i find myself takeing things to seroiusly and overeacting and i am barely ever happy. and im only 13 and its summer and i want to have the best time of my life. any advice on how to be more happy and forget about the hard thigns and life. And im always thinking about life and it makes me upset because i feel im growing up to fast because im more mature than i probally should be but i just want to have fun and live but i always find myself down any help on to be more happy hyper smiley?
i can totally relate. Unfortunately i can`t give you much more advice than just this:
live your teenage life to the fullest. the rest of the summer, plan a big get together with your friends. when/if you have this get together, don`t be serious! be as stupid as you can. later in life, you`ll thank yourself for it; 13 is too young to become an adult.
lilteacup answered Friday August 4 2006, 11:36 pm: It is impossible to just forget about the hard things and life as you said. But it is also unhealthy to focus on them continually.
You are going to face problems and you are going to feel sad some times, but you got to make time for the good things too. It's summer, go to the beach, go watch new movies, bowl, dance around like no one can see you. Enjoy yourself.
Perhaps the reason you cannot enjoy yourself is because you haven't solved your problem, I know I'm like that. Try to solve your problem and if it's beyond your reach, then what can you do...don't dwell on it!
You are 13, and all you will end up is stressing yourself and getting bitter, and you have yet to begin living.
You will miss good things in life if you don't allow yourself to enjoy them and being a spectator in life, is not an option.
iheartyoussx3 answered Friday August 4 2006, 11:23 pm: hey, make plans to hang out with your friends alot. maybe plan a little trip to like somewhere local with a big group of friends.
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