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does my bf have potential to be abusive?
Posted Sunday August 20 2006, 3:55 am
I had only been dating my bf for a couple of weeks. Normally he is pretty nice to me; but this one time he yelled at me and said I wasnt listening to him. He was really good for about a month after that. Well a couple of nights ago it was one of his friends birthdays. We all went out for drinks. His friends were all being really crude and disgusting so I left the table. My bf followed me and I told him I wanted to go home because his friends made me uncomfortable. Well he got mad; stuck his face inches from mine and slowly but loudly said in an angry voice "I"M SO SORRY". It kind of freaked me out. Do you think my bf has potential to be violent with me?
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How to get him to ask me out
Posted Sunday August 20 2006, 2:47 am
16/f
So there is this boy and he came to see my friend that was in a play with me. He was later telling her that he needed a girl friend and asked if i was available. After we hung out a few times I got really interested in him. That was in may now its august and nothing has happend yet. I know he is a shy guy but how can i make him feel more comfortable around me?.
thanks in advance!
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he liked me...but i blew him off..was i scared? am i wrong..
Posted Sunday August 20 2006, 1:59 am
16-female ♥
well you see there was this guy that went out with this girl for about a year and 4 months i think? only thing he is 14 but looks older than me and acts really mature! well after him and his gf broke up he started talking to me and i didnt know him that well and he like started being all nice and saying wow when i first saw you i thought damn that girl is beautiful.and he is like i will never be able to forget that face of yours and all this stuff. but then i didnt want to start liking him because he was like still in love with his girlfriend. and everyone knew it. he would want me to like come over late at night -but i think to just do stuff and i wasnt about to go over with my car at like 130 and get ...
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my problem with love
Posted Sunday August 20 2006, 12:08 am
I'm 16 years old. I've never had a girlfriend, I've never been kissed, I've never even held hands. Is something wrong with me? I feel like I'm missing out on one of the best parts of my teenage years. Is it wrong that it hasn't happened yet? Is it a bad thing? And what about when I finally do get a girl. Is she not going to want to be with me because I'm not experienced enough to make her happy? I guess the advice I need is how do I stop worrying so much. The only reason it bothers me so much is because of my age. I'm 16, I should have at least gotten to 3rd base by now, and I damn sure should have fallen in love. Please help! I appreciate it.
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im still sad
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 11:35 pm
13/f
its almost been a week ive been sad. and he still ignores me. i found out another reason... he thinks i like another guy, and he thinks i flirt wit' him... and its pretty much natural rightt? you flirt when you dont' know that you are... but he should've told me to change, or told me, or asked me if it was true. Instead of saying "its over." and leaving me there.. thenn some of my bestfriends is on his side, and im like "we have sides now?" and hes still ignoring me.. he looks at me.. but he doesnt takl to me, im trying to straighten things out wit him.. but he wont listen to me. its nearly impossible to get his attention. if i told my friend to tell him he'll say "so?" in a mean way. if anyone wann...
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Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 11:23 pm
f/15
I had this one REALLY close guy friend, Jason, who I had been friends with for three years. Recently we told eachother that we have stronger feelings than 'just friends.'
Since then nothing had happened between us and I was okay with that but I REALLY wanted to kiss him. So last night we were at a party and when he arrived I kissed him. It was shortlived since it was just a 'hello' kiss, but it was our first (and last?).
Five minutes before this I told one of my best friends, Ann, that I liked Jason a lot. Ann has a boyfriend.
Just after I kissed Jason, so did Ann. We had been drinking (Jason hadn't) so I thought it was kind of funny and she only kissed him on the cheek.
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Bisexuality
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 10:32 pm
Okay, I'm scared to tell my mom... I think I might be bisexual.I'm afraid to tell anyone but my one close friend. So what should I do because I know it's a sin. Help!?!?!?
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Confused
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 10:23 pm
O.k.
I went to camp last week. There was this amazingly cute guy there. And he was in my biblestudy group. At the last bublestudy group, we had to write nice things about each other on a poece of paper. He wrote on mine that he thought I was an AMAZING person and that I was a hottie. I was totally happy. I thought that he really liked me. He usted to star at me all the time in biblestudy but after that, he doesn't.
Does he really like me? Or does he just think i'm a pretty face?
-Confused
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Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 8:46 pm
my boyfriend & i broke up about six months ago. we were so in love but i got over it. you know? well...i had a dream about him last night & now all these feelings are rushing back to me. i rarely talk to him anymore but i was wondering how to approach him. what do i say to him? he's going off to college this week & i'm guessing that has something to do with it. also...do you think there's any chance of him still having feelings for me too? help!
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This boy
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 8:20 pm
ive liked this boy for a while and when he liked me i didnt know it and then i started liking him and he likes another gurl and ive been crying for like 20 minutes and im sure i will be all tonight and tommorow i dont know what to do i know im not gonna get over him anytime soon. what should i do?
