ok so theres this guy one of his friends keeps asking me if he were to ask me out then would i go out w/ him soo i guess he likes me but he doesnt even talk to me we went out one time nd we barely talked i do like him but i like this other guy too nd i dk what to do i dont want to hurt his feelings but hes so shy we never talk when i really liked him he wasnt interested nd this year all of a sudden i change my look nd got more popular he likes me so i dk....his friend keeps asking me if i like him nd stuff but i never kno what to say we talk online fine but when we're at skool he doesnt talk to me he gets nervous nd quiet nd stuff help!
With this second guy, he doesn't sound that great to me, now I know you like him, but come on. He suddenly starts liking you once you change your look and become more popular? If he didn't like you BEFORE, then your looks and popularity is probably the only thing he likes about you. Cause what if you weren't popular? Would he still like you? He didn't before, so I think not.
So, my advice is to try and go after this first guy and get to know him better and ask him to hang out with you sometime like, at the movies or something. And try and choose a funny one cause if you two are laughing, then you'll probably be feeling more relaxed and less nervous, and then there's lots of funny moments to talk about! I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
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