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in love with my best friend


Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 2:49 am

well this is your typical, boy falls in love with his best friend. i have loved this girls since high school, and out friendship is the strongest friendship anybody could have. we are like exactly the same.

well, i never told her how i felt, i believed that i had no chance with her. she was always with someone with someone else, and she seemed happy. certain things happened , and i had to tell her how i felt. we had to stop talkin for a couple of years, but we are now talking but keeping our friendship very private and hidden.

i have been in love with this girl for like 6 years, i know it could never be, but something inside tells me that she is the one. :-( i am aware of my situation, i know i should le...

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boring boyfriend


Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 2:18 am

I have a boyfriend and weve been going out for a week. I know it doesnt seem like a long time, but he and I liked eachother for a long time. Well he recently is kindof ignoring me, not talking to me (like in short sentances) and he took me out of the first spot on myspace and He doesnt call very much. Its kindof getting annoying and I think he might cheat on me. My problem is, I still like him, but I do want to be happy and get rid of him early so it doesnt get bad. What do I do?

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"boyfriend"


Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 1:57 am

Oh no! i have a problem. this boy asked me out like a week ago and he is seriously...like so in love with me. the problem is that i dont think i really have such deep feelings for him. and i cannot break up with him because he keeps on telling me he keeps getting hurt by girls..and that i make him so happy and you know things that would make it impossible for me to break up with him. So any suggestions on maybe how to get myself to like him more?? Or even what to do?!THANKS i need it.

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IRAQ


Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 1:14 am

hey my boyfriend is in the army and he had to go back to iraq today and he's already been shot twice.,... i just basically need help to keep going... im so scared that he might get hurt or worse ... not come back
thanks

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this guy..wants me..but for the wrong reasons?


Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 12:15 am

16/f

to make a long long story short..
there was this guy (jeff) that loved his gf and they went out for like a year and 4 months they broke up he thought i was really hott and wanted to do stuff with me and we start "talking" then he went back out with his girlfriend now they broke up i had feelings for him and NOW...

tonight jeff was sleeping over at my cousins house with their other friend joe. well my best friend/cousin nikki was there and all of a sudden i get a call from her so im like ok hello? and it was a guy and theyre like hey baby blah blah we gonna do it tonight? like joking and i was like uhhh i dont know who this is! and they're like come on how can you not know baby. and then it...

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Hmm...


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 11:47 pm

So I have these two friends that I'm really close with. We hang out all the time and such, but sometimes it feels like I'm so different from them. You see, they are both always the center of attention and ALL the guys like them. No lie! Like, I always feel secondary when I'm with them. For example, I was hanging with both of them the other day and we were with 3 other guys. Two of those guys likes one friend, and the other guy likes my other friend...but I always feel left out because no guys like me. It's like they're always hanging out with people when I'm there and I'm never really part of their "clique." For example, the guys invited both of my friends over and didn't invite me. It's like I'm invisible. I don't get it; people ...

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how does it feel to kiss a girl??


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 11:40 pm

age:13
gender:female

ok well this may be a weird question but i wanna know.i am bisexual and i wanna know how it feels to kiss a girl not a guy.i was almost in a relationship with a girl but she moved away.i have a bf but if i ever dated a girl i just wanna know how it feels.i always knew i liked girls more than friends ever since i was in 3rd grade.some of my friends know that i'm bi but my bf doesn't know.so i'm just asking if any of you know how it feels to kiss a girl.so if anyone can give me any info please let me know.
peace up,a town down.

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confused/unsure/in need of opinions


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 11:25 pm

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months. This is my first boyfriend and I love him a lot. But I am worried that he is losing feelings for me because before he would always say how he'd want to marry me someday and now it's like "things might change" and stuff like that. I don't know what to do and it drives me insane. If I ask him if he loses feelings for me he'll deny it but one of my friends asked him before and he said that he did before. What is that supposed to mean?

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this boy..


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 10:34 pm

okay.. well i've got a huge problem. i like this boy and well i was hoping to get to know him better ((im a freshmen && so is he)) and well i jus found out he's in NONE of my classes.. i see him from time to time. && people are always like "you should jus moveon" && stuff. but i'm the type of person who won't giveup on someone until i get them if you know what i mean. i've had plans to hangout with him by getting my other friend who's SUPPPER tight with him to hangout.. && so on. && no one wants to help me out anymore. i really don't know what to do. we're not close enough for me to jus ask him to hangout. we talk occasionally online && last year we used to talk like everyday @ schoo...

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my dirty little secret (online relationship)


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 9:33 pm

Before I ask this question, which may seem to have a simple answer to some, I must first try to put you into my situation. And if i do this properly Im sure you will find that it is not so easily answered. I am a seventeen year old girl starting her senior year in highschool who has never even been spoken to by a guy let alone kissed. Usually I am invisible to them, and when i try to talk to them they usually just ignore me. I used to think it was because i was a bit of a nerd but not even the nerdy boys liked me. So one day during the summer I was just browsing the web reading my favorite fanfiction stories and i come across a dating service advertisement under the romance section. Anyhow i find a guy my age and Instant Message him on...