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Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 8:12 pm
15/female
Here lately all i have been thinking about is how bad i want a girlfriend. but i never know which girl could be gay and which one isnt. im constantly judging girls. im not open about my sexuality yet, so of course no one knows. all i think about is what i would do for her, and how much i want one. in class i get distracted way to much thinkin about what i would do for her. someone please help. whats wrong with me?!?!?!
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what should i plan for my boyfriends birthday?
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 7:53 pm
my boyfriend is goin to be 19 next month.. and i have no idea what i should do for him. i want to surprise him somehow .. with his best friend and his gf and me.. and do somethin special for him.. but i dont know what i should do for his birthday.. like i already know what to get him.. but the problem is what should i do on his birthday ?
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Sickness and Boyfriend..
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 6:32 pm
This might be kinda long and in depth i apreaciate it if you read all of it.
First of all im 19/f and my boyfriend is also 19. We'll call him J. Ok, so J and I have been together for 3 years, four next july. He treats me better than I could ever ask, and does things for me. We planned on getting married and probably having children together. The thing is over the past 2 years I've gotten really sick. I spend alot of time at hospitals and in doctors offices. Ever since six months ago, I've been on treatment for cervical cancer. It's working but the side affects are making me sicker than ever. Some days it's even hard for me to get out of bed. So what I'm getting at.. I always feel so guilty and upset about hurting him because ...
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Second Date
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 6:19 pm
My boyfriend of one week and I went to the movies last night. I'm 13, (So is he) and that was my very first date. We even held hands, which was great cause all my old boyfriends never did anything.
But what do I expect for next time?
Should I hold his hand again, since we already did? I just want to make sure he knows that I want him to do stuff like that, thanks :)
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im a tall freak!
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 3:37 pm
'm a 13/f and all of my friends have already started dating. i havent even found out 1 guy that even likes me! my best friends called up my crush and asked him if he likes me. he said i'm not his type and that i'm too tall. i play volleyball and he plays hockey. so i think we have things in commen. but i just dont get it. i'm about 5'6 or 5'7 and he's around that height too. i am so sad now because i feel so behind. all of my friends have bf's and i dont even have a guy that likes me! i need some advice on how to make myself feel better about myself. please help!!!! thanks soo much!
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Relationship problems.. *yikes*
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 3:17 pm
Okay... so let me give you the background info. I'm gay and my partner is bi but he "prefers guys over girls." It is both our first relationship in a male-male preference and the problem i'm having is that it seems as if we're not really that close... in the sense that we've been going out for over a month we've been on 6 dates 2 of which sucked because parental issues and we haven't seen each other for about a week and a half... We haven't done anything kissing, cuddling, any of the sort the only type of body contact we've had is just hugging before either one of us leaves to go home... we're both UBER shy but when we're talking online it's like a whole different world/conversation... in the sense of both of us being really "...
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Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 2:32 pm
hey theres this boy and he is 2 grades higher than me and hes really sweet and smart,cute,and funny. Should I ask him out? Please help from thinker101.
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i'm a tall freak
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 1:44 pm
i'm a 13/f and all of my friends have already started dating. i havent even found out 1 guy that even likes me! my best friends called up my crush and asked him if he likes me. he said i'm not his type and that i'm too tall. i play volleyball and he plays hockey. so i think we have things in commen. but i just dont get it. i'm about 5'6 or 5'7 and he's around that height too. i am so sad now because i feel so behind. all of my friends have bf's and i dont even have a guy that likes me! i need some advice on how to make myself feel better about myself. please help!!!! thanks soo much!
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ugh
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 1:42 pm
i have a problem & i'm hoping someone can tell me how to deal with it. alright...i'm really shy to begin with. everytime i get a boy we break up because i won't open up to him. it's not that at all. i just keep my distance because i don't want to smother him or whatever. i feel that if i call & ask if he wants to do something or that if i walk up to him at school to talk to him that i'm interupting his life. any advice would help. maybe someone could give me some limitation for when to talk to him & when to leave him alone. thank you so much. [:
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whats with him?
Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 12:24 pm
Ok. this is going to be a long story. but i need help and i just heard about this site. ok. so me and this kid...lets call him sean. started liking each other. he has always liked me alot more. but we would go to movies and the mall and like flirt and hold hands. i knew i shouldnt kiss him cause my radar was going up but i kissed him anyways one night. and then i heard from a friend that he liked this girl. i was really hurt. cause before we kissed and crap he was like i really really like you and crap. he went online once he knew i was hurt and was like OMG I DONT LIKE HER I LIKE YOU ALOT do you like me and i was like i dont know. and then i went to the movies and they were supposed to meet them they didnt show up for the whole movie so w...
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