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really really confused


Question Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 7:37 pm

ok so theres this guy one of his friends keeps asking me if he were to ask me out then would i go out w/ him soo i guess he likes me but he doesnt even talk to me we went out one time nd we barely talked i do like him but i like this other guy too nd i dk what to do i dont want to hurt his feelings but hes so shy we never talk when i really liked him he wasnt interested nd this year all of a sudden i change my look nd got more popular he likes me so i dk....his friend keeps asking me if i like him nd stuff but i never kno what to say we talk online fine but when we're at skool he doesnt talk to me he gets nervous nd quiet nd stuff help!

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MelLeDisko answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:35 am:
Well, if with the first guy, you guys hardly talking is fixable. Just the next time he comes up to you, or you go up to him, just strike up a conversation about school, music, whatever and get to know him better. And just keep talking to him daily and I'm sure he won't mind since likes you.

With this second guy, he doesn't sound that great to me, now I know you like him, but come on. He suddenly starts liking you once you change your look and become more popular? If he didn't like you BEFORE, then your looks and popularity is probably the only thing he likes about you. Cause what if you weren't popular? Would he still like you? He didn't before, so I think not.

So, my advice is to try and go after this first guy and get to know him better and ask him to hang out with you sometime like, at the movies or something. And try and choose a funny one cause if you two are laughing, then you'll probably be feeling more relaxed and less nervous, and then there's lots of funny moments to talk about! I hope I helped. <3

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detriotgirl answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:09 am:
you need to go up to him and talk
and ih doesent talk to you
just say im looking for a communicateing
relationship

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