. what is wrong with me? i try talking to guys but they think im weird bc sometimes i get a little weird. they think im a short pipsqueak bc theyre usually 16. im like there annoying little sister. ughh. i wanna find guys my age. who wear most perferably tight girl pants. and usually have long skater hair. but its hard to find guys like that. of course i want them to be nice and funny and sweet and attractive. but how do i find guys like that?! schools starting soon. how do i get guys to notice me? what should i wear? like how do i throw myself out there without begging for attention. i want to be the girl with the best b/f! idk im like overreacting and i want a b/f. please help. i dont want like "youll find one soon" i want some like details and crap.
p.s.-sorry for seeming desprate. i almost am!
and sorry it was so long.
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ummm k.well first of all im 13 to and i just broke up with my boyfriend!they r drama and i dont think you want one...but i guess since u do just dont change urself!never change 4 anybody but urself!ok well wait for skoo to come and theres alwaiis new guyz 2 see and meet!!!also b kinduh flirty with them but not like xsagerated hoe kinduh flirty... where do you live because i know a shyt load of guyz like dat lol but yeah good luck hope you find a good guy soon
mucho luv~~~
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No offense, but I think you are a little too young to be "desperate" for love. My only advice is don't be somebody you are not. If you have to act different to get a man, then the guys you attract are only liking the person you are pretending to be. Not YOU. And if you dress differently or more provacatively, you will just be getting the wrong type of attention. Men will want you for your body & not for what's inside. I hope you understand what I am trying to say, and I hope it helps.
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I'll be honest, you could weight 500 pounds and guys could still like you.
Sure, maybe most guys go for looks and the like, but if it's a real guy, and he likes you for your personality, then trust me, thats the guy you want, cause guys that want you for your body will just get tired of you after awhile, just look for that right guy.
Just remember, it doesn't matter if you find somebody, you have to find each other.
:-)
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Usually when you don't expect to meet a guy or get one to like you, it happens. Just be your normal self, you don't need to change yourself. One day you'll find a guy who LOVES your quirky qualities and you'll be happy because he appreciates you. Don't focus all your time on boys, and yes I know it's hard...I once was a 13 year old girl myself, but trust me...they are a whole lot more important things in life and finding a flavor of the week is not it. At this time you should focus on school *I know a bit nerdy, but important*, you friends, and your hobbies. Hey, through friends and hobbies arise opportunities to meet new guys.
As for your "less pretty" friends getting more boyfriends than you...hey it happens. Been there, done that.Who knows why it happens, but it pretty much does.
Good Luck and you don't need a boyfriend...just wait...time will take it's course.
-Teacup
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