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boring boyfriend
I have a boyfriend and weve been going out for a week. I know it doesnt seem like a long time, but he and I liked eachother for a long time. Well he recently is kindof ignoring me, not talking to me (like in short sentances) and he took me out of the first spot on myspace and He doesnt call very much. Its kindof getting annoying and I think he might cheat on me. My problem is, I still like him, but I do want to be happy and get rid of him early so it doesnt get bad. What do I do?
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Well, since you two had been liking eachother so long, he began to love the chase I guess you could call it, and now that he has you, you're just there, and he can't chase you no longer. I would try talking to him about what's going on, and why is he ignoring you and everything lately. If he doesn't really answer, try and give him a taste of his own medicine and ignoring him a bit and answering in short sentences, if he starts to come back and ask why you're not talking, just try and talk to him about it some more and be like,"Well, that's what you've been doing lately to me, and I just want to know why, is it something I did or something?" But if he still's not trying to resolve anything and fix your guys's relationship, I'd suggest giving him the boot cause obviously he's not putting in too great of an effort. And cheating COULD be a slight possibility, because whenever guys cheat on their girlfriends, they tend to feel guilty and not want to talk to them because they feel bad or look them in the eye or anything. And if he is a possible "chaser", then yeah, he might be setting his eyes on another girl to chase, but I don't think that's the case. Just try talking to him and see what's going on, and if nothing improves between the two of you, I suggest ending it, and remaining good friends. And that's good you want to be happy and try and get out of it before it possibly gets worse. Most girls might just sit there and take it. I hope I helped. <3
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Some people only want what they don't have. Maybe he had a crush on you, but lost interest now that he has you. Are you being clingy? That will drive anyone into hiding. Ignore him for a while and he may come running back, but don't play that game forever. I am so glad that you said you want to be happy! So many people are afraid of happiness or think they don't deserve it. You know that you do deserve it, so back off for a bit on having to be his number one on myspace and other little things. Give him his space, and if that does not work, then let it be. Tell him that you think the two of you should stay just friends.
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Well, obviously something is going on with him. I'd say that the best thing that you can do is attempt to talk to him about it. Remember: communication is the foundation to a good relationship. So, try to talk to him about it, and see whats wrong. Then, hopefully you can solve the problem issue and you can both be happy. I hope everything works out for you
-BlackBatman-
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I think hes doing this on purpose.I dont think you should confront him though because if you do,hell be happy about the fact that he succeded to pisss you off.Dont talk to him in a while and try to get over him.When you do call him up and tell him that your relationship is over.Or if you want to confront him you can tell him that hes been ditching you and that it pisses you off and he can deny it.
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