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our friend is going out with someone else...but i kinda like


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 8:44 pm

16-f

well last summer my cousin liked this one guy. and she hungout with him alot and wanted me to meet him so i did and we then all hungout last summer. my cousin and him kinda had a thing but never went out or actually did anything. and then this kid that my cousin likes(jeremy) went out with one of our old friends megan. but my cousin told me that jeremy thought i was so hot and everything. everyone liked jeremy and thats why i didnt really want to start liking him! and he told my cousin he would pick me over any other girl if i liked him back. but my cousin told me this just a couple weeks ago. i never really thought of him that way because my cousin liked him and i would feel bad to even like him a little bit. so then we...

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Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 8:37 pm

okayy .. i have quite the dilema. my (ex) boyfriend, craig.. of 5 months and me broke up .. its been about a month .. and i thought i was over him. i could see other people and i am currently dating a guy named mark. well mark could be in jail for quite some time for breaking his probation by transporting drugs .. but craig was that one guy, the one you will NEVEr completely get over .. you know. and he feels like he fucked up and he wants me back. i want to be with him. i miss him like crazy. but i guess ive keepen it hidden .. even from myself ..

i dont want to be a bitch and give mark nothing to look forward to getting out for .. but me and him have been togehter only one week before he got sent to jail .. we barely star...

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age difference


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 8:32 pm

i have been hanging out with a new group of friends one of my friends said me and this guy would be a cute couple, im 14 and hes 16, one of my other friends said that i was too young for him but another one of his friends asked him and he said i thought i was pretty and he would think about it, and didnt even say anything about the age, so know i no i have a chance hes really cool but shy and i hardly no him, how can i get him to talk to me and get to know each other and to like me when i hang out with my group of friends again

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Parents and Showers


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 8:04 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. He's 18, I'm 17. Tonight my parents were supposed to be playing in a band about 2 counties over and we were taking a shower together. (Note, nothing more, I'm sure that my mom fully realized by now that we had probably seen eachother naked before.) Still, my parents forgot something and came back, and found us. Made it very clear that it was unnacceptable and I am not allowed to see my boyfriend again.
Now, I realize that this might seem reasonable on my parents part, but they have to understand that I am almost 18, I am going to college, and *GASP*, I might even see my boyfriend naked...and down the road, I might see other people naked. So they're at the gig right now and my ...

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he forgets about me on the phone


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 7:40 pm

my boyfrind an i like to talk on the phone alot lately cuz we're not able to see achother as often as we would like. we would talk for like 3 or 4 hours at night whil we play on the computer or watch tv. we likes to play the MMORPG daiblo 2. he owns a clan, whatever that is. he sometimes has to do something on there that would require both hands so he'd have to put down the phone. i understand that. he says that he'll be right back. but a few times he forgot that he was on the phone with me after he does that. i waited at least an hour last night but he never came back. i fell asleep with the phone on my ear waiting for him. is something wrong that he would just forget about me or am i over reacting?

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really really confused


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 7:37 pm

ok so theres this guy one of his friends keeps asking me if he were to ask me out then would i go out w/ him soo i guess he likes me but he doesnt even talk to me we went out one time nd we barely talked i do like him but i like this other guy too nd i dk what to do i dont want to hurt his feelings but hes so shy we never talk when i really liked him he wasnt interested nd this year all of a sudden i change my look nd got more popular he likes me so i dk....his friend keeps asking me if i like him nd stuff but i never kno what to say we talk online fine but when we're at skool he doesnt talk to me he gets nervous nd quiet nd stuff help!

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Was I rude?


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 6:18 pm


I had my boyfriend over one day. We were watching a movie. And I can't stay still during a movie... that's not of my interest.

And besides that, my dad suddenly got into a discussion with him about speakers.

And it seemed like they're rather talk alone... So I left the room for a few minutes to go on the computer.

Later, I found out that offended my boyfriend. He wanted to hold me and when I suddenly left to go on the computer. He somewhat felt the computer was more important than him.

What I did ... was that really rude?
I apologized, but I don't know...
What else could I do?

He means everything to me.


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does he like me??


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 6:02 pm

ok theres a boy and he is really cute.He makes me laugh when he does funny stuff.We are like really close friends.But i cant tell if he likes me or not because everybody thinks me and him are going out but were not.And so what if we hangout everday.so i need to know if he does.

thanks!

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Is he ruining my mind?


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 5:11 pm

I'm absolutley crazy about my boyfriend (Of one month) So crazy that I can't stop thinking about it, thoughts of him totally make my mind drift off in class. I don't have like ADD or anything, its just when I get bored in class my mind wanders on about thoughts of him, then I fall behind on the lesson. What should I do?

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Does he like me.. or is he playing about?


Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 4:35 pm

ok so about 4 months ago i saw this guy, that worked in this shopping mall ... i had never seen him before... the point is was staring at me all the time i was there( in a really nice way..) and i did the same :) I kept going back for weeks... Till I plucked up the courage to give him my phone number and email address we spoke twice on messenger.. and sent each other a few emails.. the point is he continued staring every time i went there even though his friends have been there with him sometimes and I get the feeling he has told them about me.. but we havent exacly spoken face to face.. he has given me mixed signals cause i am usually the one who has sends him the emails and he doesnt answer for weeks . But a guy who stares at you for...

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