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whats with him?
Ok. this is going to be a long story. but i need help and i just heard about this site. ok. so me and this kid...lets call him sean. started liking each other. he has always liked me alot more. but we would go to movies and the mall and like flirt and hold hands. i knew i shouldnt kiss him cause my radar was going up but i kissed him anyways one night. and then i heard from a friend that he liked this girl. i was really hurt. cause before we kissed and crap he was like i really really like you and crap. he went online once he knew i was hurt and was like OMG I DONT LIKE HER I LIKE YOU ALOT do you like me and i was like i dont know. and then i went to the movies and they were supposed to meet them they didnt show up for the whole movie so we were like wtf? and then we kept calling them and they didnt answer the phone i was pissed off. then i saw too girls from our school walk out of the movie theather. and i knew not sean but the kid he was with liked one of them. so then i was like wow they ditched us. so we went outside the movies and we saw another girl(taylor) from our school walk out and was like heyy. im going home..i already saw 3 movies...well not the whole thing you know how sean is. See she knew i liked him so she was like rubbing it in my face. yeahh so we were like wow. and then i got home and i was like heyy to the girl that said that i was like are you and sean going to go out. and shes like well he sure acted like it at the movies but we didnt kiss because he said he had vicky on his mind(another girl). so i was like wow. and then shes like but he called me after and said that he didnt think we should go out because of my ex. and he felt badd. so then i was just completly hurt cause i mean its like he tells girls anything so he can get what he wants. so i was heart broken then i was like w/e hes not good enough blah blah blah and then he came online and was like holy crap stupid taylor messed everything up between us. those are rumors i like you and she screwed everything up. i was just like okk. and then i was like well then why'd you ditch us in the first place and hes like i didnt know we were supposed to meet you(suposibly his friend never told him) but yeahh so we talked it out and im like im not mad at you. and then his friend and i talk on the phone every night so he called him and his friend was like so who do you like now. and hes like dude no one. and then his friends like dude you know casey(me) is on the phone right. and hes like yeahh but that doesnt matter she hates me. and i was like uhh no i dont. and hes like w/e. and so now school starts and i miss the days when we would all hang out and im realizing that i really like him and stuff. so i message him on myspace and was like hey do you still like me? and hes like hey yea y? and i never responded but i was talking to his friend before i got a response and i was like so does he still like me cause i know someone else i kinda like and if he doesnt like me then ill go out with this kid(that kid is made up cause i dont want to be hurt.) but his friends like OMG im gonna call him cause he liked you alot. and today i talked to him and he was like well sean likes you but he doesnt want a girlfriend right now so you should go out with the other kid. so im confussed do you think that hes just saying that cause he doesnt want to go our with me. or does he still like me and he just doesnt want a girlfriend right now or he likes someone else or something. ohh. and everyone knows him as a player so he was like upset and was like...well im gonna show everyone im not a player. is that maybe why he doesnt like me. sorry this is so long. thank you so much for reading it if you did.
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Like I think you are so right about him being a player, but aren't you kinda like having him on your mind and this other guy, too? No one wants to be ditched for another person, but no one really wants to be just with one person either at your age. Hmmmm....what to do? Until you are an adult and married, you do not have to be in a relationship where you are only commited to one person. It is fun to play couple, but the more serious you take a relationship at your age, the more you will get hurt. Dating is experimental and really about getting to know YOURSELF more than the people you are dating. It is fun and exciting, but dating always brings drama, which can be cool or heartbreaking. If you let go of the idea that you are supposed to find a guy who will totally commit to just you at such a young age, then you will have more fun. Try to get through school without putting yourself at the mercy of the guys you will be dating. Know that everything can change quickly and guys are more interested in making out with many girls then they are interested in a commited relationship to only one girl, even if they think she is the best. He may like you the most, but he does not want to be with just you. Yucky I know, but that is how 99.9 percent of guys are.
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i think you guys shouldnt be together because when someone "doesnt want a gf, bf" then they usually are embarrassed, ashamed, or dont like you. believe me, its happened. also, if he stood you up, then duh! hes not right for you. i also think you shouldnt have made that person up. but since you did, i would say that you were going out with someone from another state/school. make them up. it will be easier and sean will get gelous, BUT DONT DATE HIM ever. he seems like a player. you SHOULDNT HAVE KISSED HIM. i think that was a stupid move. but you do what you think.
micki
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